Ukukhathazeka kwengane: izimpawu nokuthi ungalawula kanjani

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• Izimpawu eziyinhloko zokukhathazeka
• Ungayisiza Kanjani Ingane Yakho Ukulawula Ukukhathazeka
• 1. Ungazami ukugwema ukwesaba kwengane
• 2. Nikeza inani kulokho ingane ezwayo
• 3. Zama ukunciphisa isikhathi sokukhathazeka
• 4. Hlola isimo esidala ukukhathazeka
• 5. Prakthiza imisebenzi yokuphumula nengane

Ukukhathazeka kungumuzwa ojwayelekile futhi ojwayelekile kakhulu, ezimpilweni zabantu abadala nezingane, kepha-ke, uma lokhu kukhathazeka kunamandla kakhulu futhi kuvimbela ingane ukuthi iphile impilo yayo ngokwejwayelekile noma ibambe iqhaza emisebenzini eyahlukahlukene, kungaba ngaphezulu okudinga ibhekiswe futhi yabhekiswa ukuze kuvunyelwe intuthuko ephelele.

Kuvamile ukuthi ingane ikhombise izimpawu zokukhathazeka lapho abazali behlukana, lapho behamba, beshintsha isikole noma lapho kufelwa othandekayo, ngakho-ke, lapho kunezimo ezihlukumeza kakhulu, abazali kufanele banake indlela yokuziphatha kwengane , ngibheka ukuthi uzivumelanisa yini nesimo, noma ngabe uba nokwesaba okungenangqondo nokwedlulele.

Imvamisa lapho ingane izizwa iphephile, ivikelekile futhi isekelwa, iba nokuzola nokuthula. Ukukhuluma nengane, ukubheka emehlweni abo, ukuzama ukuqonda umbono wabo kusiza ukuqonda imizwa yabo, kube neqhaza ekukhuleni kwabo.

Izimpawu eziyinhloko zokukhathazeka

Izingane ezincane ngokuvamile zikuthola kunzima kakhulu ukuveza imizwa yazo, ngakho-ke, kungenzeka zingasho ukuthi zikhathazekile, ngoba zona ngokwazo aziqondi ukuthi kuyini ukukhathazeka.

Kodwa-ke, kunezinye izimpawu ezingasiza abazali ukuthi babone isimo sokukhathazeka, njenge:

• Ukuthukuthela kakhulu nokukhala izinyembezi kunokujwayelekile;
• Ukuba nobunzima bokulala;
• Ukuvuka kaningi kunokujwayelekile ebusuku;
• Ukumunca umunwe wakho noma uphinde uchame ibhulukwe;
• Ukuba namaphupho amabi kaningi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane ezindala zingakwazi ukuveza imizwa yazo, kepha imvamisa le mizwa ayiqondakali njengokukhathazeka futhi ingane ingagcina izwakalisa ukungazethembi nobunzima bokugxila, ngokwesibonelo, noma okunye ukuzama ukugwema imisebenzi ejwayelekile yansuku zonke, njengokuphuma nabangani noma ukuya esikoleni.

Lapho lezi zimpawu zimnene futhi zidlula, imvamisa asikho isizathu sokukhathazeka, futhi zimele isimo sokukhathazeka kwesikhashana. Kodwa-ke, uma kuthatha ngaphezu kweviki elilodwa ukudlula, abazali noma abanakekeli kufanele babheke futhi bazame ukusiza ingane ukunqoba lesi sigaba.

Ungayisiza Kanjani Ingane Yakho Ukulawula Ukukhathazeka

Lapho ingane ingena enkingeni engapheli yokukhathazeka, abazali, abanakekeli namalungu omndeni babaluleke kakhulu ekuzameni ukuphula umjikelezo nokubuyisela inhlalakahle. Kodwa-ke, lo msebenzi ungaba yinkimbinkimbi impela futhi nabazali abanezinhloso ezinhle bangagcina benze amaphutha akhulisa ukukhathazeka.

Ngakho-ke, inhloso ukuthi, noma nini lapho kutholakala isimo sokukhathazeka ngokweqile noma okungapheli, thintana nodokotela wezengqondo, ukuze wenze ukuhlolwa okulungile futhi uthole ukuholwa okushintshelwe ecaleni ngalinye.

Noma kunjalo, amanye amathiphu angasiza ukulawula ukukhathazeka kwengane yakho afaka:

1. Ungazami ukugwema ukwesaba kwengane

Izingane ezibhekene nokukhathazeka zivame ukuba nokwesaba okuthile, njengokuhamba emgwaqweni, ukuya esikoleni noma ukukhuluma nabanye abantu. Kulezi zimo, okufanele kwenziwe ukungazami ukusindisa ingane nokususa zonke lezi zimo, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela, ngeke ikwazi ukunqoba ukwesaba kwayo futhi ngeke idale amasu okunqoba ukwesaba kwayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokugwema isimo esithile, ingane izokuqonda ukuthi inezizathu zokufuna ngempela ukusigwema leso simo, ngoba nomuntu omkhulu uyasigwema.

Kodwa-ke, ingane nayo akufanele iphoqeleke ukuthi ibhekane nokwesaba kwayo, ngoba ingcindezi eyeqile ingenza isimo sibe sibi kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, okufanele kwenziwe ukuthatha izimo zokwesaba ngokwemvelo futhi, uma kunokwenzeka, ukhombise ingane ukuthi kungenzeka ukunqoba lokhu kwesaba.

2. Nikeza inani kulokho ingane ezwayo

Emzameni wokunciphisa ukwesaba kwengane, kujwayelekile ukuthi abazali noma abanakekeli bazame ukutshela ingane ukuthi akufanele bakhathazeke noma ukuthi akudingeki besabe, kepha, lezi zinhlobo zemishwana, yize kuthiwa inhloso enhle, ingahlolwa yingane njengesinqumo, njengoba bengase babe nomuzwa wokuthi lokhu abakuzwayo akulungile noma akunangqondo, ngokwesibonelo.

Ngakho-ke, inhloso ukukhuluma nengane ngokwesaba kwayo nokuthi izizwa kanjani, iqinisekise ukuthi isisohlangothini lwayo ukuyivikela nokuzama ukusiza ukunqoba lesi simo. Lolu hlobo lwesimo sengqondo ngokuvamile lunomthelela omuhle, ngoba lusiza ukuqinisa ingqondo yengane.

3. Zama ukunciphisa isikhathi sokukhathazeka

Enye indlela yokusiza ingane yakho ukuba ibhekane nokukhathazeka ukukhombisa ukuthi ukukhathazeka kungumuzwa wesikhashana nokuthi kuyanyamalala, noma ngabe kubonakala sengathi ayikho indlela yokwenza ngcono. Ngakho-ke, lapho kunokwenzeka, abazali nabanakekeli kufanele bazame ukunciphisa isikhathi sokukhathazeka, esivame ukuba sikhulu ngaphambi kokwenza noma yimuphi umsebenzi. Lokho wukuthi, becabanga ukuthi ingane iyesaba ukuya kudokotela wamazinyo, abazali bangasho ukuthi badinga ukuya kudokotela wamazinyo kuphela 1 noma 2 amahora ngaphambili, ukuvimbela ingane ekubeni nalo mcabango isikhathi eside.

4. Hlola isimo esidala ukukhathazeka

Kwesinye isikhathi kungasiza ingane ukuthi izame ukuhlola ukuthi izizwa kanjani futhi iveze isimo ngendlela enengqondo. Ngakho-ke, ucabanga ukuthi ingane yesaba ukuya kudokotela wamazinyo, umuntu angazama ukukhuluma nengane ngalokho acabanga ukuthi kukwenza udokotela wamazinyo nokuthi kubaluleke ngani empilweni yakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ingane ikhululekile ukukhuluma, umuntu angacabanga nokubi kakhulu okungenzeka kuleso simo futhi asize ingane yakhe uhlelo uma kwenzeka lokhu kwesaba.

Isikhathi esiningi, izinga lokukhathazeka lingehliswa lapho ingane izwa ukuthi inohlelo lwesimo esibi kakhulu, iyinikeze ukuzethemba okukhulu ukunqoba ukwesaba kwayo.

5. Prakthiza imisebenzi yokuphumula nengane

Lena inqubo yakudala, elula engasiza ingane yakho ukuthi ilawule amazinga ayo okukhathazeka lapho eyedwa. Ngalokhu, ingane kufanele ifundiswe imisebenzi ethile yokuphumula, engasiza ukuguqula umcabango ovalweni oluzizwayo.

Inqubo enhle yokuphumula iqukethe ukuthatha umoya ojulile, ukuhogela imizuzwana emi-3 nokukhiphela omunye u-3, ngokwesibonelo. Kepha eminye imisebenzi efana nokubala inani labafana ngezikhindi noma ukulalela umculo kungasiza ekuphazamiseni nasekulawuleni kangcono ukukhathazeka.

Futhi hlola ukuthi ungakushintsha kanjani ukudla kwengane yakho ukusiza ukulawula ukukhathazeka.