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Ukulahlekelwa ngamakhilogremu angu-115 akuyona into elula, yingakho uMorgan Bartley ayeziqhenya ngokwabelana ngentuthuko yakhe emangalisayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Ngeshwa, esikhundleni sokubungaza impumelelo yakhe, i-Instagram isuse isithombe sokulahlekelwa isisindo somuntu oneminyaka engu-19 ngaphambi nangemva ngaphandle kwesizathu.

I-FWIW, imihlahlandlela yomphakathi ka-Instagram ayikubekezeleli "ukusondelwa kwezinqe ezinqunu ngokuphelele," "okuqukethwe okuqukethe izinsongo ezinokwethenjelwa noma inkulumo enenzondo," kanye "nezinsongo ezinkulu zokulimaza ukuphepha komphakathi nezomuntu" - kepha okuthunyelwe nguMorgan akwenzi yephula noma yimiphi yale mithetho. Zibheke.

Ebona ukuthi okuthunyelwe kwakhe akwephuli mithetho, uMorgan uphinde wafaka isithombe sokuqala ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule ngamagama-ncazo anika amandla. "Ngihlanganyela ngohambo lwami ku-inthanethi ngethemba lokukhuthaza abanye ukuthi balawule izimpilo zabo," usho amazwibela esithombeni esisha, esesizuze ukuthandwa okungaphezu kuka-17,600. "Ngicabanga ukuthi kuyabamangaza abantu ukuthi baveza ukunganaki kokuthile ngezinhloso ezinhle kuphela, KODWA yingakho sigqolozela sigcwele uthando futhi ukukhanya kwenza umehluko." (UMorgan bekungeyena yedwa owesifazane okwenzekile lokhu. Lo mqeqeshi wokuzivocavoca ushaye izandla emuva kokuthi inkundla yezokuxhumana isuse isithombe sikamakhalekhukhwini wakhe.)

Lesi akusona okokuqala ingane ithumela isithombe soguquko kuye, futhi ukufika endaweni lapho akhululeke khona ukuwathumela bekungelula. Ngenkathi uMorgan evuma ukuthi ubhekene nobunzima impilo yakhe yonke, ezinye izinkinga zempilo zenze ukuthi ukulahlekelwa isisindo kube nzima kakhulu. Lapho eneminyaka engu-15 kuphela ubudala kwatholakala ukuthi une-ovarian torsion, isimo esibuhlungu esabangela ukuba alahlekelwe esinye sezibeletho zakhe. Kamuva, waqala ukukhombisa izimpawu zokunqamuka kokuya esikhathini okwaba yisizathu sokukhathazeka ngamandla akhe okuba nezingane kamuva empilweni. Lezi zindaba zibeka uMorgan ukucindezeleka okujulile okumenza aqale ukudla ngokweqile, okwaholela ekutheni isisindo sikaMorgan sifinyelele ngaphezulu kwamakhilogremu angama-300. Imibhalo yakhe eminingi ye-Instagram ichaza indlela ayezizwa ngayo sengathi umzimba wakhe uyamkhaphela, futhi wasebenzisa ukudla njengendlela yokubaleka. (Ngabe ukudla ngokweqile ngempela uma kwenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile kuphela? Sitholile.)

Kepha wayazi ukuthi kukhona okudinga ukuguquka.

“Ngithathe isinqumo sokuphinde ngilawule umzimba wami ngisindise impilo yami,” kusho yena. Ukwazi ukuthi ukudla ukudla nokuzivocavoca kwakungasizanga esikhathini esedlule, uMorgan wakhetha ukuhlinzwa esiswini, kepha wayazi ukuthi ukuhlinzwa kwakuyithuluzi lokusiza ekwehliseni isisindo hhayi isisombululo sakhe saphakade noma kuphela. Selokhu alahlekelwa amakhilogremu ayi-115 angakholakali. Futhi nakuba uMorgan esafuna ukulahlekelwa abanye abangu-30, akakwazi ukujabula kakhulu ngokuthi usekude kangakanani futhi wenqaba ukuvumela noma yikuphi ukugxekwa okungaceliwe kumehlise. "Ungalokothi uvumele ukuphelelwa yithemba komhlaba noma ukwahlulela kuvimbele ukuthi uphile impilo yakho futhi ubungaze okwenzile ngayo," esho. (P.S. Lokhu okuthunyelwe yi-blogger kuzoshintsha indlela obheka ngayo izithombe zangaphambi nangemva kwaphakade.)

Ngayo yonke into alwa nayo futhi wayifeza, uMorgan unelungelo lokuzimela (nokuthunyelwe kwakhe okunesibindi) ngokufakazela ukuthi umbono kuphela obaluleke ngempela. "Ngicabanga ukuthi ngibukeka kahle njengebhomu le-freakin '' lisudi yokugeza ebhishi," usho kanje. "Futhi lokho ngemuva kwempilo yonke yokuvumela ukungavikeleki kungivimbe ekubhekaneni nempilo. Yebo, ngizoqhubeka ngigqoke ubuso obugcwele bezimonyo olwandle futhi yebo, ngizoqhubeka nokuziqhenya ngoDAMN ngobani engisebenze kanjalo kunzima ukuba yikho. " Amen ntombi. Ubukeka ungakholeki.

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