Uyini umzwelo nezinhlobo eziyinhloko

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• Izinhlobo eziyinhloko zemizwa
• 1. Ukwesaba
• 2. Ukudabuka
• 3. Injabulo
• 4. Ukunengeka
• 5. Intukuthelo
• Imiphumela yemizwa

Imizwelo yinto yomuntu siqu engadala umuzwa wenjabulo noma ukunganeliseki kusuka esimweni esithile futhi iziveza ngokusabela komzimba, njengokukhala, ukumamatheka, ukuqhaqhazela ngisho nalapho ubuso buba bomvu. Imizwelo yabantu ingathathwa njengeyinhle noma ibe yimbi futhi ingeyokuzalwa noma ifundwe ngokuhlala nabanye abantu.

Imizwelo ivamise ukuveza imizwa ngokuzenzekelayo futhi akwenzeki njalo ukuyilawula, njengoba ibandakanya uchungechunge lwezinto ezenzeka ebuchosheni. Kodwa-ke, lapho le mizwa idala ukuphazamiseka futhi ilimaza ubudlelwane bomuntu siqu nomsebenzi, kunezindlela zokufunda ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nemizwa kangcono, ngokwenza ukwelashwa kwengqondo, ngokwesibonelo. Bona okuningi ukuthi kuyini ukwelashwa kwengqondo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zemizwa, umuntu ngamunye ezwakalisa imizwa yakhe ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene, noma edlula ezimeni ezifanayo, njengoba umuntu ngamunye esabela ngokobunjalo, ubuntu nogqozi.

Izinhlobo eziyinhloko zemizwa

Umzwelo ukubonakaliswa kwemizwa yomuntu futhi kungaba ngezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene, noma kunjalo, ezinye izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo lapho zifunda imizwa zihlukanisa imizwa eyisisekelo, engadala imizwa emisha. Imizwa eyisisekelo eyinhloko yilena:

1. Ukwesaba

Kuyindlela umzimba ophendula ngayo kunoma yiluphi usongo noma ingozi, okwethula ngokwanda kokushaya kwenhliziyo, ukuphefumula okusheshayo nokuncipha kwemisipha. Isimo sobuso sibonakala ngokumangala, njengokuvula amehlo, isibonelo.

Imvamisa, lolu hlobo lwemizwa ludalwa yizimo, izinto nezilwane ezingadali ingozi futhi ezingaphenduka i-phobia, okuwukwesaba okuyihaba. Ukukhathazeka nakho kungadala ukwesaba, njengoba kubangela ukuthi umuntu azizwe kusengaphambili ukuthi umcimbi othile omubi uzokwenzeka. Bona okuningi ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu zokukhathazeka.

2. Ukudabuka

Ukudabuka luhlobo lomzwelo olwenzeka ikakhulu ngenxa yezimo zokulahleka futhi zivame ukuzwakala isikhathi sesikhashana. Lo muzwa ungadala ezinye izinhlobo zemizwa enjengecala, amahloni, ukuhlala wedwa, ukuzizwa ungelutho futhi kubonakala ngokukhala, isifiso sokulala ngokweqile kanye nokulahlekelwa ngumdlandla wokusebenza nokushiya indlu.

Lapho ukudabuka kujulile, asikho isizathu sokuba khona futhi kuyaqhubeka, kuyadingeka ukuthi uthintane nodokotela wezifo zengqondo, ngoba kungaba ukucindezeleka futhi lokhu kudinga ukusetshenziswa kwemithi ethile, njenge-anti-depressants. Bheka okuningi mayelana nokuthi ungahlukanisa kanjani ukudabuka kokudangala.

3. Injabulo

Injabulo imizwa ebonakala ngemizwa yenjabulo, ukwaneliseka, ukwaneliseka, yakha inhlalakahle futhi ukubonakala kobuso okusobala kakhulu ukumomotheka. Umuntu ojabulayo angaba ngumphumela wesimo esifana nokuthola isipho, ukuhlangana nabangane, ukuthola ukukhushulwa emsebenzini nokuba nomndeni.

Umuntu onamileyo angazizwa ejabule, enethemba, enamandla, ekhuthazekile, emnandi futhi angathuthukisa kangcono imisebenzi yansuku zonke, njengokusebenza, ngokwesibonelo.Lo muzwa uvamise ukushintsha kuyo yonke impilo, okungukuthi, umuntu angazizwa ejabule kakhulu ezimweni ezithile, noma kunjalo, ungahluka ngokudabuka.

4. Ukunengeka

Ukunengeka wumuzwa ongafaniswa nokunyanyeka noma ukunengeka futhi lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka ngokudla okuthile nephunga. Abantu banganengeka ngezinto ezahlukahlukene ngokwesiko labo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo.

Lolu hlobo lomzwelo lungaba ukuphendula komzimba ezimweni ezithile njengokukhulelwa futhi kungaba umphumela wokwelashwa nge-chemotherapy, ngokwesibonelo.

5. Intukuthelo

Intukuthelo imizwa enamandla engenzeka ngenxa yokwehluka nokungavumelani phakathi kwabantu, ngenxa yomuzwa wokungabi nabulungisa nokukhungatheka. Lo muzwa ungabonwa yinkulumo ehwaqabele futhi umuntu othukuthele uthambekele ekukhulumeni kakhulu futhi abe nolaka ngokwengeziwe.

Lapho intukuthelo idlulele, kuyadingeka ukuthola imbangela, ngoba lokhu kungalimaza ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu futhi kudale nezimo ezingqubuzanayo. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singuchwepheshe ongasiza abantu baqonde ukuthi kungani lo muzwa uzwakala kakhulu futhi angancoma ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo. Bona okuningi ukuthi ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo kwenziwa kanjani.

Imiphumela yemizwa

Imizwelo eyehlukene idalwa yizimo zangaphandle kanti okunye ukusabela okukhombisa imizwa kufaka:

• Isisu esibuhlungu;
• Khala noma uhleke;
• Ukunyakazisa, ikakhulukazi imilenze;
• Blush;
• Ukulahlekelwa yizwi lakho;
• Yizwa ukuphefumula noma inhliziyo yakho igijime.

Ngokunikezwa imizwa nokuziphatha umuntu anakho, kubalulekile ukuthi lowo muntu afunde ukubhekana nokusabela, ikakhulukazi uma kukubi. Thola ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani ku: 4 izinyathelo zokulawula imizwa engemihle.