Ukudakwa Kakhulu? Khohlwa Ngokusika Kwe-Bartender

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Wake uvuke u-hungover bese ucabanga, "Ubani obecabanga ukuthi kulungile ukunginikeza utshwala obuningi bokudakwa?" Ungayeka ukusola ama-BFF akho noma wonke ama-Beyoncé ayewadlala: Uma ungowesifazane, i-bartender-yep, umuntu okufanele akunqamule-kungaba necala ngobuhlungu bakho. (Futhi funda ngalezi Zingozi Ezifihliwe Zeziphuzo Ezixubekile.) Ngokuya ngocwaningo olwenziwe yiNorway Institute of Alcohol and Drug Research eNorway, abadayisi basemathubeni amaningi okuthi baqhubeke nokunikeza utshwala kwabesifazane abadakiwe kunamadoda adakiwe.

Iqembu labalingisi besilisa nabesifazane elinento ethile engama-20 lifune ukuvivinya umthetho waseNorway ocabanga ukuthi uvimbela abadayisi ekukhonzeni abaxhasi abadakiwe. Bakwenze kanjani? Ngokushaya imigoqo engu-153 ebhizi kunazo zonke eNorway ngoLwesihlanu nangoMgqibelo ebusuku, sisebenza sidakiwe, futhi sibona ukuthi ngubani ongathola amaphuzu okugcwalisa (yimuphi umsebenzi, akunjalo?). Izimpelasonto ezimbalwa ezifiphele kamuva, ucwaningo luthole ukuthi ubudlwangudlwangu, izidakwa ezidakayo zabobulili obubili zisanikezwa amaphesenti angama-82 esikhathi. Futhi uma ungowesifazane, lelo nani likhuphukela kumaphesenti angama-95, uma kuqhathaniswa nabesilisa ngamaphesenti angama-67. Eziphuzweni ezingu-425 ezi-odwe "izidakwa," ama-oda angu-78 kuphela anqatshiwe. (Gwema neziphuzo ezimbi kakhulu zomzimba wakho.)

Kusuka kulo mbiko: "Ukusebenza ngokweqile kungenzeka kakhulu ngezikhathi zehora, ezindaweni lapho iningi labaxhasi belidakwe ngokusobala, ezindaweni lapho izinga lomculo beliphezulu khona, nalapho umphathi obedakwa mbumbulu bekungowesifazane." Okusho ukuthi: Uma ungowesifazane endaweni emnyama, enomsindo, egcwele abantu ebusuku (okujulile?), I-Hot Bartender ingase ikuphuke ngeziphuzo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi udakwe kangakanani.

Ama-bartenders agade abaxhasi babo akuzona izindaba ezisematheni, kodwa lokhu okutholakele okusha okuqondene nobulili kuyadida, uma kucatshangelwa ukuthi izifunda ezimbalwa zase-U.S. zingasola ibha uma udakiwe-ulimale endaweni yazo. Kepha akukhona ukuthi bonke abathengisela phansi badweba imidwebo-ngokuvamile, bazama nje ukugcina abashisekeli bajabule futhi bagweme izimpi. Ngobusuku bakho obulandelayo, zicabange ukuthi nguwe wedwa okufunayo-wazi ukuthi usenele yini futhi uzinqume.

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