Nakhu Okwenza Abesifazane Bazizwe Bebaningi Ebusuku

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• Ngabe Abesifazane Bakhulu Kangakanani?
• Lokhu Kusho Ukuthini Ngempilo Yakho Yezocansi
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Uma usebudlelwaneni be-hetero futhi wena nomlingani wakho nenza ucansi oluncane kunendlela ongathanda ngayo, kungahle kungabi inqubo yakho leyo inkinga kepha isikhathi sakho. Ufuna ukuthola i-horny yentombazane? Ungahle ungabi nenhlanhla enkulu ngocansi lwasekuseni. Ngokocwaningo olwenziwa inkampani yamathoyizi ocansi iLovehoney, iwashi lingase libe necala kukho konke ukuxhumana kwakho okuphuthelwe: Amadoda anezimpondo ngokuvamile ekuseni, kuyilapho abesifazane abanophondo bezizwa bejabule kakhulu ebusuku.

Ngabe Abesifazane Bakhulu Kangakanani?

Lolu cwaningo lwahlola abantu abadala abangu-2,300 futhi lwathola ukuthi cishe amaphesenti angu-70 abesifazane bathi bake baba nophathina onogqozi lokuya ocansini olwalungahambelani kakhulu nolwabo nokuthi into eyodwa enkulu kwaba isikhathi sokujika kwabo. Abesilisa babike ukuthi bancamela ukuqala usuku lwabo kahle ngocansi oluncane phakathi kuka-6 no-9 a.m. kuyilapho abesifazane bencamela ukuqeda umoya ngokwenza uthando phakathi kuka-11 p.m. nango-2 ekuseni Ngokukhethekile, abesilisa babesabeka kakhulu ngo-7: 54 ekuseni kanti abesifazane baku-11: 21 ebusuku. (Bheka lezi zinto eziyi-8 Amadoda Afisa Abesifazane Abazi Ngocansi.)

Lokhu Kusho Ukuthini Ngempilo Yakho Yezocansi

Ngenkathi ungahle ungabaze ngemininingwane yabo - iningi labantu aligxili kangako lapho iwashi lishaya isikhathi sobulili - iqiniso liwukuthi, abantu abaningi bake babhekana nesikhathi lapho umlingani wakho efuna ukuba matasa futhi wena ubematasa kakhulu ukuthi ungazihlupha (noma i-vice okunjalo). Mhlawumbe awazi ukuthi ungayithola kanjani intombazane enama-horny ngaphandle kwama-emojis ocansi noma ukubukela i-Bridgerton. Ungasola ngokwengxenye imijikelezo yehomoni ehlukile - amazinga wamadoda e-testosterone aphezulu kakhulu ekuseni, kanti abesifazane bazokwanda kancane usuku lonke. (Amazinga e-testosterone wabesifazane ahluka kancane emini nokuningi ngokususelwa kumjikelezo wakho wokuya esikhathini, ikakhulukazi okhuphuka kakhulu ngesikhathi sokuvuthwa.)

Ngokujabulisayo, amashejuli nezintandokazi ezingafani akudingeki zibe yisisekelo sokufa ngempilo yakho yezocansi, kusho u-Allison Hill, MD, ob-gyn eGood Samaritan Hospital eLos Angeles. Abesifazane banekhono ngokukhethekile lokuvumelana nezimo, kusho uDkt. Hill. Ngenkathi isifiso sabesilisa siqonde kakhulu, ukushayela ucansi kwabesifazane kungathonywa yizici eziningi ezahlukahlukene. (Isibonelo: Lokhu Kusebenza Kungakhuphula Idrayivu Yakho Yocansi)

"Umcabango wamanje ukuthi i-libido yabesifazane iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, kodwa iningi layo lingokwengqondo," kusho uDkt Hill. "Futhi, ngokuvamile, akuhlangene kakhulu nomlingani wowesifazane. Kunalokho, kumayelana nendlela owesifazane azizwa ngayo ngaye nangobulili bakhe." Ngakho-ke uma uzizwa uqiniseka futhi u-sexy kuwena, uzovuleleka kakhulu ocansini futhi cishe ube nethuba elingcono lokufika kuvuthondaba, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iwashi lithini. (Okwengeziwe ngalokho lapha: Iba Ne-Orgasm Emangalisayo Ngokwakha Ukuzethemba.)

Ukulahla umuzwa wecala ngokuzizwa unesizungu noma mayelana nokuthi ufuna kangakanani (noma awulufuni) ucansi kungenye ingxenye ebalulekile yokuba nempilo enhle yocansi, kusho uStephanie Buehler, Ph.D., umbhali wezincwadi Yini Okudingwa Ngayo Yonkhe Ingqondo Yezempilo Yengqondo Ngocansi. "Isifiso sowesifazane singaba ngokwengqondo, ngokobudlelwano, noma ngokomzimba (noma inhlanganisela yabo bobathathu), futhi singashintsha kuye ngokuthi kwenzekani empilweni yakhe ngaleso sikhathi," kusho uBuehler, enezela ngokuthi kulungile ukuthi cha ngiyabonga uma 'ayizwa nje. (Funda: Okwenza Ukuntuleka Kwakho Kwedrayivu Yezocansi Kungeyona Inkinga)

Kepha uBuehler wengeza ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bafuna lobo budlelwane nabalingani babo futhi bamane funa ukufuna ucansi oluningi. Kulokhu, esikhundleni sokulinda ukuba sesimweni esifanelekile sokuba matasa, kungadingeka ukuthi uzenzele izinto ezandleni zakho.

"Abesifazane bavame ukungazizwa benesifiso kuze kube ngemuva kokuba beqale ukudlala nomlingani wabo," esho. "Uma kunjalo, ungakhathazeki ngakho, jabulela nje indlela ozizwa ngayo." Noma ngabe lokho kuyiqiniso ngo-7: 54 ekuseni!

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