UKatrina Scott Unika Abalandeli Bakhe Ukubuka Okungathi Sína Kokuthi Ukuzala Kwesibili Kubukeka Kanjani Ngempela

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Umsunguli we-Tone It Up u-Katrina Scott akakaze agweme ukuba sengozini nabalandeli bakhe. Uvulelekile ngokubaluleka kokubeka phambili impilo yengqondo futhi ubelokhu engagunci ngamaqiniso okuba ngumama omusha. Manje, wabelana ngokuthile okuqondene naye nakakhulu: umzabalazo wakhe nokungabi nabantwana kwesibili.

UScott usanda kungena ku-Instagram ukuze abelane ngeposi elibuhlungu lokuthi kungani ethule kangaka ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. "Lokhu amazwibela amancane wokuthi umhlaba wethu ububukeka kanjani muva nje," wabelane eceleni kwereli ekhombisa ukuthi bekunzima kangakanani ukuzama ukukhulelwa futhi.

Lesi siqeshana ukuhlanganiswa kwamavidiyo lapho uScott elawula khona okubonakala kungukujova kwamahomoni e-IVF esiswini sakhe, kungaba yena noma ngosizo lomndeni nabangane. Ngesinye isikhathi, ngisho nendodakazi yakhe u-Isabel oneminyaka engu-2 ubudala ubonakala emduduza futhi eqabula isisu sakhe lapho esanda kuthola khona umjovo. "Lolu hambo lube yikho konke kusuka ekudabukeni kwenhliziyo kuya ekudidekeni, futhi kumnyama bhuqe," kubhala uScott eceleni kwesondo. "Kodwa kungikhombisile ubuhle ethembeni, ebuntwini, nasekuphulukisweni. Ngempela bengingeke ngibe nesibindi sokuqhubeka nokuphuma ngaphandle kwenu nonke, umndeni wami, abangani, nodokotela nabahlengikazi abakholekayo." (Okuhlobene: Cha, Umuthi Wokugomela we-COVID Awubangeli Ukuzala)

Ukungabi nenzalo kwesibili, noma ukwehluleka ukukhulelwa ngemuva kokukhulelwa kalula ingane yakho yokuqala, akukhulunywa ngakho ngokungabi nenzalo okuyinhloko - kepha kuthinta abesifazane abalinganiselwa ezigidini ezintathu e-US (Qaphela: Ngenkathi uScott engakaze aqonde ngqo wathi ukukhulelwa okokuqala kwakuwumoya, futhi akazange abhale noma yiluphi uhlobo lohambo lokuzala ngalokhu kukhulelwa.)

"Ukungabi nenzalo kwesibili kungakhungathekisa futhi kudideke izithandani ezakhulelwa masinyane phambilini," kusho uJessica Rubin, ob-gyn ozinze eNew York phambilini. Umumo. "Ngihlale ngikhumbuza iziguli zami ukuthi kungathatha umbhangqwana ojwayelekile, onempilo unyaka ogcwele ukuze ukhulelwe, ngakho-ke ungasebenzisi isikhathi esazama ukukhulelwa ngaphambilini njenge-yardstick, ikakhulukazi uma kuyizinyanga ezintathu noma ngaphansi." (Okuhlobene: Yini u-Ob-Gyns Afisa Abesifazane Babekwazi Ngokuzala Kwabo)

Eposini likaMashi 2021 kubhulogi yakhe, Phila Kahle, UScott uhlanganyele nokuthi wake waphuphunyelwa yizisu kabili ngo-2020. Ngemuva kwalokho, "besinqume ukungayenzi i-IVF njeokwamanje, "wabhala kulo mbhalo." Cishe sahamba ngaleyo ndlela ngoJanuwari, kodwa udokotela wethu waseluleka ukuthi siphinde sizame. "Wabe esethola ukukhulelwa ngamakhemikhali, okuyigama lomtholampilo lokuphuphunyelwa isisu kusenesikhathi, okwenzeka lapho uku emasontweni amabili noma amathathu nje ekhulelwe. Kubonakala sengathi, kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, banqume ukuzama i-IVF. " wabhala ku-Instagram post. "Kodwa ngokushesha lapho ngiqalaza egumbini lokulinda, ngabona ukuthi asisodwa. Kungase kuhlukaniseke kakhulu uma sibamba izinto ngaphakathi... kodwa empeleni, sonke sikulokhu ndawonye. "

"Angazi ukuthi ikusasa liphetheni umndeni wethu, kodwa usuku nosuku ngibambelela ethembeni, ekukholweni nasothandweni," eqhubeka. (Related: Ngifunde Kanjani Ukuthemba Umzimba Wami Ngemva Kokuphuphunyelwa Kwesisu)

Ngokwazi ukuthi le nqubo ibinzima kangakanani, uScott usebenzise ipulatifomu yakhe ukunikela ngamagama okweseka amanye amaqhawe okuzala, ebazisa ukuthi ababodwa. "Kunoma ngubani ohlangabezana nokulahlekelwa, ukuhlukumezeka, ubunzima bokuzala ... noma nokungaqiniseki emandleni abo okunqoba izithiyo, ngifuna wazi ukuthi kuhlale kunokukhanya okukhanyayo kuwe," esho ehlanganyela. "Qinisekisa inhliziyo yakho phambili, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ufanelwe yindaba emnandi. Kulungile ukucela usizo futhi uthi udinga ukwesekwa."

Ngenkathi egcina imininingwane ingacacile, uScott ubashiyele abalandeli bakhe isibuyekezo esincane sokuthi yini elandelayo ohambweni lwakhe. “Ukubuyisa kwami ​​amaqanda namuhla, ngakho ngizobe ngiphumula futhi ngiyalulama,” ubhale kanje. I-ICYDK, ngesikhathi senqubo ye-IVF, amaqanda ayakhishwa kuma-ovari akho, afakwa isidoda ebhodini, bese amaqanda (ama) avundisiwe adluliselwa esibelethweni sakho, ngokusho kweMayo Clinic. “Ngifuna nazi nonke ukuthi ngibonga kakhulu ngemikhuleko yenu nokwesekwa kwenu,” kuqhuba yena. "Mina noBrian siyakuzwa futhi kusinika amandla angaphezu kwalokho esingawabeka ngamazwi."

Ephendula ekubeni sengozini kwakhe, amalungu amaningana omphakathi wokufaneleka abelane ngothando lwawo.

Umgqugquzeli wokuqina komzimba u-Anna Victoria, naye owazabalaza nenkinga yokuzala, unikeze uScott ukwesekwa kwakhe esigabeni sokuphawula. "Ngiyaziqhenya kakhulu ngawe ngokwabelana ngalokhu," kubhala umqeqeshi. "Ngiyethemba ukuthi ukubuyisa kwakho amaqanda kuhambe kahle futhi ukuqunjelwa ngemuva kokutholwa akukubi kakhulu noma kubuhlungu. Konke kuzokuzuzisa lokho !!!" (Kuhlobene: Uhambo Luka-Anna Victoria Lwangemva Kokubeletha Lumgqugquzele Ukuthi Ethule Izinhlelo Ezintsha Ngohlelo Lwakhe Lokufaneleka)

Omunye umqeqeshi, uHannah Bronfman naye wabelane ngamagama amnandi ebhala: "Ukwabelana ngendaba yakho kuzosiza abesifazane abaningi. Ngiyaziqhenya ngohambo lwakho futhi ngikuphathele isikhala sakho nawo wonke amaqhawe e-IVF laphaya!"

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