Ungayibona Kanjani futhi Uyiphathe Kanjani Indlela Engafanele Yokuziphatha Ezinganeni

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• Kuyini ukungaziphathi kahle kwengane?
• Izici ezinobungozi zokuziphatha okungafaneleki ezinganeni
• Ziyini izimpawu zokuziphatha okungafaneleki ezinganeni?
• Ukuziphatha okungafani nomphakathi ezinganeni
• Ukuvimbela isimilo sokungahlali nabantu
• 1. Ukuvimbela okuyisisekelo
• 2. Ukuvimbela kwesibili
• 3. Ukuvimbela imfundo ephakeme (ukwelashwa)
• Izindlela zokuphatha ukungaziphathi kahle kwabantu
• Izinyathelo ezilandelayo

Kujwayelekile ukuthi izingane zibonise isimilo esihle nesingesihle emphakathini njengoba zikhula futhi zikhula. Ezinye izingane ziqamba amanga, ezinye ziyahlubuka, ezinye ziyahoxa. Cabanga nge-track star ehlakaniphile kodwa eyethuliwe noma umongameli wesigaba odumile kodwa ovukelayo.

Kepha ezinye izingane zibonisa amazinga aphezulu okuziphatha okungafaneleki emphakathini. Banobutha futhi abalaleli. Bangantshontsha futhi bacekele phansi impahla. Bangase babe nokuhlukumeza ngamazwi nangokomzimba.

Lolu hlobo lokuziphatha luvame ukuthi ingane yakho ikhombisa izimpawu zokuziphatha okungafaneleki emphakathini. Ukuziphatha okungafaneleki emphakathini kuyalawuleka, kepha kungaholela ezinkingeni ezinzima kakhulu ebudaleni uma kuyekwa kungalashwa. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi ingane yakho inokuthambekela kokungazithandi umphakathi, funda ukuze ufunde kabanzi.

Kuyini ukungaziphathi kahle kwengane?

Ukuziphatha okungafani nomphakathi kubonakala ngalokhu:

• ulaka
• inzondo ngegunya
• ukukhohlisa
• ukudelela

Lezi zinkinga zokuziphatha zivame ukuvela ebuntwaneni nasebusheni, futhi zivame kakhulu kubafana abancane.

Ayikho idatha yamanje eveza inani lezingane ezingathandani nabantu, kepha ucwaningo lwangaphambilini lubeka inani eliphakathi kwezigidi ezi-4 nezizi-6, futhi liyakhula.

Izici ezinobungozi zokuziphatha okungafaneleki ezinganeni

Izici zobungozi bokuziphatha okungafaneleki zibandakanya:

• imvelo yesikole neyomakhelwane
• ufuzo nomlando womndeni
• imikhuba emibi nengalungile yobuzali
• impilo yasekhaya enobudlova, engazinzile noma enesiphithiphithi

Ukungasebenzi ngokweqile nezinkinga zemizwa nakho kungadala ukungaziphathi kahle kwabantu. Intsha enenkinga yokushoda ngokweqile (ADHD) itholwe ukuthi isesimeni sokuziphatha okungafaneleki emphakathini.

Ziyini izimpawu zokuziphatha okungafaneleki ezinganeni?

Ukuziphatha okungafaneleki emphakathini kungahle kubonwe ezinganeni ezineminyaka yobudala emi-3 noma emi-4 ubudala, futhi kungaholela kokunye okunzima kakhulu uma kungalashwa ngaphambi kweminyaka yobudala eyi-9, noma ibanga lesithathu.

Izimpawu ingane yakho engazibonisa zifaka:

• ukuhlukumeza nokulimaza izilwane nabantu
• ukuqamba amanga nokweba
• ukuhlubuka nokuphula imithetho
• ukucekela phansi impahla nokunye ukucekelwa phansi kwempahla
• ubuhlongandlebe obungapheli

Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukungaziphathi kahle kwengane kuhlotshaniswa nezinga eliphakeme lokuphuza utshwala nezidakamizwa ebusheni. Lokhu kungenxa yamathonya okwabelwana ngawo ngezakhi zofuzo nezemvelo.

Ukuziphatha okungafani nomphakathi ezinganeni

Izinhlobo ezinamandla zokuziphatha okungafanele ziholele ekuziphatheni okungahambi kahle, noma ekuhlolweni kwesifo esiphikisayo esiphikisayo. Izingane ezingathandani nabantu nazo zingashiya isikole futhi zibe nenkinga yokugcina umsebenzi nobudlelwano obuhle.

Ukuziphatha kungaholela nasekuphazamisekeni kobuntu obungebona ubuntu lapho usumdala. Abantu abadala abaphila nokuphazamiseka kobuntu okungahlali nabantu bavame ukukhombisa ukungaziphathi kahle nezinye izimpawu zokuphazamiseka kokuziphatha ngaphambi kweminyaka yobudala eyi-15.

Ezinye izimpawu zokuphazamiseka kobuntu okubandakanya abantu zifaka:

• ukungabi nonembeza nozwela
• ukunganakwa nokuxhashazwa kwegunya namalungelo abantu
• ulaka nokuthambekela kobudlova
• ukuzikhukhumeza
• usebenzisa i-charm ukukhohlisa
• ukungazisoli

Ukuvimbela isimilo sokungahlali nabantu

Ukungenelela kwangaphambilini kuyisihluthulelo sokuvimbela ukungaziphathi kahle kwabantu. Isikhungo Sokubambisana Okusebenzayo Nokuzijwayeza siphakamisa ukuthi izikole zithuthukise futhi zisebenzise amasu amathathu wokuvikela ahlukene.

1. Ukuvimbela okuyisisekelo

Lokhu kungabandakanya ukuzibandakanya kwabafundi emisebenzini yesikole ebanzi engavimba isimilo sokungahloniphi umphakathi, njenge:

• ukufundisa ukuxazulula izingxabano
• amakhono okuphatha intukuthelo
• ukufunda ngokomzwelo

2. Ukuvimbela kwesibili

Lokhu kuhlose abafundi abasengozini yokuthuthukisa ukuthambekela kokungazibandakanyi nokuzibandakanya emisebenzini ehlukile, kufaka phakathi:

• ukufundiswa okukhethekile
• izifundo ezincane zamakhono ezenhlalo
• ukwelulekwa
• ukufundisa

3. Ukuvimbela imfundo ephakeme (ukwelashwa)

Isinyathelo sesithathu ukuqhubeka nokwelulekwa ngamandla. Lokhu kuphatha abafundi nabafundi abangahambisani nomphakathi abanezindlela ezingapheli zobuhlongandlebe nolaka. Lesi sikhungo siphakamisa ukuthi imindeni, abeluleki, othisha nabanye baxhumanise imizamo yokwelapha izingane ezinokuziphatha okungafaneleki emphakathini.

Izindlela zokuphatha ukungaziphathi kahle kwabantu

Ezinye izindlela zokwelapha ukungaziphathi kahle komphakathi zifaka:

• ukuqeqeshwa kwamakhono okuxazulula izinkinga
• ukwelashwa kokuziphatha kwengqondo
• ukungenelela komndeni kokuziphatha
• ukwelashwa komndeni nokwelashwa kwentsha

Abazali bangabuye baqeqeshwe ekuphathweni kwabazali ukubhekana nanoma yiziphi izinkinga ezingalungile zokuba ngumzali ezingaba nomthelela ekuziphatheni kwengane okungafaneleki.

Ucwaningo luthole ukuthi imfudumalo nothando, isiyalo esinengqondo, kanye nesitayela segunya lokuba ngumzali kunemiphumela emihle ezinganeni. Lokhu kungabasiza bakhe ubudlelwano obuhle futhi bathuthukise ukusebenza kwesikole.

Izinyathelo ezilandelayo

Kujwayelekile ukuthi izingane nentsha zikhombise ukuthambekela kokungazithandi emphakathini, njengokuhoxa noma ukuhlubuka kancane. Kepha kwezinye izingane, lokho kuthambekela kungakhombisa okuthile okushaqisayo.

Khuluma nengane yakho uma ukhathazekile ngokuziphatha kwayo ukuze ube nokuqonda okungcono ngokwenzekayo ngombono wayo. Qiniseka ukuthi futhi ukhuluma nodokotela ukuze uqhamuke necebo elisebenzayo lokwelapha indlela yokuziphatha kwengane yakho engaziphethe kahle.

Kubalulekile ukuthi ubhekane nezinkinga zokuziphatha zisencane ngangokunokwenzeka ukuvimbela ukuxilongwa okunzima kakhulu ngokuzayo.