U-Hilary Duff Uvula Ngesinqumo Sakhe Sokuyeka Ukuncelisa Ibele Ngemva Kwezinyanga Eziyisithupha

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Siyazifela nge Omncane inkanyezi u-Hilary Duff ngezizathu eziningi. Owokuqala Umumo ikhava intombazane uyisibonelo esihle somzimba ongenankinga nokuyigcina ingeyangempela nabalandeli bakhe. Icala ngephuzu: isikhathi avula ngaso ukugubha isitho somzimba "wayengasithandi njalo".

Nokho, muva nje, unqume ukuvulela abalandeli bakhe isifuba nakakhulu ngokwabelana ngesinqumo sakhe sokuyeka ukuncelisa indodakazi yakhe uBanks ezinyangeni eziyisithupha. Encwadini ebhalwe ngemizwa, umlingisi uthe ukuyeka lo mkhuba kuyisinqumo sawo wonke umuntu wesifazane nokuthi, uma ungumama, kulungile ukubeka izidingo zakho phambili.

"Ngingumama osebenzayo wababili," kusho uDuff. "Inhloso yami bekuwukwenza intombazanyana yami ibe yizinyanga eziyisithupha bese nginquma ukuthi mina (kanye nayo) sifuna ukuqhubeka yini."

Wengeze ngokuthi uhlelo lwakhe lomsebenzi oluhlanyayo lwenza kube nzima nakakhulu ukuthi ampompe. "Ukumpompa emsebenzini kuyabheda," ubhale kanje.

Ku-Duff, ukupompa kusethi ye Omncane imvamisa kwakusho ukuhlala esihlalweni, kwi-trailer, ezungezwe ngabantu ngenkathi enza izinwele zakhe nezimonyo zakhe.

"Noma ngabe nginobukhazikhazi bekamelo lami kodwa akuthathwa njengekhefu ngoba kumele uhlale uqonde ukuze ubisi lugeleze emabhodleleni!" wabhala. "Lapho-ke kufanele ngithole indawo yokuhlanza amabhodlela futhi ugcine ubisi lwakho lubanda."

Kwabe sekuba nodaba lokuncipha kobisi lwakhe.

"Ukunikezwa kwakho ubisi kwehla kakhulu lapho uyeka ukondla kaningi futhi ulahlekelwe ukuthintana nokuxhumana ngqo nengane yakho," ehlanganyela. "Ngakho bengizidla zonke izigaxa zezimbuzi ze-fenugreek zebusisiwe thistle fennel cookies / drops / shakes / pills engingakuthola!

Ngenkathi uhambo lwakhe lokuncelisa ibele lwaluyinselele ngezinye izikhathi, u-Duff akakwazanga ukubonga kakhulu ngethuba lokondla indodakazi yakhe isikhathi eside njengoba enza.

“Ngakho konke lokhu kukhalaza, ngifuna ukusho ukuthi ngijabulele (cishe) umzuzu ngamunye wokondla indodakazi yami,” kubhala yena. “(Ngangizizwa nginenhlanhla enkulu ngokusondela kakhulu kuye futhi ngamnika isiqalo. Ngiyazi ukuthi abesifazane abaningi abakwazi ukukwenza lokho, ngiyazwelana futhi ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokuthi ngikwazi. Izinyanga eziyisithupha ezimangalisayo. "

Kodwa kwafika lapho uDuff azi khona ukuthi udinga ukuzibeka yena kuqala. "Bengidinga ikhefu," ubhale kanje. "Bengizophula. Ngokucindezelwa kokwehla kobisi kanye nengane eyayinesithukuthezi noma ingenandaba nokuncelisa lapho ngitholakala. Ngangibuhlungu futhi ngikhungatheka futhi ngizizwa ngisehluleki ngaso sonke isikhathi. "

UDuff akuyena yedwa ozizwa ngale ndlela. Ngonyaka odlule, uSerena Williams wabelana ngokuthi "wakhala kanjani kancane" ngemuva kokuyeka ukuncelisa indodakazi yakhe u-Alexis Olympia. "Emzimbeni wami, [ukuncelisa ibele] akuzange kusebenze, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngisebenze kangakanani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngenze okuningi kangakanani; akuzange kungisebenzele," esho ngesikhathi kunengqungquthela yezindaba ngaleso sikhathi.

Ngisho no-Khloé Kardashian wayenomuzwa wokuthi lo mkhuba wawungamfanelanga. "Kwakunzima ngempela kimi ukuyeka (ngokomzwelo) kodwa bekungasebenzeli umzimba wami. Ngokudabukisayo, "wabhala kuTwitter ngonyaka odlule.

Ngenkathi kunenqwaba yomama ngaphandle lapho abangenankinga yokuncelisa izinyanga, uma kungenjalo iminyaka, akuyona neze eyabo bonke abantu. Yebo, kunezinzuzo eziningi zokuncelisa, kepha abanye besifazane ngokwemvelo abalukhiqizi ubisi olwanele, ezinye izingane azikwazi "ukubambelela," ezinye izindaba zezempilo zingavimbela lo mkhuba ngokuphelele, futhi kwesinye isikhathi kubuhlungu kakhulu. (Related: Ukuvuma Kwalomfazi Okudabukisayo Ngokuncelisa Ibele Kungu-#SoReal)

Kungakhathalekile ukuthi siyini isizathu, ukukhetha ukungalincelisi kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu — okungekho mama okufanele abe namahloni ukusenza. Kungakho kubalulekile ukuthi osaziwayo bacobelelane ngolwazi nabanye besifazane okungenzeka ukuthi bazizwa benecala ngesinqumo sabo sokuyeka ukuncelisa.

Kulabo besifazane, uDuff uthi: "(Ngandlela thile) sinamathele kumuzwa wokuthi singenza okuthe xaxa njalo. Singabantu abaphumelele kakhulu njengesihogo. Ngimangele ngakho konke esingakwenza ngosuku olulodwa! Lokho kuzenzela mina, abangani bami, umama, noma udadewethu! Bengifuna ukuxoxa ngalokhu ngoba ukunquma ukuyeka iBFing bekukhathazekile futhi kunzima. "

Ekupheleni kosuku, ukuyeka ukuncelisa kwakuyisinqumo esazuzisa uDuff nosana lwakhe—futhi yilokho okubaluleke kakhulu.

“Kuyangijabulisa ukusho ukuthi angizange ngidlise noma ngingakaphumi ezinsukwini ezintathu futhi kuyaxaka ukuthi ungaphuma ngokushesha kangakanani ngakolunye uhlangothi,” ebhala ephetha iposi lakhe. "Ngizizwa ngikahle futhi ngijabule futhi ngikhululekile futhi ngingenangqondo kangangokuthi ngaze ngagcizelela kakhulu kukho. Amabhange ayachuma futhi ngiba nesikhathi esengeziwe naye futhi ubaba uthola ukwenza ukudla okwengeziwe! Futhi umama uthola ubuthongo obuthe xaxa!"

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