U-Amanda Kloots Ubakhuthaze Kanjani Abanye Phakathi Kwempi ka-Nick Cordero ye-COVID-19

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Uma ubulandela impi yenkanyezi ebanzi uNick Cordero nempi ka-COVID-19, khona-ke uyazi ukuthi ifike esiphethweni esidabukisayo ngeSonto ekuseni. UCordero ushonele eCedars-Sinai Medical Center eLos Angeles, lapho abelaliswe khona izinsuku ezingaphezu kwezingu-90.

Unkosikazi kaCordero, umqeqeshi wokuqina komzimba u-Amanda Kloots, wabelane ngezindaba ku-Instagram. "Umyeni wami engimthandayo ushonile namhlanje ekuseni," ebhala encazelweni yesithombe sikaCordero. "Ubezungezwe wuthando umndeni wakhe, ecula ethandaza njengoba ehamba kahle emhlabeni. Angikholwa futhi ngibuhlungu yonke indawo. Inhliziyo yami ibuhlungu njengoba angikwazi ukucabanga impilo yethu ngaphandle kwakhe." (Okuhlobene: U-Amanda Kloots Wabelane Ngesibongo Esidabukisayo Kumyeni Wakhe Ongasekho, u-Nick Cordero, Owashona E-Coronavirus)

Kuyo yonke impi kaCordero, uKloots wabelane ngezibuyekezo zesimo ezijwayelekile ku-Instagram yakhe. Uqale waveza ukuthi wayegula okwatholakala ukuthi yinyumoniya ngo-Ephreli 1, kwathi uCordero wangenwa yi-coma wafakwa umshini wokuphefumula. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, imiphumela yokuhlolwa kwakhe kwe-COVID-19 yabuya ine-HIV, nakuba aqale wahlolwa ukuthi akanayo kabili. Odokotela bakaCordero benze ukungenelela okuningi bephendula uchungechunge lwezinkinga, kufaka phakathi ukunqamula umlenze wangakwesokudla kaCordero. UKloots ubike ukuthi uCordero wavuka ekuqulekeni ngoMeyi 12, kodwa impilo yakhe yancipha waze wagcina engasindile ezinkingeni zokugula kwakhe.

Yize edlula kulokho obekufanele kube yinto ebuhlungu, uKloots ubenethoni ephelele futhi ethembisayo kukho konke okuthunyelwe kwakhe. Ugqugquzele izinkulungwane zabantu angabazi ku-inthanethi ukuthi bathandazele uCordero noma bacule futhi badanse naye ingoma kaCordero ethi “Live Your Life” phakathi nesonto le-Instagram Lives. Ikhasi le-Gofundme lokuxhasa uKloots, uCordero, no-Elvis wabo ononyaka owodwa baqoqa imali engaphezu kwesigidi esisodwa. (Okuhlobene: Ngikushaya Kanjani I-Coronavirus Ngenkathi Ngilwa Nomdlavuza We-Metastatic Okwesibili)

UKloots uchaze umbono wakhe ngokuvuselelwa ngemuva kokuthi uCordero evuke ku-coma. “Abantu bangangibuka sengathi ngiyasangana,” ubhale kanje. "Bangase bacabange ukuthi angisiqondi kahle isimo sakhe ngoba ngiyamomotheka futhi ngicula ekamelweni lakhe nsuku zonke. Ngeke nje ngizidlale ngizizwe ngidabukile mina noma yena. Akukhona lokho uNick angangifuna. ukwenza lokho. Akusibo ubuntu bami. "

Ngisho noma ukucabanga okuhle akukwazi ukushintsha isimo esinzima, kunjalo can ube nomthelela omuhle empilweni yakho. "Ukucabanga okuhle kungaba nomthelela empilweni yengqondo," kusho uHeather Monroe, L.C.S.W., udokotela wezifo zengqondo kanye nosonhlalakahle onelayisense emitholampilo eNewport Institute, isikhungo sezinkinga zempilo yengqondo. "Uma sinombono oqondile, singakwazi ukubhekana kangcono nezimo ezinzima, sisize ekwehliseni imizwa yengcindezi, ukucindezeleka, kanye nokukhathazeka. Amakhono angcono okubhekana nesimo ekugcineni akhuthaza ukuqina futhi asisize sikwazi ukubhekana ngokuphumelelayo nezinkinga ezizayo." Akugcini lapho. "Ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi ukucabanga okuhle kunenzuzo ngaphezu kwempilo yengqondo-kungaba nezinzuzo zezempilo ngokomzimba," kusho uMonroe. "Ngaphezu kokuncipha kwemizwa yokukhathazeka nokudangala, ukucabanga okuhle kungakhuthaza ukumelana kakhulu nokugula okuthile, kunciphise isikhathi sokuphulukisa, futhi kuthuthukise impilo yenhliziyo."

Isexwayiso: lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele uphoqelele imicabango eyakhayo 24/7 futhi uzame ukungcwaba okubi. "Kukhona into efana 'nethemba lobuthi,' okuyisenzo sokuziveza njengomuntu ojabulayo, onethemba kuzo zonke izimo, noma ophoqelelwe ukuba nethemba," kusho uMonroe. "Ukubheka okuhle akusho ukuthi uziba izinkinga zempilo noma uzivale ungekho emizweni engemihle, kepha kunalokho bhekela lezo zimo ngendlela engathandeki."

Uma wazi othile okhuluma ngokuzungeza kwakhe ngama-vibes amahle, angaba kokuthize. "Imizwa ingathathelana kakhulu. Isikhathi esiningi esichithwa sisebenzisa imidiya eyakhayo noma ukuchitha isikhathi nomuntu ocabanga ukuthi kuhle singalolonga umbono walowo muntu ngendlela eyakhayo," kusho uMonroe. "Abantu abahle bangase babe nomphumela okhuthazayo, okhuthazayo, nonika amandla nakwabanye." Lokho kubonakala kunjalo kumaKloots. Abantu abaningi bathumele mayelana nokuthi ukuqiniseka kwakhe kulo lonke uhambo lwezempilo luka-Cordero kubakhuthaze ukuthi basebenze emzabalazweni wabo ne-COVID nokunye.

"Bengilokhu ngilandela u- @ amandakloots isikhashana manje- kodwa ikakhulukazi ngemuva kokuba umyeni wakhe etholwe ene-COVID, okuthe ngemuva nje kokuba umkhulu wami ashone ku-COVID," kubhala u-@hannabananahealth kubhale ku-Instagram. "Ukuqiniseka nokukhanya kwakhe ngisho nasezikhathini ezimnyama kakhulu kwangikhuthaza ngaphandle kokukholelwa. Ngangihlale ngibheka i-Instagram yami nsuku zonke ngifuna izibuyekezo zika-Nick, nakuba ngangingazi noma iyiphi yazo engangiyiqonda ngendlela, futhi ngigxile kuzo zombili lezi zindaba. baningi kakhulu." (Kuhlobene: Le Ndlela Yokucabanga Okuhle Ingenza Ukunamathela Emikhubeni Enempilo Kubelula Kakhulu)

Umsebenzisi we-Instagram @angybby ubhale iposi ngokuthi kungani labo abalandela indaba kaCordero bengazizwa bekhuthazekile ukuhlala benethemba ngesikhathi besilwa, nokuthi kumthinte kanjani yena uqobo. "Bengingamazi mathupha uNick Cordero kodwa, njengabaningi, ngikhalela ukufa kwakhe namhlanje," kubhala yena. "Kube lula kimi ukuthi ngifake impi yomhlaba ngegciwane kule ndaba eyodwa, evuthayo. Indlela ososayensi emhlabeni wonke abalwa ngayo negciwane elikhulu, odokotela baseCedars Sinai babelwela impilo yale nsizwa. ..uma bengasindisa uNick umhlaba ungalimisa igciwane. "

Encwadini yakhe, ubambene nombono wokuthi yini esingakususa kulesi simo esibuhlungu: “Ngenxa yokuthi [ama-Kloots] nakuba ayenobunzima obungacabangeki, usibonise ukuthi kunjani ukuhlala sinethemba nokusabalalisa uthando nokucabanga okuhle,” ebhala. "Ngoba umndeni wakhe usibonisile ukuthi singahlangana kanjani futhi sisekelane ngezikhathi lapho kulula kakhulu ukukhathala nokuzivikela. Ngoba uma amakhulu ezinkulungwane zethu elandela udaba lwawo enquma ukuba nomusa komunye nomunye ekuhlonipheni kwethu phuma kulezi zikhathi ezimnyama endaweni engcono. "

UKloots ucule i-Live Your Life okokugcina ku-Instagram Live izolo. Kepha indaba yakhe yokuhlala enethemba futhi enethemba kuze kube sekugcineni ishiye uphawu.

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