23 Amaqiniso Esitho Sobulili Ofuna Ukutshela Bonke Abangane Bakho

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• 1. Imomozi yakho akuyona eyangasese lakho, kodwa siyazi ukuthi uqonde ukuthini
• 2. Abantu abaningi abakwazi i-orgasm kusuka ekungeneni kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kuphela
• 3. Akubona bonke abantu abanezitho zangasese abangabesifazane
• 4. Ama-vagina adabuka ngesikhathi sokubeletha, kepha lokhu kuyinto ejwayelekile
• 5. Uma une-'G-spot, 'kungenzeka kungenxa yesigaxa sakho
• 6. I-clitoris ifana nethiphu leqhwa
• 7. I-'A-spot ': Isikhungo senjabulo esingaba khona?
• 8. Ama-cherry awaqhamuki. Futhi ngicela siyeke ukubabiza ngama-cherry?
• 9. Ingquza ineziphetho eziphindwe kabili kunalezo zomthondo
• 10. Ama-vagina kufanele abe nephunga
• 11. Isitho sangasese siyazihlanza. Ake lenze into yalo
• 12. Ungaba ‘manzi’ ngaphandle kokuvuswa ngocansi
• 13. Ama-vagina ajulile uma sikhanyisiwe
• 14. Futhi zishintsha umbala
• 15. Ama-orgasms amaningi awashabalalisi umhlaba futhi lokho kulungile
• 16. Ungakhuphula izinsimbi ngesitho sakho sangasese
• 17. Abanye abantu banezitho zangasese ezimbili
• 18. Ingquza nomthondo zihlanganyela emakhaya
• 19. Ukubeletha akweluli isitho sangasese unomphela, kepha lindela izinguquko ezithile
• 20. Awungeke ulahlekelwe yimfashini - noma yini - esithweni sakho sangasese
• 21. Usayizi nendawo yengquza yakho ibalulekile nge-orgasm
• 22. Uma ukhulelwe, izingubo zakho zangaphansi ziba yisilayidi esincane ‘n slide
• 23. Unamajaqamba? Isitho sakho sangasese singakusiza ngalokho

Ulwazi lungamandla, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngezitho zangasese. Kepha kukhona kakhulu yolwazi okungelona laphaya.

Okuningi esikuzwayo mayelana nokukhula kwama-vaginas - akufanele banuke, bayelula - akuyona nje kuphela into engalungile, kodwa futhi kungasenza sizwe zonke izinhlobo zamahloni nokucindezeleka okungadingekile.

Ngakho-ke sihlanganisa inqwaba yamaqiniso ayiqiniso ngokuphelele mayelana nama-vaginas nama-vulvas ukukusiza ukuthi uzulazule ngamanga amakhulu futhi wazi umzimba wakho ngobuhle bawo bonke.

1. Imomozi yakho akuyona eyangasese lakho, kodwa siyazi ukuthi uqonde ukuthini

Isitho sowesifazane sangasese siwumsele onemisipha ongama-3 kuya kwangu-6 ubude ubude osuka emlonyeni wesibeletho, ingxenye engezansi yesibeletho, uye ngaphandle komzimba. I-vulva yizo zonke izinto zangaphandle - kufaka phakathi i-labia, i-urethra, i-clitoris, nokuvulwa kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane.

Kufanele uwazi umehluko ngoba kunika amandla ukuqonda ukwakheka komzimba wakho futhi ngoba kungasiza noma kudingeke ngisho nokwehlukanisa phakathi kwalokhu okubili - ngokwesibonelo, lapho uzikhohlisa uzakwethu.

Kepha uma uzithola ubhekisisa ngokunganaki endaweni yakho yonke ezansi njengesitho sakho sangasese, ungayijuluki. Ulimi luyamanzi phela.

2. Abantu abaningi abakwazi i-orgasm kusuka ekungeneni kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kuphela

Uxolo, Freud. Amaphesenti angaphezulu kwe-18 wabanikazi bezitho zangasese athi angafinyelela i-orgasm kusuka ekungeneni kuphela. Kwamanye amaphesenti angama-80, isithako esiyinhloko se-orgasmic yi-clitoris.

Abanye abantu bangathola i-orgasm yesitho sangasese sowesifazane kanye ne-clitoral ngasikhathi sinye, ebizwa nangokuthi "i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe," engazwakala ingajwayelekile kepha ifinyeleleka ngokuphelele. Kukhona nemizimba eminingi enempilo ngokuphelele engavamisile noma engafiki yonke kwi-orgasm.

3. Akubona bonke abantu abanezitho zangasese abangabesifazane

I-genitalia ayiyona inkomba yobulili futhi kungalimaza ukucabanga kanjalo.

Kunabantu abaningi abanesitho sangasese abangasibo abesifazane. Bangakhomba njengendoda noma okungeyona eyokuphikiswa.

4. Ama-vagina adabuka ngesikhathi sokubeletha, kepha lokhu kuyinto ejwayelekile

Bamba izinsimbi ze-movie ezethusayo - le yingxenye ejwayelekile yokubeletha futhi umzimba wakho wenzelwe ukubuyela emuva.

Amaphesenti angaphezu kwangu-79 wokudiliva kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane afaka ukudwengula noma kudinga ukusikwa. Lokhu “kulimala” kungaba izinyembezi ezincane noma ukusika okude (okubizwa ngokuthi i-episiotomy) okwenziwe ngamabomu ngumhlinzeki wezokunakekelwa kwezempilo lapho, ngokwesibonelo, ingane ibekwe ezinyaweni kuqala noma ukubelethiswa kudinga ukwenzeka ngokushesha.

Kuyethusa? Yebo. Akunakunqotshwa? Hhayi ngokudubula okude.

Isitho sakho sangasese siyaqina futhi, ngenxa yokutholakala kwegazi eliningi, empeleni kuphulukisa ngokushesha kunezinye izitho zomzimba.

5. Uma une-'G-spot, 'kungenzeka kungenxa yesigaxa sakho

Isiko le-Pop belikhathazeke kakhulu nge-G-spot amashumi eminyaka, okuholele abaningi ekuzizweleni ngengcindezi yokuthola indawo okuthiwa i-erogenous hotspot.

Kepha-ke kwehlulekile ukuthola indawo ye-G futhi olunye ucwaningo olukhulu lwathola abantu abangaphansi kwekota yesine abanama-vagina kuvuthondaba kusuka ekungeneni kuphela. Ngakho-ke abukho ubufakazi obuqinile bokuba khona kwe-G-spot's anatomical.

Uma uthanda ukuba nodonga lwangaphambili lwesitho sakho sangasese sithintwe noma lukhuthazwe, inethiwekhi yangaphakathi ye-clitoris yakho kufanele ibonge.

6. I-clitoris ifana nethiphu leqhwa

Ngokomlando, i-clitoris beyiqondwa njengeqoqo lamaphethelo elilingana nepea elicoshwe ngaphansi kwesikhumba esibizwa nge-clitoral hood, njengoba ihlaya elibi kakhulu lihamba, amadoda abenenkinga enkulu yokuthola.

Ubukhulu bangempela be-clitoris abuzange butholakale emphakathini kuze kube ngu-2009, lapho iqembu labaphenyi baseFrance lenza imodeli ephrintiwe engu-3-D yesikhungo senjabulo.

Manje siyazi ukuthi i-clitoris yinethiwekhi ebanzi yokuphela kwemizwa, iningi layo elikhona ngaphansi komhlaba. Ukufinyelela ithiphu ngamasentimitha ayi-10, kumise okwethambo lesifiso elinezinhlangothi ezine. Kubukeka kunzima kakhulu ukukugeja.

7. I-'A-spot ': Isikhungo senjabulo esingaba khona?

I-anni fornix, noma i- "A-spot," i-alcove encane ehlala emuva emuva ohlangothini lwesisu somlomo wesibeletho, ibanga elihle elijule esithweni sangasese kune-G-spot.

Ngokuya ngocwaningo lwango-1997, ukuvuselela i-A-spot yakho kuyindlela elula yokwakha ukuthambisa okwengeziwe esithweni sangasese. Akukona lokho kuphela, amaphesenti we-15 wabahlanganyeli ocwaningweni afinyelele i-orgasm kusuka ku-10 kuya kumizuzu ye-15 yokukhuthaza kwe-A-spot.

8. Ama-cherry awaqhamuki. Futhi ngicela siyeke ukubabiza ngama-cherry?

Iningi labantu abanezitho zangasese bazalwa benesidleke, isiqeshana esincanyana sesikhumba eselulela engxenyeni yokuvuleka kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane.

Naphezu kwalokho okungenzeka ukuthi uke wakuzwa, ngeke nanini empilweni yakho lolu cezu lwesikhumba ‘luqhume.’ Akusilo isicucu segamu le-bubble, phela.

AmaHymeni ajwayele ukudabuka ngaphambi kokuba umuntu eze ocansini olungene kakhulu, ngesikhathi somsebenzi ongaqedi njengokushayela ibhayisikili noma ukufaka itampon. Kodwa futhi kujwayelekile ukuthi iculo liklebhuke ngesikhathi socansi, lapho kulindeleke khona igazi elincane.

9. Ingquza ineziphetho eziphindwe kabili kunalezo zomthondo

Ipipi elidume ngokuzwela linokuphela kwezinzwa ezingama-4,000. I-clitoris edume ngokuthi “okunzima ukuyithola” inezinkulungwane eziyisishiyagalombili.

Zonke izizathu zokunikeza i-clitoris yakho ukunakwa okuyifanele.

10. Ama-vagina kufanele abe nephunga

Lokhu kufanele kube ulwazi olujwayelekile manje kepha akusilo. Iqiniso? Isitho sangasese sowesifazane siqukethe ibutho lamagciwane elikhethekile kakhulu elisebenza ‘ubusuku nemini ukugcina i-pH yakho yangasese iphilile futhi ilinganisile.

Futhi njengamanye amabhaktheriya, lawa anephunga.

Ngakho-ke ukuthi ubumnandi obukhetheke kakhulu kwesinye isikhathi uthola isichitho kuyinto ejwayelekile futhi akukho okudinga ukumbozwa ngomzimba ogezekayo ogezwa noma amakha. Vele, uma uqaphela iphunga elisha elingajwayelekile noma elibuhlungu, bheka udokotela.

11. Isitho sangasese siyazihlanza. Ake lenze into yalo

Ibutho elishiwo ngenhla lamagciwane akhethekile akhona ngenhloso eyodwa yokugcina i-pH yakho yangasese isezingeni elifanele ukugwema amanye amabhaktheriya anobutha.

Kuyinto evamile ngokuphelele ukubona ukuphuma - okungaba mncane noma kukhulu, kucace noma kube mhlophe - kuma-undies akho ekupheleni kosuku. Lokhu kungumphumela wemizamo yakho yokuhlanza sowesifazane sangasese.

Amasu wokuhlanza afana ne-douching awumqondo omubi ngoba angalahla le bhalansi yemvelo, okuholele ezinkingeni ezinjenge-bacterial vaginosis kanye nokutheleleka.

12. Ungaba ‘manzi’ ngaphandle kokuvuswa ngocansi

Lapho isitho sangasese sowesifazane simanzi, umuntu kumele ufuna ukwenza ucansi angithi? Akulungile. Ama-Vagina angaba manzi ngenqwaba yezizathu.

AmaHormone abangela ukuthi kukhishwe amafinyila wesibeletho nsuku zonke. I-vulva inezindlala eziningi zomjuluko. Futhi, ama-vaginas angakhiqiza ngokuzenzekelayo ukuthambisa lapho ethintwa, ngaphandle kokuvuka. (Isimo esibizwa ngokuthi i-arousal non-concordance, yilokho.)

Khumbula: Ubumanzi besitho sangasese sowesifazane kufanele angikaze kuthathwe njengesibonakaliso sokuvuma. Imvume kufanele ishiwo ngomlomo. Isikhathi.

O, futhi i-pee ivame ukuthola indlela yayo ku-vulva.

13. Ama-vagina ajulile uma sikhanyisiwe

Ngocansi emqondweni, isitho sowesifazane sangasese sivula iminyango yaso.

Imvamisa, isitho sowesifazane sangasese sikhona phakathi kwamasentimitha ama-3 kuye kwayi-6 ubude, no-1 kuye ku-2.5 inches ububanzi. Ngemuva kokuvuka, ingxenye ephezulu yesitho sowesifazane iyaqina, icindezele umlomo wesibeletho nesibeletho ngokujulile emzimbeni wakho ukuze kuvuleke indawo yokungena.

14. Futhi zishintsha umbala

Uma uqhanyelwe, igazi ligijimela esithweni sangasese nakwisitho sakho sangasese. Lokhu kungenza umbala wesikhumba sakho kuleyo ndawo ubonakale umnyama.

Ungakhathazeki nokho, izobuyela emthunzini wayo ojwayelekile ngemuva kokuphela kwesikhathi se-sexy.

15. Ama-orgasms amaningi awashabalalisi umhlaba futhi lokho kulungile

Ukuvezwa kweshashalazi kwabezindaba ngokweqile kokuthi kubukeka kanjani kune-orgasm kudale izinga elingeyona iqiniso lokuthi iyiphi i-orgasm kufanele kube. Iqiniso liwukuthi, ama-orgasms eza ngazo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu - futhi lokho kusho ukuthi ukuluma izindebe noma ukugoba emuva akumele kubandakanyeke.

Ama-orgasms amaningi amafushane futhi amnandi, kanti amanye azizwa enamandla amakhulu futhi ajulile. Zama ukungalungiswa kakhulu ngosayizi we-orgasm yakho. Khumbula, ucansi luhambo, hhayi indawo.

16. Ungakhuphula izinsimbi ngesitho sakho sangasese

Ukuphakamisa izinsimbi zesitho sangasese sowesifazane - isenzo sokufaka i-‘hange ’esithweni sangasese sowesifazane esinamathiselwe esisindweni sentambo - singaphezu kokuchofoza isicupho sokuthambisa, empeleni kuyindlela yokuqinisa iphansi lakho le-pelvic.

Umqeqeshi wezocansi nobudlelwano uKim Anami ungummeli wezwi lokuzivocavoca. Uthi izicubu zesitho sowesifazane ezinamandla zingenza ucansi luhlale isikhathi eside futhi luzizwe lungcono.

17. Abanye abantu banezitho zangasese ezimbili

Ngenxa yokungajwayelekile okungajwayelekile okubizwa nge-uterus didelphys, inani elincane kakhulu labantu empeleni linemisele emibili yesitho sangasese sowesifazane.

Abantu abanama-vaginas amabili basengakhulelwa futhi babelethe ingane, kodwa kunengozi enkulu kakhulu yokuphuphuma kwesisu nokusebenza ngaphambi kwesikhathi.

18. Ingquza nomthondo zihlanganyela emakhaya

Ekuqaleni, yonke imibungu inalokho okubizwa ngokuthi igebe lobulili. Kokubili imibungu yabesilisa nabesifazane, umqolo awuhlukani.

Bese kuthi ngesonto le-9 ngemuva kokukhulelwa, le nyama yezimbungu iqala ukukhula ibe yinhloko yepipi noma i-clitoris ne-labia majora. Kepha iphuzu ukuthi, sonke siqala endaweni efanayo.

19. Ukubeletha akweluli isitho sangasese unomphela, kepha lindela izinguquko ezithile

Ezinsukwini ngqo ngemuva kokubeletha isitho sangasese sowesifazane, isitho sakho sangasese kanye nemomozi yakho kungenzeka uzizwe ulimele futhi uvuvukile. Kujwayelekile futhi ukuthi isitho sakho sangasese sowesifazane sizizwe sivuleke ngokwengeziwe kunokujwayelekile ngenxa yomuntu osanda kudlula.

Kepha ungakhathazeki, ukuvuvukala nokuvuleleka kuyehla ezinsukwini ezimbalwa.

Bese kuba khona ukoma. Umzimba wangemva kokubeletha wenza i-estrogen encane, okuyiyona ebhekele ukuthambisa kwamagciwane esithweni sangasese. Ngakho-ke uzozizwa womile jikelele ngemuva kokubeletha, futhi ikakhulukazi lapho uncelisa ngoba lokhu kuqhubeka kucindezela ukukhiqizwa kwe-estrogen.

Yize isitho sakho sowesifazane sangasese sizohlala siyi- okuncane ebanzi kunangaphambi kokubeletha, ungagcina imisipha yakho yesitho sangasese sangasese iphilile futhi iphilile ngokuzijwayeza umzimba ovamile oketshezi lwangasese.

20. Awungeke ulahlekelwe yimfashini - noma yini - esithweni sakho sangasese

Lowo mzuzu wokwethuka ngesikhathi socansi lapho uqaphela wena nakanjani ukubeka itampon ngalolo suku ekuseni? Yebo, sonke besikhona. Kepha ungakhathazeki, i-tampon yakho izohamba kuze kube manje.

Ekugcineni okujulile kwesitho sakho sangasese kukhona umlomo wakho wesibeletho, ingxenye engezansi yesibeletho sakho. Ngesikhathi sokubeletha, umlomo wakho wesibeletho uyavuleka - uvuleke - njengoba ingane idlula. Kodwa sonke isikhathi umlomo wakho wesibeletho uhlala uvaliwe, ngakho-ke awukwazi ukuthola noma yini elahlekile ngephutha noma unamathele lapho.

Kodwa-ke, okuvamile ukukhohlwa nge-tampon izinsuku noma ngisho amasonto. Uma kunjalo kungahle kuqale ukukhipha iphunga elibolile, elifile lomzimba.

Yize kuphephe ngokuphelele ukuzama ukukhipha itampon ekhohliwe ngokwakho, ungahle uthande ukubona udokotela ukuze aqiniseke ukuthi uthola zonke izingcezu.

21. Usayizi nendawo yengquza yakho ibalulekile nge-orgasm

Ngokuya ngocwaningo lwango-2014, isizathu sokuthi abanye abantu abanezitho zangasese babe nenkinga yokugcobana ngesikhathi socansi lokungena kungenziwa ngenxa yesigaxa esincane esiseduze kakhulu nokuvulwa kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane.

22. Uma ukhulelwe, izingubo zakho zangaphansi ziba yisilayidi esincane ‘n slide

Ukuze uvikele wena kanye nomuntu omncane okhulayo ngaphakathi kuwe ekuthelelekeni, isitho sakho sangasese siyaqhubeka nokuhlanza okuholela ekusakazweni okungaguquguquki kokukhishwa. Lindela inani lokukhishwa ukuze liqhubeke landa njengoba ukukhulelwa kwakho kuhamba phambili.

Ungalindela ukuthi ukukhishwa kube mncane futhi kucace kumbala obisi kuze kube yisonto lokugcina lokukhulelwa lapho kuzothatha umbala obomvana.

Akufanele nanini inuke pungent noma inhlanzi, noma ibe nokuthungwa okuyisinqamu, ngakho-ke uma kwenza kungcono ukubona udokotela.

23. Unamajaqamba? Isitho sakho sangasese singakusiza ngalokho

Zama ukuzinika i-orgasm ukukhuthaza ukukhishwa kwamakhemikhali azizwa kahle njenge-dopamine ne-serotonin. Imiphumela yokwehlisa izinhlungu engokwemvelo yalawa makhemikhali inganciphisa ubuhlungu obuvela ezinkalweni zokuya esikhathini, futhi ukukhanya okulandelayo kwe-orgasm kuyayekelela imisipha.

Lapho ushaya indlwabu, abanye abantu bayakujabulela ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi noma ukubukela okuthile oku-sexy ukuze bangene esimeni sengqondo. Futhi uma unesifiso sokuzithinta ngezindlela ezintsha ezijabulisayo, hlola umhlahlandlela wethu kuma-orgasms abesifazane.

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