15 Amagama Nemisho Sidinga Ukuyeka Ukukhuluma

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Bossy. Sithola ukuthi kungani USheryl Sanberg wethule umkhankaso wokuvimbela igama le-B, kepha sicabanga ukuthi lidinga ukuguqulwa kancane. Dedela u- "y" futhi ngokungazelelwe iyeke ukululaza iqiniso lokuthi abesifazane baphethe-futhi kade baba khona.

Isikhala sethanga. Alukho uhlelo lokuzincisha ukudla noma lokuzilolonga olunganweba ngomlingo izinqulu zakho ukuze udale isikhala esingadingekile phakathi kwamageyimu akho amahle. Ngaphandle kokuthi wazalwa nayo, khohlwa.

Njengentombazane. Njengokungathi ukukhuphuka kwabasubathi besifazane abanamandla njengephenom yethenisi USerena Williams, ndlovukazi yeqhwa Lindsey Vonn, nenganekwane yebhola likanobhutshuzwayo UMia Hamm kwakungakabi isikhathi eside yenze lo mbono uphelelwe yisikhathi. Lapho Njalo siyivubukula emkhankasweni wayo wakamuva, asikwazanga ukuzibamba ngaphandle kokucabanga, "Hambani nezikhathi, bantu."

Umfazi we-Trophy. Ukwesulwa kwe-ABC sitcom enegama elifanayo ngemuva kwenkathi yayo yokuqala kule ntwasahlobo kuwubufakazi obengeziwe bokuthi yinto ekhathele futhi ekhohlisayo. Isayensi iyavuma: Ucwaningo olusha oluvela eNyuvesi yaseNotre Dame olushicilelwe ku Ukubuyekezwa Kwezenhlalo ZaseMelika iqinisekisa ukuthi umqondo wokusebenzisa ubuhle ukuze uthuthukise isimo somuntu kwezenhlalo nakwezomnotho ikakhulu uyinganekwane eqhutshwa ngabantu abacasulayo abalokhu bewuqinisa.

Omunye wesifazane othukuthele. Ukuthi uyazifela ngezinkolelo zakho (futhi mhlawumbe uthole ukunyakaziswa kancane futhi uphakame lapho uveza amaphuzu akho) akusho ukuthi ucasukile. Uma ufuna ngempela ukubona uhlanya lwabesifazane, lolu chungechunge lwamagama luzokwenza. Iseluleko sethu: Ungayi lapho.

Ukwenza konke. Ngabe abantu basabhalisela lo mbono ongenakwenzeka? Umgomo ongcono: Ukuhlela intambama lapho ungenayo into embi kakhulu ongayenza.

IMILF. Ngokuphikisana nenkolelo evamile, kunjalo hhayi ukuthopha noma kubhekwa njengokuncoma ukushayela ihlombe umama ngokungadedeli ngokuphelele ngemva kokuba nezingane. Kuwukudelela nje.

Umfazi oshaya. Amagama amabili angcono okuchaza le ngubo emhlophe, engenamikhono, efanelekile: ithangi phezulu.

Omunye wabafana. Ukuthi uthathwe njengopholile ngokwanele ukulengiswa akuniki la madoda ilungelo lokuthi asho futhi enze izinto ezingafanele (njengokukhuluma "ngezinsimbi ezihlanyayo" nokudlulisa igesi) phambi kwakho. I-Newsflash: Uyintokazi kungakhathalekile ukuthi bafuna ukulala nawe noma cha, ngakho-ke, bafana, yekani ukuba yizimpisi.

I-Cougar. Izindaba ezinhle: Abesifazane ekugcineni bathi "kufihlwe" ezinkambisweni zomphakathi futhi baphendule izindinganiso eziphindwe kabili ekhanda layo. Akulona iphutha lakho ukuthi abancane bangaqhubeka kangcono kunabadala.

On the amanikiniki. Uma sekuyileso sikhathi senyanga, into yokugcina oyidingayo isikhumbuzi usebenzisa ukubonakala okuzwakalayo okunengekayo. Esikhundleni salokho sonke (abesilisa nabesifazane) masibonge, sizwisise, futhi sihlalise, ngicela, ngoba ngaphandle kwakho, akekho noyedwa wethu obengaba khona manje.

Baba izinkinga. Iqiniso liwukuthi, uBaba angaba nenkinga ngawe ngokuthi unesisho esikhulu esisho ukuthi uswele, ivila, futhi ufuna ukugunyazwa ngamadoda anjengobaba.

Tomboy. Mhlawumbe kwakuyilebula lokwamukelwa lapho useyingane futhi lalingalingani kahle namanye amantombazane ayizintombi ekilasini lakho. Kepha manje njengoba wazi kangcono, kuyigama lobulili okufanele liqedwe ezizukulwaneni ezizayo ngolimi lomdabu. Izichasiso ezihlukile zamantombazane amancane asebenzayo: "umsubathi," "inkanyezi enkulu," kanye "nokuphoqelelwa ukubalwa." [Twitha lokhu!]

Unkosikazi. Kuyinto eyodwa uma u-hubby wakho esho-futhi mhlawumbe lokho kungukubuyisela ekubizeni kwakhe "hubby" noma "hubs." Kodwa uma osebenza nabo besilisa noma abangani babafana ongashadile nabo bekusho lokho, kuwukuzehlisa nje. Ngokuzayo lapho bekubiza ngokuthi "unkosikazi," ubenze bakhokhele ukudla kwakusihlwa noma bakubhucungele izinyawo njengoba bekungenza noma yimuphi umyeni omuhle.

Khulisa amabhola. Usomahlaya uBetty White uthe kungcono: "Amabhola abuthaka futhi ayazwela. Uma ufuna ukuqina ngempela, khulisa isitho sangasese! Lezo zinto zithatha amandla!" Lokhu kubukwa okuhlakaniphile kuyasebenza naku "Kuthathe njengendoda," "Ungabi yisidudla," naku "Man up."

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