Abesifazane Abayi-10 Bayazi Isizathu Sokuba Bayeke Ukushefa Izinwele Zabo Emizimbeni

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• "Kungenza ngizizwe ngimuhle, ngingowesifazane futhi nginamandla."-Roxane S., 28
• “Ngazizwa ngikhululekile futhi ngizethemba ngokwengeziwe kimi.”— ULaura J.
• "Kuyangisiza ukuzizwa ngithanda ucansi futhi ngiphila ngokwengeziwe."-Lee T., 28
• "Ukuyeka insingo ilaphe okuhle."-UTara E., 39
• "Ngoba izinwele zomzimba zingokwemvelo."-Debbie A. 23
• "Ukwenza isitatimende ngamazinga wobuhle."-Jessa C., 22
• "Ngayeka ukushefa lapho ngiphuma sengiyindlalifa."-Kori O., 28
• "Iqale njengenselelo yeNove-Shave kaNovemba."- U-Alexandra M., 23
• "Kungenza ngizizwe ngikwazi ukuzethemba."-UDiandrea B., 24
• "Ngoba kungukukhetha kwami."-U-Alyssa, 29
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Kusekhona ukucwaswa okuzungeze abesifazane nabantu abakhonjwa njengabesifazane abangashefi, kepha u-2018 ubonile ukunyakaza okuya ekuziqhenyeni ngezinwele zomzimba okuya ngomfutho.

Ezifakwe phakathi kwezithombe zangemuva kokujima ze-#fitspirational nezitsha ezibushelelezi, izithombe eziziqhenya ngezinwele ezinama-hashtag afana nokuthi #bodyhair, #bodyhairdontcare, kanye ne-#womenwithbodyhair cishe ziyavela kokuphakelayo kwakho kwe-Instagram. Kuleli hlobo, insingo yomkhiqizo yabesifazane u-Billie yasakaza isikhangiso esinezinwele zangempela zomzimba okokuqala ngqa. (Ngokuzimisela, njalo). Isithombe sika-Julia Roberts sika-1999 esinoboya saphinde savela ekuphakeleni komphakathi ngemva kokuba u-Busy Philipps ebuze u-Roberts mayelana nenkumbulo yase-Hollywood manje eyisikhumbuzo ku-E yakhe! uhlelo lokukhuluma, Busy Tonight. Futhi amanye ama-celebs afana noHalsey, Paris Jackson, Scout Willis, noMiley Cyrus bathathe i-intanethi ukunikeza izinwele zomzimba uthando oluthile, futhi.

Liyini iphuzu? Cha, akukhona nje ukonga imali ngezinsingo. "Ngokuvuma nokugubha ukuthi bonke abantu besifazane banezinwele zomzimba nokuthi abanye bethu bakhetha ukuzigqoka ngokuziqhenya, singasiza ekuyekeni ukuhlambalaza ezinweleni, futhi sibe nokumelela kwangempela kwangempela kwabesifazane bangempela," kusho umsunguli kaBillie uGeorgina Gooley. (Kuzwakala njengenye ingxenye yokunyakaza okuhle komzimba esingayithola ngemuva.)

Unalokho engqondweni, ngezansi, abesifazane abangu-10 abanokuziqhenya ngezinwele zomzimba i-IRL babelana ngokuthi kungani bengasasusi izinwele zabo zomzimba nokuthi lokho kukhetha kubuthonye kanjani ubudlelwano babo nemizimba yabo.

"Kungenza ngizizwe ngimuhle, ngingowesifazane futhi nginamandla."-Roxane S., 28

"Ngayeka ukususa izinwele zomzimba wami ngenkathi ngisebenza njengendoda emdlalweni othile eminyakeni ethile eyedlule. Bengingazinaki nakancane izinwele! Okungenze ngabona ukuthi bengishefa ngoba bengizizwa ngicindezelekile. Kwezinye izikhathi abantu bazophawula ukungicindezela ukuba ngigunde, kodwa angizange ngikuvumele ukuthi kungithonye. Ngiyazithanda izinwele zami zomzimba kanye nami njengoba nginjalo. Kungenza ngizizwe ngimuhle, ngingowesifazane futhi nginamandla."

“Ngazizwa ngikhululekile futhi ngizethemba ngokwengeziwe kimi.”— ULaura J.

"Ngikhulise izinwele zami zomzimba ngenza umsebenzi njengengxenye yeziqu zami zedrama ngoMeyi 2018. Kube nezingxenye ezithile ebezinginselelo kimi, kanti ezinye ebezivula amehlo ami kakhulu ekubukeni koboya bomzimba kowesifazane. Ngemuva Ngemva kwamasonto ambalwa ngizijwayela, ngaqala ukuthanda izinwele zami zemvelo.Ngaqala futhi ukuthanda ukungabi khona kweziqephu ezingakhululeki zokushefa.Nakuba ngangizizwa ngikhululekile futhi ngizethemba ngokwengeziwe kimi, abanye abantu ababeseduze kwami ​​babengaqondi ukuthi kungani ngingashefanga. 'Ngishefa / angivumelananga nayo. Ngabona ukuthi kusekuningi okusamele sikwenze ukukwazi ukwamukelana ngokugcwele nangeqiniso. Ngabe sengicabanga ngoJanuhairy ngacabanga ukuthi ngizozama.

Ngiye ngaba nokusekelwa okukhulu okuvela kubangane bami nomndeni wami! Noma bekufanele ngichaze ukuthi kungani bengikwenza kwabaningi obekumangaza, futhi futhi, isizathu sokuthi lokhu kubalulekile ukukwenza! Lapho ngiqala ukukhulisa izinwele zomzimba wami umama wangibuza "Ngabe uvila noma uzama ukufakazela iphuzu elithile?" ... kungani kufanele sibizwe ngamavila uma singafuni ukushefa? Futhi kungani kufanele sibonise iphuzu? Ngemuva kokukhuluma naye ngakho futhi amsize aqonde, wabona ukuthi kwakuxaka kanjani ukuthi abuze leyo mibuzo. Uma senza okuthile / sibona izinto ezifanayo, kaninginingi kuba yinto ejwayelekile. Manje usezojoyina uJanuhairy futhi akhulise izinwele zakhe zomzimba okuyinselelo enkulu kuye nakwabesifazane abaningi ababandakanyekayo. Impela inselelo enhle! Lona akuwona umkhankaso onolaka wabantu abangaboni ukuthi izinwele zomzimba zijwayelekile kangakanani, kodwa iphrojekthi enikeza amandla wonke umuntu ukuthi aqonde kabanzi mayelana nemibono yakhe ngabo nakwabanye."

"Kuyangisiza ukuzizwa ngithanda ucansi futhi ngiphila ngokwengeziwe."-Lee T., 28

"Empeleni ngiyekile ukususa i-bikini yami nezinwele zasemlenzeni, ngakho-ke okwamanje ngiya noma yikuphi. Kungenza ngizizwe kanjalo. mina ... sengathi angizami ukuba omunye umuntu. Ngizizwa ngithandana kakhulu, ngiphila ngokwengeziwe, futhi ngithembele kakhulu esikhunjeni sami kunangaphambili lapho ngangizama ukuzifaka kulokho okulindelwe ngumphakathi ngokushefa, ukugcoba, njll.

Akukona okwabo bonke abantu, futhi angisho ukuthi ngishumayela izinwele zekhwapha. Wonke umuntu kufanele enze akuthandayo ngemizimba yakhe. Kepha akubona bonke abanelungelo-ngiyabona ukuthi kuyilungelo kimi ukugqoka lezi zinwele emphakathini ngaphandle kokuphepha kwami ​​engcupheni-yize ngithola ukwahlulela, ukugxekwa, ukuphawula okungasho lutho, futhi ngaze ngalahlekelwa ngabalandeli abangu-4,000 ngenkathi ngithumela izinwele zami zomzimba ku-Instagram. Kuvele kwangenza ngaqiniseka nakakhulu ukuthi ngenza isinqumo esifanele sokugqoka umzimba wami ngokuziqhenya, noma kunjalo kubukeka kanjani!” (Okuhlobene: Kungani Ukuhlambalaza Umzimba Kuyinkinga Enkulu Kangaka—nokuthi Ongakwenza Ukukuyekisa)

"Ukuyeka insingo ilaphe okuhle."-UTara E., 39

"Ngemuva kwamashumi eminyaka ngibangela ukucasuka kwansuku zonke ezikhwameni zami ngenxa yokushefa amakhwapha, nganquma ukuyeka ukuqubuka nensingo kuphole. Kungani ngangizenza lokhu kimina? Ngabe ngangicabanga ukuthi amakhwapha anotwayi abukeka ekhanga kakhulu kunalawo anoboya? Ngakhetha ukukhetha ukuthanda nokwamukela umzimba wami njengoba unjalo. Futhi, ama-razor blade ayabiza, ngakho-ke bengikujabulela ukonga imali. "

"Ngoba izinwele zomzimba zingokwemvelo."-Debbie A. 23

"Ngayeka ukushefa izinwele zomzimba wami ngoba yingxenye yalokhu engiyikho. Umphakathi utshele abesifazane isikhathi eside ukuthi izinwele zabo zinkulu futhi azifanelekile. Kimi, kungokwemvelo futhi wonke umuntu unakho, ngakho-ke kungani ngingazithandi? Ngingumuntu onokhiye ophansi futhi izinsingo ziyinkinga, futhi, ngiyathinteka ezinweleni ezingaphakathi ezibuhlungu ... kakhulu. Sekuyiminyaka ngathenga insingo-kanye nesikhwama sami semali, umhlaba, nomzimba wami ngiyabonga ngakho. "

"Ukwenza isitatimende ngamazinga wobuhle."-Jessa C., 22

"Abesifazane bahlala njalo betshelwa ukuthi bathenge imikhiqizo kanye nezindlela zokwelapha eziqinisa inkolelo yokuthi ukungabi nazinwele kuhle. Sitshelwa ukuthi imizimba yethu yemvelo (enoboya) ayanele. Yingakho kubalulekile kimi ukuthi ngilwele ilungelo lokuthi abesifazane bakhulise izinwele zabo zomzimba (noma cha!) futhi bakhululeke ukunyakazisa izinwele zabo ngendlela abakhetha ngayo.Ngokwesibonelo, ngixhuma amashiya ami kodwa angiwakhisi udebe lwami olungenhla, ngiphungule intamo elahlekile noma izinwele ezisilevu, noma ngishefe. izikhwama noma imilenze yami.

Ekupheleni kosuku, lokho thina, njengabesifazane, esikhetha ukukwenza ngemizimba yethu kungukukhetha kwethu. Futhi uma sikhetha ukunyakazisa i-stache encane noma izitho ezinoboya noma i-wax noma ukuyiphuca kanye ngesonto, lokho okwethu ukukhetha hhayi okomphakathi noma abantu abanemibono yabo ukuba banqume. Ngokukhetha izinwele zami zomzimba, nginethemba lokuzikhulula kancane kancane intombazanyana engaphakathi kimi eyesabayo efundiswe ukwethuka ngothile obona izinwele ezengeziwe emzimbeni wami." (Okuhlobene: U-Cassey Ho Udale Umugqa Wesikhathi "Womzimba Omuhle Izinhlobo "Ukufanekisa Ukuhlekwa Kwamazinga Obuhle)

"Ngayeka ukushefa lapho ngiphuma sengiyindlalifa."-Kori O., 28

"Ngaqala ukukhulisa izinwele zami zomzimba ngesikhathi engaphuma ngaso kubangani bami nasemndenini wami njengolaka eminyakeni emihlanu eyedlule. Lapho sengikhululekile ngocansi lwami, ngaqala ukukhululeka ngomzimba wami nokuzizwa kwami. Ngicabanga ukuthi ukuba ngowesifazane ombusayo futhi onethezekile nalokho engiyikho yilokho engidinga ukukwenza. Abantu abasebancane ababukeka kalula (njengodadewethu oneminyaka eyisithupha) manje sebengabona ukuthi angifani nabanye besifazane abangontanga yami futhi lokho kulungile! ( Futhi i-TBH, iyakwamukela kakhulu ukwedlula noma ubani omunye emndenini wami!) Ngizizwa njengowesifazane osekhulile ozethembayo onezinwele zami ezikhulile emzimbeni wami."

"Iqale njengenselelo yeNove-Shave kaNovemba."- U-Alexandra M., 23

"Empeleni ngiqale ukuyikhulisela iNo-Shave November ngoba bengicabanga ukuthi kuzoba mnandi. Futhi, ngokuthembeka, kimina, bekungelula. Uma nje izinwele zami sezinde futhi zijiya, ngazithola sengifuna ukuzigunda njalo uma ngingena eshaweni.Sifakwe i-conditioned kusukela sisebancane ukuze sibonakale singenazinwele futhi sibushelelezi njenge-standard, njengento enhle, ngakho-ke ngizabalaza.Kodwa namanje angikakagundi ngoba ngifuna ukubhekana nezindinganiso zobuhle zomphakathi ukuthi selugxilile kimi kusukela ngisemncane futhi ngishintsha indlela engibona ngayo ubuhle kimi. "

"Kungenza ngizizwe ngikwazi ukuzethemba."-UDiandrea B., 24

"Sekuyiminyaka ngingagundi ngoba kungenza ngizizwe ngithandeka, ngizethemba futhi ngizethemba. Kulula kanjalo. Ukukhetha ukungagundi kungaba yinto ephazamisayo. Umndeni wami unemibono ngakho (ababelana ngayo) kanjalo kanjalo. abanye engibaziyo kusukela ebuntwaneni-kodwa lokhu ukukhetha engingamela ngemuva. Futhi ngeke ngiphole nanoma ubani ongakwazi ukuma ngemuva kokukhetha kwami ​​​​nami (noma ongazitholi izinwele zami zikhanga, futhi)."

"Ngoba kungukukhetha kwami."-U-Alyssa, 29

"Izinwele zami zilula nje kuyinto. Futhi, kimi, lelo phuzu: okukhona emzimbeni wami, ngokuziqhenya. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngishiya izinwele zami noma ngiziyeka ngokuphelele, kungukukhetha kwami. Ukuba nayo, ukungabi nayo, lokho akuyishintshi indlela engizizwa ngayo ngokuzihlonipha kwami. Ekugcineni ngikhathalela kakhulu lokho kunezindinganiso zobuhle eziqine ngokungaphezi."

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