Kungani u-Olivia Munn Efriza Amaqanda Akhe Futhi Ucabanga Nawe Kufanele Ukwenze

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Nakuba ukuqandisa kwamaqanda sekuneminyaka eyishumi kukhona, kusanda kuba yingxenye evamile yengxoxo yamasiko mayelana nokuzala nokuba ngumama. Icala ngephuzu: Yenziwe yaba ngenye yama-sitcom athandwa kakhulu asakazwa njengamanje. Vuliwe Iphrojekthi ye-Mindy, Umlingiswa kaMindy Kaling uqala uhlelo emtholampilo wakhe wokuzala obizwa ngokuthi 'Kamuva, Ingane' amantombazane angama-20-nto ukuze afrize amaqanda awo. Futhi manje bayanda osaziwayo abakhuluma ngokuphathwa nje kuphela, kodwa beza nesizathu esenza banqume ukuqanda amaqanda abo.

Okwakamuva ukwenza kanjalo u-Olivia Munn oneminyaka engama-35, owabelana nge-podcast ka-Anna Faris ukuthi wamisa "iqanda lamaqanda akhe" eminyakeni eyedlule. (Ufuna ulwazi olugcwele ngale nketho yokuzala? Nakhu Konke Odinga Ukukwazi Ngokuqandisa Amaqanda.)

U-Munn ukhuluma ngokuthi intombi yakhe yathola kanjani ukuthi "inesibalo samaqanda sowesifazane oneminyaka engu-50 ubudala," futhi wayehlobene ngeminyaka efanayo no-Munn ngaleso sikhathi. Ngemuva kokuzwa indaba yomngani wakhe, lo mlingisi waya kudokotela wayohlola igazi ukuthola amathuba akhe okuzala. Nakuba udokotela emtshela ukuthi unamaqanda amaningi, wanquma ngaleso sikhathi ukuwaqanda njengomshwalense, uchazela uFaris. (Ama-PS Ngabe AmaQanda Aqanda Amaqanda Yindlela Yenzalo Yamuva?)

"Empeleni ngaqala ukutshela abangani bami ngayo, ngoba ayisekho ohlwini lokuhlola," esho ngesikhathi se-podcast. "Ngicabanga ukuthi wonke amantombazane kufanele akwenze." (Uqinisile, uqanda iqanda, noma i-oocyte cryopreservation, kuthathwe njengokungekho 'okokuhlola' emuva ngonyaka we-2012 yi-American Society of Reproductive Medicine, ekhombisa isimo sayo njengokwelashwa okujwayelekile kokuzala.)

UMunn uqhubeka achaze izizathu ezintathu (ezisemthethweni) zokuthi kungani: awudingi ukujaha iwashi noma udele umsebenzi wakho; umboziwe uma kwenzeka noma yini eyenzeka kwezokwelapha (njengomdlavuza) engathinta ukuzala kwakho; kunika abesifazane ukuguquguquka okufana nokwabesilisa ukuba babe nezingane, ngisho nakumashumi amane abo. (Ngubani ophethe umhlaba? Yebo.)

"Kufana nokuba nefa; ukuhlela okuhle nje," kuvuma uFaris. "Kufana nokuthi kungani ungenzi?" Kusho uMunn.

Empeleni, ukungabi nazimali kungenye yezinto ezingaba khona: Inqubo ibiza cishe ama- $ 10,000, kanye ne- $ 500 ngonyaka yokugcina. Kepha uma ukwazi ukuyijika (noma uyazi, ungumlingisi ohlu olungu-A kumabhayisikobho amakhulu e-franchise anjenge X-Men), Kwenze! Kudos kuya eMunn ngokuqhubeka nokuvula le ngxoxo eyinkimbinkimbi yokuzala nokukhulelwa.

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