Lawa "Amakhondomu Wokuvuma" Athatha Abantu Ababili Ukuvula Iphakheji

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Imvume ingahle ingabi yindaba ebaluleke kunazo zonke, kepha lapho ingxoxo evulekile akuyona kuyakhuthazwa, ukuyakha phakathi kwakho nomlingani wakho kungawa kalula ngasendleleni — ikakhulukazi lapho izinto zishisa. Yingakho inkampani yase-Argentina yamathoyizi ocansi iTulipán idale "amakhondomu emvume," adinga abantu ababili ukuthi bavule iphakheji. (Okuhlobene: "Ukuntshontsha" Ukuhlukunyezwa Ngokocansi Kuyisikhathi Esifanele Futhi Isikhathi Sokuthi Umthetho Usibone Kanje)

Udidekile? Ungabi-empeleni ngumqondo olula uma usubona.

Nakhu ukuthi isebenza kanjani: Ikhondomu ifakwe ngaphakathi kwebhokisi elincane, eliyisikwele, futhi kufanele ucindezele wonke amakhona amane epakethe (kunezinkinobho ohlangothini ngalunye ezibonisa ukuthi ucindezele kuphi) ngasikhathi sinye ukuze uyivule.

“Leli phekhi lilula ukulivula njengoba liqondakala kalula ukuthi uma lingasho ukuthi yebo, lisho cha,” kufundeka umbhalo ohunyushiwe ohambisana nezikhangiso zevidiyo. "Imvume yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ocansini." (Okuhlobene: Izindlela ezi-3 Zokuzivikela Ekuhlaselweni Ngokocansi)

ITulipán ingahle ikhiqize amathoyizi ocansi, kepha inkampani ikholelwa ukuthi injabulo nemvume kuyahambisana. "UTulipán uhlale ekhuluma ngenjabulo ephephile, kepha kulo mkhankaso sasiqonda ukuthi kufanele sikhulume ngento ebaluleke kakhulu kubo bonke ubudlelwano bezocansi: injabulo ingenzeka kuphela uma nobabili nivuma kuqala," kusho okhulumela i-BBDO Argentina, i-ejensi yezikhangiso edale umklamo, kusho isitatimende ku Isonto. (Okuhlobene: Ungayithola Kanjani Injabulo Engaphezulu Ngezikhundla Ezivamile Zobulili)

"Ikhondomu yemvume" ayithengiswa e-Argentina; okwamanje, uTulipán usabalalisa igama ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi ehambisa amasampula amahhala emigoqweni eBuenos Aires, ngokusho I-New York Post.

Uma umbono wokuthi "ikhondomu yokuvuma" uzwakala ungahambi kahle, kulungile, lelo phuzu. Ukukhuluma ngokuvuma kuyinto ngezinye izikhathi, ikakhulukazi uma ungafuni ukulimaza noma ukwala umlingani wakho, kusho u-Sherrie Campbell, Ph.D., umeluleki onelayisensi, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, kanye nomeluleki womshado nomndeni.

Imvume ivame "ukulahleka" kulokho kwesaba ukwenqatshwa, uyachaza. "Singathanda ukukumela lokho esikufuna ngempela emzamweni wokungalimazi omunye umuntu; okwamanje, siyazilimaza," esho. Umumo.

Cishe owesifazane oyedwa kwabahlanu nowesilisa oyedwa kwabangu-71 bazohlukunyezwa ngokocansi esikhathini esithile ezimpilweni zabo, ngokusho kweNational Centre Violence Resource Centre. Ngaphezu kwalokho, cishe isigamu sezisulu zabesifazane sihlaselwa ngumlingani osondelene naye. "Ikhondomu yemvume" ngeke iguqule lezi zibalo, kodwa izoshintsha kwenza umele isinyathelo esiqonde ngqo. Sikhuluma kakhulu ngokuvuma kulezi zinsuku kunanini ngaphambili, kufaka phakathi ukuthi lezo zingxoxo nomlingani wezocansi empeleni zibukeka kanjani. Lapho konke kushiwo futhi kwenziwa, umugqa ovulekile wokuxhumana uyindlela engcono yokudlula noma yikuphi inkinga eyinkimbinkimbi. (Okuhlobene: Imithelela Yokuhlukunyezwa Ngokocansi Kokubili Impilo Yengqondo Nokomzimba, Ngokusho Kocwaningo Olusha)

"Ukukhuluma ngocansi kudinga ukubekezela, umusa, nokuqonda, sithemba ukuthi uma umlingani wethu esithanda ngokujulile, uzohlonipha izidingo zethu zemingcele," kusho uDkt Campbell. "Akekho umuntu okufanele afune ukuya ocansini nomuntu azi ukuthi akakhululekile noma akakakulungeli."

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