Ungayiphatha kanjani i-Trichophilia, noma i-Hair Fetish

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• Yini imininingwane?
• Uzizwa kanjani?
• Ukukhulelwa noma ukuphazamiseka?
• Indlela yokuphatha
• Okubalulekile

I-Trichophilia, eyaziwa nangokuthi i-hair fetish, yilapho umuntu ezizwa evuswa ngocansi noma ekhangwa yizinwele zabantu. Lokhu kungaba noma yiluphi uhlobo lwezinwele zomuntu, njengezinwele zesifuba, izinwele zekhwapha, noma izinwele zasesidlangalaleni.

Kodwa-ke, ukugxila okuvame kakhulu kulokhu kukhanga kubonakala sengathi yizinwele zekhanda lomuntu. I-Trichophilia ingabonisa njengesisu sezinwele ezinde noma ezimfushane, isibungu esidonsa izinwele, noma isibungu sezinwele, phakathi kwabanye.

Ukuthandwa ngokocansi okubandakanya izinwele akuyona into engavamile. Kulungile ngokuphelele, inqobo nje uma ungalimazi abanye abantu.

Ngenkathi iphesenti langempela labantu abane-trichophilia lingaziwa, kungumntwana ongakhula abesilisa nabesifazane.

Lapha, sibheka ukuthi ingavela kanjani, izindlela abantu abaluthola ngayo lolu hlobo lwe-fetish, nokuthi bangaphila kanjani nalo.

Yini imininingwane?

I-Trichophilia uhlobo lwe-paraphilia. Ngokusho kodokotela wezifo zengqondo oqinisekisiwe uDkt.Margaret Seide, i-paraphilia ingukugxila kwezocansi kunoma yini enye ngaphandle kwezitho zobulili zomlingani ongumuntu omdala ovumayo.

I-Paraphilia, noma fetish, empeleni kuvame kakhulu kunalokho ongacabanga.

Ngokusho kocwaningo lwango-2016, cishe isigamu sababambiqhaza abangu-1,040 bazwakalisa intshisekelo okungenani esigabeni esisodwa se-paraphilic.

I-Trichophilia ingabonakala ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene. "Umuntu one-trichophilia angathola injabulo kwezocansi ngokubuka, ukuthinta, futhi ezimweni ezingavamile, ngokudla izinwele," kusho uSeide.

“Abantu abaningi abane-trichophilia babika ukuthi badonswa yizinwele kusukela besebancane futhi bakhangwa yizikhangiso ze-shampoo ezinenwele ezivelele,” kuchaza uSeide.

Imvamisa bakhangwa uhlobo oluthile lwezinwele. Isibonelo, izimbangela ze-trichophilia zingafaka:

• izinwele ezinde futhi eziqondile
• izinwele ezisontekile
• izinwele zombala othile
• izinwele ezifakwe ngendlela ethile, njengama-roller
• ukuphatha izinwele ngendlela ethile ngesikhathi sezenzo zocansi, njengokudonsa

Ubuye aveze ukuthi kwabanye abantu, ukuthinta izinwele nje kungaletha umuntu ku-orgasm.

UDkt. Gail Saltz, uprofesa ohlangene wezifo zengqondo eNew York Presbyterian Hospital, eWeill-Cornell Medical College, uthi isisu sezinwele singabandakanya noma yiluphi uhlobo lombala, ukuthungwa, noma isici sezinwele. Kungabandakanya noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuxhumana nezinwele ezifana nokubukeka, ukuthinta, noma ukuzilungisa.

Uzizwa kanjani?

Izimpawu ze-trichophilia, noma ukuthi zikwenza uzizwe kanjani, zincike ohlotsheni lwezinwele nezimo ezibanga ukuvuka.

Lokhu kungahluka kumuntu ngamunye. Kepha ngokujwayelekile, ukuba nesisu sezinwele kumane nje kusho ukuthi uthola injabulo yezocansi entweni - kulokhu, izinwele zomuntu.

Lokho kungasho ukuthi uthola injabulo ngokugunda izinwele, noma uzwa imizwa evusa inkanuko ngenkathi ubuka ukuthengisa kwe-shampoo.

Kungakhathaleki ukuthi ukhetha ini, uma uthola ukuthi izinwele zikhuthaza inkanuko, uSaltz uthi ngokuvamile akuyona inkinga. Kungenye yezinto eziningi abantu abazithokozisayo njengengxenye yempilo yabo yezocansi.

Lokho kusho ukuthi uveza ukuthi uma izinwele zidinga ukuba ngumthombo wokuqala wokuvuselela inkanuko ukuze kufezekiswe ukwaneliseka ngokocansi, isibungu sesiphenduke into ebucayi kakhulu.

Ukukhulelwa noma ukuphazamiseka?

Uma i-trichophilia idlulela ngaphezu kokukhetha okuvamile kocansi futhi ibangela ukucindezeleka kuwe noma kwabanye, udokotela angakuthola ukuthi unesifo se-paraphilic.

Ngokwe-edition yakamuva kakhulu ye-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), abantu abanesifo sokuphazamiseka ngokweqile bazokwenza lokhu:

• uzizwe ucindezelekile ngomuntu onentshisekelo ngaye, hhayi nje usizi olubangelwa ukungamukeleki komphakathi; noma
• ube nesifiso sobulili noma ukuziphatha okubandakanya ukucindezeleka kwengqondo, ukulimala, noma ukufa komunye umuntu, noma isifiso sokuziphatha ngokocansi okubandakanya abantu abangafuni noma abantu abangakwazi ukunikeza imvume esemthethweni

USeide uthi i-trichophilia ithathwa njengesifo lapho iletha ukungasebenzi empilweni yansuku zonke noma ibangela ukucindezeleka kumuntu.

"Kwezokwelapha ngokwengqondo, lokhu sikubiza nge-egodystonic, okusho ukuthi akusahambisani nenkolelo yalo muntu noma ngokuhambisana nalokho abazifunela kona," kuchaza yena.

Isibonelo, kusho uSeide, kungaba uma umuntu eqala ukwenza ngokuvumelana nokuthinta izinwele zomuntu ongavumi.

Uyanezela: "Ukushayela kokusebenza kwesibungu kungaba namandla kakhulu futhi, ngeshwa kwesinye isikhathi, kungadlula ukwahlulela okungcono komuntu," uyanezela.

Ngenxa yalokhu, uSeide uthi kungaletha amahloni nosizi olukhulu kumuntu, futhi bangazizwa behlushwa noma benganengeka ngemicabango yabo.

Lapho i-trichophilia iqala ukuphazamisa izibopho zansuku zonke, uSeide uthi kuyinkomba yokuthi sekuyinkinga.

Isibonelo, umuntu onalolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka kweparaphilic angaqala ukukhombisa ukufika sekwedlule isikhathi emsebenzini ngoba uchitha isikhathi esiningi ngokweqile kumawebhusayithi e-fetish.

"Ngaleso sikhathi, sesidlulile saba yisimo se-pathological esiphazamisa impilo futhi esiholela emiphumeleni emibi," kuchaza yena.

Indlela yokuphatha

Uma i-trichophilia iguquka kusuka embungwini iye ekuphazamisweni, kunezinto ongazenza ukunciphisa izifiso nokuphatha kangcono isimo.

Njengoba lingekho ikhambi le-trichophilia, uSeide uthi ukwelashwa kuzogxila ekuphathweni kwalesi simo.

Lokho kusho ukuthi uveza ukuthi ukwelashwa kunconywa kuphela uma isimo siholela ekuphazamisekeni empilweni yakho, noma uzizwa uhlushwa yizifiso.

"Uma wenza ngokuvumelana nalezi zifiso ngaphakathi kobudlelwano bokuvumelana nomunye umuntu omdala ongakhathazwa yilezi zimoto, ukungenelela akuboniswa," kuchaza yena.

Kodwa-ke, uma i-trichophilia idala izinkinga, noma uthola ukuthi unesifo, uSeide uthi kunezindlela ezimbalwa zokwelashwa:

• Amaqembu okuzisiza. Ngenxa yokufana kwayo nokulutha (ukumelana nesifiso sokwenza izifiso), i-trichophilia ingabhekiswa phakathi kwamaqembu okuzisiza ngokuya ngemodeli yezinyathelo eziyi-12.
• Imithi. Imithi ethile ingasetshenziselwa ukunciphisa i-libido yakho. Lokhu kufaka phakathi i-medroxyprogesterone acetate (Depo-Provera) kanye ne-serotonin reuptake inhibitors ekhethiwe (SSRIs).

Okubalulekile

I-Trichophilia isisu socansi esibandakanya izinwele zomuntu. Uma nje kungekho olimalayo, emzimbeni noma emphefumulweni, futhi kwenziwa phakathi kwabantu abadala abavumayo, ochwepheshe bathi kungaba yingxenye ethokozisayo yempilo yakho yezocansi.

Uma ngabe lesi fetish siphazamisa imisebenzi yakho yansuku zonke noma ubudlelwane, noma sidala ukulimala komunye umuntu, cabanga ukubona uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo. Banamathuluzi okuxilonga nokwelapha i-trichophilia.