Izinto Ezi-5 Ezimenza Abe Nomona

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• Umkhuba Wakho Omusha Wokuzivocavoca
• Ngubusuku bamantombazane
• Udla isidlo sasemini ne-Cubemate yakho
• Uyisigqila Sezokuxhumana
• I-Scrabble Ithole Kakhulu Kakhulu
• Buyekeza kwe-

Unomoya ophansi, uyacasuka, futhi ubonakala elungele ukushintsha noma yikuphi ukungaboni ngaso linye kube impi egcwele. Kodwa wena naye benichitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye, ​​futhi akufani nokuthi ubudlala ngothando phambi kwakhe-ngakho yini enikezayo? Kuvela ukuthi angaba nomona-noma ngabe asikho isizathu esibonakala sihle. Lapha, u-Isadora Altman, owelapha ngokushada nomndeni waseSan Franciso ukhanyisa ezinye zezizathu ezimangazayo unamehlo aluhlaza-nokuthi wenzeni ngakho. (Futhi, ungaphuthelwa yi-Male Brain on Jealousy.)

Umkhuba Wakho Omusha Wokuzivocavoca

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Kade ngishaya kanzima ejimini futhi ngifeza sina imiphumela? Ucwaningo lwango-2013 olusuka eNorth Carolina State University luthole ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi, ukwehla kwesisindo somlingani oyedwa kungashintsha kabi ubudlelwano, ikakhulukazi uma umlingani ongagxilile ekwakheni ezwe sengathi uziphethe kabi. (Ungakuvumeli ukuthi kufinyelele lapho! Funda: Izizathu ezi-5 Ubudlelwano Obuhle Abubi.) Esikhundleni sokumphoqa ukuthi ajoyine nawe eCrossFit, yiphakamisa i-hangout esebenzayo enokhiye ophansi njengokunyuka. Futhi esikhundleni sokwenqaba isiphakamiso sakhe sokuzama imenyu yokunambitha yezifundo ezinhlanu ku-bistro entsha edolobheni, izame-bese ulandelela ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezizayo ngeresiphi enempilo kodwa emnandi ekhaya.

Ngubusuku bamantombazane

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Kuvela ukuthi, isifundo esivela e-State University of Buffalo sathola ukuthi abangane bobulili obufanayo bangeza imizwa yomona kozakwenu, ngoba basongela umbono wokuthi umlingani wakho ungunombolo 1 empilweni yakho. Mkhumbuze ukuthi ubalulekile empilweni yakho njengamantombazane akho.

Udla isidlo sasemini ne-Cubemate yakho

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Umfana wakho uyazi ukuthi akukho lutho phakathi kwakho nowesilisa osebenza naye ohlangene naye ukwenza iphrojekthi-kepha usengazizwa exakile uma wena futhi siba nemihlangano yesikhathi sasemini kaningi. Ngokocwaningo oluvela ku-Cornell, ukudla nelungu lobulili obuhlukile-ngisho noma kumsulwa-kudala isikhwele esiningi kumlingani kunosuku lwekhofi noma iziphuzo. Khumbuza umfana wakho ukuthi akuyona into enkulu noma umeme naye.

Uyisigqila Sezokuxhumana

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Ukuhlola okuphakelayo kwakho ku-Facebook njalo kungadala umona ebudlelwaneni, kusho ucwaningo olusuka e-University of Missouri Columbia. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi kungadala umphumela we-domino: Lapho umuntu othile eku-Facebook, kulapho umlingani ecabanga ukuthi kunokuthile okwenzekayo lapho, okwenza ukuthi umlingani aqaphe ikhasi lakhe-futhi angafunda kumazwana angenacala ezithombe. Ucwaningo luthole ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ebudlelwaneni obusha, okuyisikhuthazo esihle kini nobabili ukuthi nithathe ikhefu lokuxhumana njengoba niqala ukwazana.

I-Scrabble Ithole Kakhulu Kakhulu

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Uma nina nobabili ninokuzilibazisa okufanayo, nobabili ngezikhathi ezithile ningavuselana imikhuba yomona nokungazethembi komunye nomunye. Bobabili abagijimi kodwa abakwazi ukushaya ugandaganda ndawonye ngaphandle kokucasulwa yikhono lomunye nomunye, lokho akusho ukuthi ungumdlalo omubi-kuphela ukuthi nobabili nincintisana ngendlela emangalisayo. Ukwazi izindawo zakho ezibuthakathaka nokukwazi ukukhuluma ngazo kuqinisekisa ukuthi umona ngeke uthinte isibopho sakho.

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