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• UDemi Moore no-Ashton Kutcher
• UKim Kardashian noKris Humphries
• USandra Bullock noJesse James
• U-Scarlett Johansson noRyan Reynolds
• U-J-Lo no-Marc Anthony
• UCharlie Sheen noBrooke Mueller
• U-Arnold Schwarzenegger noMaria Shriver
• U-Ashlee Simpson noPete Wentz
• UCourteney Cox noDavid Arquette
• U-Eva Longoria noTony Parker
• Buyekeza kwe-

Kwesinye isikhathi inkulumo ethi "ubudlelwano bosaziwayo" iyodwa ifana ne-oxymoron. Umshado unzima njengoba unjalo, kepha phonsa kwingcindezi yaseHollywood futhi, ezimweni eziningi; kuyindlela yokuthola inhlekelele ephikisana nanoma yimuphi umbhalo we-movie. Naphezu kokucwebezela nokukhazimula kwesithombe sika-A-lister, "Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukungalindeli ukuphelela," kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sase-Beverly Hills uDkt. Fran Walfish. "Sonke singabantu abanamaphutha futhi kubalulekile ukukuvuma lokho futhi siziphendulele ngamaphutha ethu namaphutha ethu."

Lapha, sihlukanisa ubudlelwano bosaziwayo abayishumi obuye baba muncu nokuthi yini ebingenzeka ukuze babasindise.

UDemi Moore no-Ashton Kutcher

Ngomehluko weminyaka engu-15 ubudala, izingqinamba zanqwabelana ngokumelene nalaba bantu ababili kusuka ekuqaleni. Kodwa bakwazile ukukwenza iminyaka eyisithupha, ngaphambi kokuthi amahemuhemu okukopela okulandelanayo kuka-Kutcher agcine efake i-kibosh kulo mbhangqwana onothando waseKabbalah (uMoore umemezele ngokusemthethweni ukuthi ufaka isehlukaniso ngoNovemba 17).

"Okubizwa ngokuthi" ama-cougars "noma ubudlelwano bendoda esencane nabesifazane bebelokhu bukhula, kepha ake sithole okwangempela, akunakwenzeka ukuthi bazohlala isikhathi eside," kusho uKriger. Ukholelwa ukuthi, esimweni sikaKutcher, bekumnandi isikhashana kepha lapho injabulo ibisiphelile, bebengenakho okuningi abafana ngakho ukuwagcina bejabule eMishadweni Engcwele.

Ingasaphathwa eyokuthi, izinyathelo zabo zonke ezingezinhle zilandelwe futhi zabikwa kunoma ngubani ozolalela. UMiller uthi: “Ukube wonke umbhangqwana owake waba neqhubu emgwaqweni ubufakwa kukhava yawo wonke amamagazini emhlabeni, besiyophatheka kabi,” kusho uMiller.” Nakuba ukuchayeka ngokweqile kungase kube imbangela, uTessina uthi, kwakufanele kube khona U-Donaghue uyavuma: "Bengingatshela laba ababili ukuthi bakhumbule ukuthi yini eyabenza bathandane kwasekuqaleni."

UKim Kardashian noKris Humphries

Njengoba i-ping-pong ka-he / said / she-said iqhubeka kwabezindaba nezinsolo zokuthi konke bekungumbhedo, kunzima ukuqonda ukuthi konakelephi kulo mshado "owenzelwe i-tv" owangena esiswini ngaphezu nje kwezinyanga ezimbili. "Okuthile ngempela Kubi kufanele ukuthi kwenzeke ukuqeda lo mshado ngokushesha okungaka," kusho uTina Tessina, udokotela wezifo zengqondo osebenza eSouthern California.

Noma ingabe amakhamera angaba necala? "I-TV yangempela yenza i-TV enhle, hhayi ubudlelwane," kusho u-Allison Pescosolido, ongumsunguli we-Divorce Detox. Uchwepheshe wezobudlelwano uLindsay Kriger uyavuma ukuthi uKardashian ukudlala impilo yakhe ukuze wonke umuntu abone kungenzeka kube yiphutha emshadweni wakhe. "UKim noKris babematasa kakhulu besakaza ubudlelwano babo kwi-reality TV, abazinikanga isikhathi sokuqinisekisa ukuthi busebenza ngokoqobo," kusho uKriger. "Yize uKim ezenzele imali njengehhashi lombukiso kumabonakude, kubonakala sengathi akekho owamtshela ukuthi uma kukhulunywa ngothando, inyunyana yezinganekwane" ayinaku-odolwa kuGilt. "

UChris Donaghue, umsingathi wochungechunge olusha lwe-LOGO Ucansi Olubi, inezeluleko ezithile ze Ukuhambisana namaKardashian's inkanyezi. “Yeka ukujaha izinto ezicwebezelayo bese ufaka isikhathi nokuzikhandla okudingekayo ukuze umshado usebenze isikhathi eside,” usho kanje. "Umshado awufani nemfashini-ngenkathi eyodwa futhi uphume olandelayo!" UKardashian kufanele asebenzise amakhono afanayo amenza aphumelele kakhulu kwezamabhizinisi ebudlelwaneni bakhe besikhathi esizayo, kusho uKriger. "Ngaphandle kokuzimisela kwezinhlangothi zombili ukuxoxisana nokunikezana nokuthatha, umshado awunathemba."

USandra Bullock noJesse James

Njengoba le ndaba idlale kabuhlungu emibikweni yezindaba ezweni lonke, USandra Bullock uwine ivoti lozwela futhi wavuma ukuphinga Jesse James waba ngumuntu omubi. Kuyaxaka ukuthi Uhlangothi Oluyimpumputhe umlingisi wagcina ngokuba ungaboni ngokwakhe, ebumnyameni ngokuphelele ngezindlela zokukopela zomyeni wakhe. Kodwa abanye baqagula ukuthi ukungalingani kwemisebenzi yabo okugcine kuholele ekulimaleni kobudlelwano babo. "Sekukonke, ngicabanga ukuthi laba bebelingana kahle, kodwa nginokusola ukuthi umsebenzi wakhe okhuphukayo kanye nokuhlonishwa kwakhe njengokuwina kwakhe u-Oscar kugcine kumlimazile ubudoda bakhe," kusho uTessina.

Yize kungekho noyedwa uchwepheshe wethu othatha uJames ngecala lakhe lokudala uthuthuva emshadweni, uDonaghue ucabanga nokuthi kungenzeka ukuthi kwakuwumsebenzi kaBullock owadudula uJames-wangena ezingalweni zabanye abesifazane. "Ngingathanda ukwazi ukuthi uSandra wayexhumana kanjani nomyeni wakhe ngenkathi yena ehlala engekho eshutha ama-movie." Uyanezela, "Othile kufanele abazise ukuthi ubudlelwano abuqhubeki ngokuzimela, noma ngabe umatasa kangakanani." Nakuba bonke ochwepheshe bethu bevuma, ukwelashwa nakanjani kulungiselelwe u-James, u-Brooke Miller, we-Soapboxtherapy.com uthemba ukuthi uSandra uzofunda ukuthanda nokwethemba futhi. "Ekugcineni, uzokwazi ukuvula inhliziyo yakhe kumuntu ofuna izinto ezifanayo azifunayo."

U-Scarlett Johansson noRyan Reynolds

Abalingisi ababili abashisayo baseHollywood ngesikhathi sokuqala komsebenzi wabo-kuzwakala njengomdlalo ophelele, akunjalo? Hhayi ngokushesha okungaka - laba bobabili bebelibangise e-splitsville zisuka nje bathi ochwepheshe bethu. "Akumangazi ukuthi indoda eyeSexiest Man Alive kanye nowesifazane ocansini kakhulu onyakeni ibhangqene, kodwa futhi akumangazi ukuthi bahlukanisa ngemuva kweminyaka emibili nje kuphela," kusho uKriger. "Kubukeka kuyinto ejwayelekile eHollywood."

Ngenkathi lesi sehlukaniso besinokuthula, asizanga ngaphandle kokusolwa ngumphakathi. UJohansson wathi uRyan "wayesekude kakhulu" kuyilapho uReynolds ephikisana noJohansson "wayezimele kakhulu futhi ethinteka ngokomzwelo." "Siyakwamukela kulokhu esikubiza ngokuthi impilo," kusho uDonaghue. "Ngaphandle kokuthi uhlela ukudela imisebenzi yakho, nobabili kungcono nifunde ukubekezelela ibanga, ukulawula imizwelo yenu nokuqonda ukuzidela."

U-J-Lo no-Marc Anthony

Imishado embalwa eyehlulekile ngaphansi kwebhande ngalinye futhi ngezifundo ezitholakele, laba bangani asebenesikhathi eside baphenduka abathandi baseLatin babonakala bedalelwe impilo ende neyenjabulo ndawonye. " UJennifer Lopez uphatha ubudlelwano njengomnyango ojikelezayo futhi kubukeka sengathi uhlala ejaha lokho okuphakeme ekuqaleni komunye, "kucabanga uDonaghue.

Kepha, ngokusho kukaMiller, u-Anthony ubukeka ethwala kakhulu icala. "[U-Anthony] wayethandane no [Lopez] iminyaka eminingi futhi embuka ethola uthando kuzo zonke izindawo ezingafanele. Lapho ekugcineni ebona ukuthi ufanelwe uthando nothando, wabona ukuthi ungumuntu wangempela hhayi iphupho, futhi konke kwahlakazeka."

UTessina ucabanga ukuthi lokhu bekuyindaba yokushayisana kwemisebenzi kanye no-ego "s." Akulula ukubusa indlu enamandla njengo-J-Lo. Ngisola ukuthi indoda enamandla njengo-Anthony izizwe iphephile kuye isikhashana kodwa ekugcineni yaphenduka umbango wamandla. "

UCharlie Sheen noBrooke Mueller

Ngeshwa, igama elilodwa kuphela elifika engqondweni uma kuziwa emshadweni oqhuma phakathi UCharlie Sheen nonkosikazi wesithathu Brooke Mueller, kanye nemicimbi eye yenzeka ngokuhamba kwezinyanga ezimbalwa: iTreakrerere. "Uma imilutha emibili ihlangana, nakanjani izoluthana bese iyiphutha ngothando," kuchaza uMiller. "Kuwumthambeka oshelelayo uma usuthola ukuthi umane nje ushintshela omunye umlingani wakho izidakamizwa-izidakamizwa."

Ngenkathi uSheen ehlushwa amahemuhemu wokusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa, ukuya emaphathini nokulutha iminyaka ngaphambi kokushada noBrooke, ukugula ngengqondo kwabonakala kuyimbangela yezinkinga zalo mshado. "Iseluleko sami ku-Brooke kungaba ukunaka kangcono impilo engokomzwelo yomlingani wakho olandelayo," kusho uTessina, "awukwazi ukushada nomuntu ukuze umsindise kuye."

U-Arnold Schwarzenegger noMaria Shriver

Kubonakale kuwumshado wezincwadi, oqhubeka isikhathi esingaphezu kwekota yekhulu leminyaka, kuze kube yimibiko eshaqisayo iveze umlingisi nowayengumbusi waseCalifornia U-Arnold Schwarzenegger ubenengane yothando eyimfihlo nentombazane eseyisebenze isikhathi eside-futhi wayimboza iminyaka eyishumi. "Ngicabanga ukuthi uMaria wachitha iminyaka ebheka izindlela zika-Arnold zokufuna abesifazane waze wathola ukuthi kukhona udaba olwalungaphansi kwekhala lakhe. Lowo kwakuyisivumelwano," kusho uTessina.

UMiller ucabanga ukuthi ukugcina leso sithombe sokuphelela isikhathi eside kwaba nzima kakhulu ukusisingatha. "Ukwenza iphutha ngoba ungumuntu njengoba kwenza u-Arnold, kodwa ukukuvala bese uqhubeka nempilo ngendlela engakaze yenzeke ekugcineni kudale ukuguguleka kwesisekelo sayo yonke into oyimele. Kancane kancane uyabhidlika futhi ubudlelwano buyashabalala futhi lokho kuphelele. i-façade ifika phansi."

Wengeza uKriger, "Sethemba ukuthi isivumelwano sakhe sencwadi esiyizigidi ezingama-15 sizosiza ekunciphiseni obunye ubuhlungu. Isifundo sothando sodumo esisendaweni yokuqala-uma enuka okhohlisayo, mhlawumbe kuyinto okhohlisayo. "

U-Ashlee Simpson noPete Wentz

Nakuba imishado ye-"rockstar" ibonakala ineshalofu elifushane kakhulu kunezinye izici zomkhakha wezokuzijabulisa, Ashley Simpson futhi Pete Wentz wayebonakala ejabule futhi esothandweni-waze wafaka isicelo sesehlukaniso eminyakeni emibili nje kuphela ngemuva kokuthola indodana uBronx.

UMiller uthi: “Ukuthi ungusaziwayo akusho ukuthi ngeke uwele endaweni evamile yokuhlukana ngemva kokuba nengane,” kusho uMiller. Uyanezela, “Kubonakala sengathi basesigabeni se-honeymoon yobuhlobo babo ukuthola indodana yabo kanye nezibopho, ukwesaba nezinselelo zokuba ngabazali kumoshe kakhulu. "

U-Donaghue ubona sengathi lokhu bekuwukubaleka nje uma isimo sesinzima. "Ukudlala ngothando, ukuhlukunyezwa nokugqashuka ngokomzwelo emphakathini akuwenzi umshado ojabulisayo. Bekudingeka ngempela ukuthi babeke imingcele futhi bayeke ukwamukela ukuziphatha kobuntwana."

Futhi nakuba ukuba ngumama kwakubonakala kumphulukisa u-Ashlee ezindleleni zakhe eziqinile, akuzange kube njalo kuPete. "Lona kwakuwumbhangqwana wangempela wephathi, ongazange ufihle ngakho. Kodwa lapho umntwana efika, intombazane yephathi u-Ashlee yakhula ngokushesha futhi yaqala ukuthatha impilo ngokungathí sina kuyilapho uPete engagibelanga isitimela sabantu abadala." Lapho leso sitimela esivamile siphuma esiteshini, u-Ashlee washiya uPete ngemuva.

UCourteney Cox noDavid Arquette

Lobu budlelwano kwakubonakala sengathi bakhelwe ukuhlala isikhathi eside, ngisho nangamazinga we-showbiz. UCourteney Cox futhi UDavid Arquette kungenzeka ukuthi bahlangane kusethi yefilimu kodwa akekho obengabikezela ukuthi inyunyana yabo yeminyaka eyishumi nanye izogcina isiyi-box office flop. Ngaphandle kwalokho, laba bobabili bebengabazali bobabili indodakazi eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala uCoco futhi kubikwa nokuthi bakha i-TV sitcom ndawonye. "Kubonakala sengathi, phakathi nesikhathi somshado, u-Courteney wakhula futhi uDavid wahlala endimeni yengane. Kodwa manje njengoba babenengane yangempela, u-Courteney wanquma ukuthi wayengeke abe ngumama kubo bobabili, "kusikisela uMiller.

Uma ukuba khona kwakhe ezilalelini zomunye wemincintiswano kaDavid Ukudansa Nezinkanyezi nganoma yisiphi isibonakaliso, lo mbhangqwana kungenzeka ukuthi ungomunye wabahlukanisi abathandekayo nabathandekayo baseHollywood. "Kungenzeka kube ukuphela kwesistimu yomndeni evele ngandlela thize," kusho uMiller, "kodwa lokhu akukaze kube umbhangqwana ofuna ukubheka ingxenye."

U-Eva Longoria noTony Parker

Lapho umlingisi omuhle eshada nomsubathi omuhle ngokulinganayo, wonke umuntu wayezicijela bona. Ngemuva komshado wenganekwane yaseParis, lezi zithandani zanquma ngemuva kweminyaka emithathu nje kuphela, "zafuna izinto ezihlukile" futhi zafaka isicelo sesehlukaniso. I-catalyst? Ukutholakala kukaLongoria kwamakhulu emiyalezo engafanele afonele omunye wesifazane ocingweni lukaParker.

"Ngitolika isitatimende esithi" bafuna izinto ezihlukile "sisho ukuthi wayefuna umuntu oyedwa, impilo yomshado futhi usafuna ukuba umdlali, ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwezinkantolo," kusho uTessina. UMiller uyavuma. "Ubeyifuna yonke ikhithi-n-caboodle futhi kusobala ukuthi akafuni." Ngenkathi u-Longoria amukela indima kaNkk Tony Parker, umyeni wakhe wayebonakala egcina ukuzazi kwakhe yedwa. "Uma umuntu elahlekelwa ubuwena ebudlelwaneni, empeleni akusabobudlelwano," kusho uMiller. "Kuba umbukiso womuntu oyedwa."

Kodwa, u-Eva owayehlale eqiniseka wazifunela okwengeziwe futhi waqhubeka nomfana omncane futhi oshisayo. "Isoka elishisayo, elisha liyibhendi elikahle lenhliziyo ephukile," kusho uPescosolido.

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