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• 'Kuzwakala kusondelene impela ... [ngikutshengisa [ngomgogodla] wami umgodi wami omkhulu,' uhlekisa. 'Lona umgodi wami omusha webhubhu!'
• Kusukela ngokuhlinzwa kwakhe kwe-ileostomy, uHannah ubelokhu ejwayela i-stoma yakhe - {textend} futhi impela kube wukulungiswa.
• Ngokwethula uMona emhlabeni, uHannah unethemba lokuqeda ukucwaswa empilweni nge-stoma.

Kusekhona imfihlakalo eminingi (kanye nenhlamba) yama-stomas azungezile. I-vlogger eyodwa ifuna ukushintsha lokho.

Hlangana noMona. Uyisitoma. Ngokuqondile, uyisikhundla sikaHannah Witton.

UHannah uyi-vlogger futhi umbhali wencwadi ethi “Doing It: Ake Sikhulume Ngocansi.”

Kunezinto eziningi eziyimfihlakalo ezizungezile (kwesinye isikhathi ezibizwa ngokuthi i-ostomy noma i-ostomy bag), okuholele ekutheni uHana enze isinqumo esinesibindi futhi esengozini: Wabelana noMona nezethameli zakhe zababukeli abangaphezu kwengxenye yesigidi ukukhombisa ukuthi zinjani iziqu.

UHana wayefuna ababukeli bakhe - {textend} nabantu emhlabeni jikelele - {textend} babone ukuthi impilo ene-stoma ayethusi kangako, futhi ukuba nayo akuyona into onganamahloni ngayo.

Lokho akusho ukuthi kwakulula ukuvula ngakho, noma kunjalo.

'Kuzwakala kusondelene impela ... [ngikutshengisa [ngomgogodla] wami umgodi wami omkhulu,' uhlekisa. 'Lona umgodi wami omusha webhubhu!'

Yize kungeyona neze "imbobo enkulu," incazelo kaHana ayikude kakhulu.

“Inthanethi, hlangana noMona,” kusho uHannah. Uveza isikhwama esibomvu, esimanzi esifakwe embotsheni esiswini sakhe, esivumela imfucuza ishiye umzimba wakhe futhi idlule ohlelweni lokugaya ukudla.

Kusebenza kanjani ngempela? Ngamagama alula kakhulu, kuhilela ukuthatha ucezu lwamathumbu amancane noma ikholoni ebese ithungelwa kwi-ostomy, noma ukuvula, ngesikhwama esincamathele ukuqoqa imfucuza.

Endabeni kaHana, i-stoma yakhe empeleni iyi-ileostomy. Lokhu kusho ukuthi i-stoma yakhe yenziwa kusukela ekugcineni okuphansi kwethumbu lakhe elincane. UHana une-ulcerative colitis, uhlobo lwesifo samathumbu esivuthayo (IBD) esenzeka lapho ulwelwesi lwamathumbu amancane luvuvukala. Wayene-ileostomy yakhe ngemuva kokuqhuma okukhulu.

Kusukela ngokuhlinzwa kwakhe kwe-ileostomy, uHannah ubelokhu ejwayela i-stoma yakhe - {textend} futhi impela kube wukulungiswa.

Kudingeka ajwayele ukuthi ukunakekela i-stoma nsuku zonke kunjani. UHana ushintsha isikhwama sakhe nsuku zonke, yize abanye abantu abaneziqu beguqula isikhwama sabo kanye noma kabili ngesonto, kuya ngomzimba nezidingo zabo.

Enye yezinselelo zakhe ezinkulu ngemuva kokuhlinzwa ubelokhu eshintsha amandla akhe amasha namandla. UHannah waqala ukusebenzisa umhlanga wokuhamba ukumsiza ukuthi ajikeleze ngemuva kokubona ukuhlinzwa okugcwele okube nomthelela emzimbeni wakhe.

Ukhumbula usuku olunzima kakhulu nomngani wakhe, bezama ukugibela isitimela esasesizosuka. Ngenkathi besanda kuphumelela, lelo deshi eliya esitimeleni lamqeda amandla.

“Ijubane lami livele langicekela phansi ngokuphelele. Nganginobuhlungu obukhulu futhi ngangingakwazi ukuphefumula ngempela. Ukushaya kwenhliziyo yami kukhuphuke ngokushesha okukhulu, kwangathi ngivele ngavivinya umzimba ngokweqile, ”kuchaza yena.

Ngemuva kokuhlinzwa, uHana ufunda ukwazisa umzimba wakhe omusha futhi aqonde amandla awo njengoba elapha. “Izinto ezinkulu ziyangehlula nje manje,” kusho yena, okungumuzwa abantu abaningi abakhubazekile nabagula izifo ezingapheli abangaqonda ngawo esikhathini esithile.

Ushintsho olunzima, futhi uHana kwesinye isikhathi ufisa sengathi angenza okungaphezu kwamandla akhe. Unenkinga yokuzikhuthaza ngaphezu kwamaphrojekthi amancane, njengokudala nokulayisha ividiyo esiteshini sakhe se-YouTube. “Anginawo amandla okwenza imisebenzi emikhulu ngempela,” usho kanje.

Ngokwethula uMona emhlabeni, uHannah unethemba lokuqeda ukucwaswa empilweni nge-stoma.

Ngemuva kwakho konke, yizitomi ezinjengoMona ezinikeza abantu abanjengoHana impilo engcono, nokuyinto okufanele ibhiyozelwe.

UHana usamazi (futhi uyamthanda) uMona. Usacabanga ukuthi angawazisa kanjani futhi awamukele umzimba wakhe, ngenkathi ezivumela ukuthi azizwe imizwa eyinkimbinkimbi ngezinselelo zayo, futhi - {textend} njengokuthi ucabanga nge-stoma yakhe njengesesekeli noma njengengxenye yomzimba wakhe.

UHannah uthi: “Ngizama ukuqonda ukuthi kufanele ngihlobane kanjani ne- [stoma] sami.

Manje unethemba lokuthi wonke umuntu one-stoma uzizwa sengathi angakhuluma ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo - {textend} okuhle, okubi, nokuxakile okuqondile - {textend} ngaphandle kwamahloni.

U-Alaina Leary U-Alaina Leary ungumhleli, umphathi wezokuxhumana nomlobi waseBoston, eMassachusetts. Njengamanje ungumsizi womhleli we-Equally Wed Magazine futhi ungumhleli wezokuxhumana wenhlangano engenzi nzuzo Sidinga Amabhuku Ahlukahlukene.