AbakwaTikTokkers Babala Izinto Ezixakile Abazithandayo Ngabantu Futhi Kuyelapha Kakhulu

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Uma uskrola iTikTok, okuphakelayo kwakho kungenzeka kugcwele amavidiyo angenakubalwa wezitayela zobuhle, amathiphu wokuzivocavoca, nezinselelo zokudansa. Ngenkathi lawa ma-TikTok ngokungangabazeki ejabulisa, umkhuba omusha lapho abantu bavele babhale izinto ezincane abazithandayo ngabantu nakanjani ukubeka ukumamatheka okukhulu ebusweni bakho.

Ngaphansi kwama-hashtag #whatilikeaboutpeople, #thingspeopledo, kanye #cutethingshumansdo, TikTokkers baqamba izindlela zansuku zonke abazithola zithandeka kubantu.

Lawa ma-idiosyncrasies ajwayelekile kakhulu uma uwabona eyi-IRL - kepha uma amaTikTokkers ekhuluma ngawo, aba nencazelo entsha ngokuphelele.

Omunye wamavulandlela ahamba phambili ngumsebenzisi we-TikTok @peachprc, ividiyo yakhe eyi-viral emkhombisa ephuphuma iqiniso lokuthi sinikezana ubucwebe ukuze "sihlobise" abantu esibathandayo, nokuthi sinyakazisa imizimba yethu ukuze sibonise abanye ukuthi sijabulela ingoma. (Okuhlobene: Le TikTokker Iyaduduza Abantu Abanezinkinga Zokudla Ngokujabulela Ukudla Okubonakalayo Nabo)

Omunye umsebenzisi, @_qxnik, uthumele iTikTok echaza indlela ebukeka ngayo "lapho abantu befika bekhubeka ekubukeni beshoshozelwe ngenxa yesimo sezulu esinamandla futhi banjengo 'Oh sorry!'"

Kumsebenzisi we-TikTok @ monkeypants25, yisikhathi "lapho uhamba eduze komuntu osocingweni nomngane wakhe osezohlangana naye, bese uzwa ethi, 'Oh ngiyakubona,' bese bona umngani wabo bese behlangana. " Uthe futhi uyathanda lapho abantu begqoka imibala emibili ehlukene yamasokisi noma bevela ekilasini izinwele zabo zisamanzi. "Ukwenza lolu hlu empeleni bekuyindlela yokwelapha," ubhale kanje emazwibela weTikTok yakhe. "Ngincoma ukuthatha isikhathi sokwenza eyodwa."

I-TBH, ungahle uthande ukumyisa kuleso sincomo. Uma sekufika kukho, lo mkhuba we-TikTok uyindlela yokwazisa izinto ezincane empilweni - uhlobo lokudala lokubonga, uma uthanda.

Izinzuzo zokubonga ngempilo yomzimba nengqondo zibhalwe kahle. Ukunakekela okugxilile ezicini ezinhle zokuphila kuye kwaxhunyaniswa nekhwalithi yokulala ethuthukisiwe, ukwaneliseka kwempilo iyonke, kanye nokunciphisa amaphethini okucabanga angalungile, uma sibala ezimbalwa. (Okuningi lapha: Izinzuzo Ezi-5 Eziqinisekisiwe Zezempilo Zokubonga)

Kuyavunywa, ochwepheshe abawuthandi umqondo wokubonisa ukubonga ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, okungenani hhayi ngendlela yokuthunyelwe okungabusisiwe # okukhombisa amaholide amnandi noma ukudla okumnandi. Kepha ukusebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana ukutshela abantu ukuthi kungani ubabonga kuzoba nomthelela omkhulu. "Ngicabanga ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu ukubonga umuntu ngamunye," kusho uTchiki Davis, Ph.D., umsunguli weBerkeley Well-Being Institute, Umumo. "Esikhundleni sokukhombisa abanye abantu ukuthi yini oyithandayo, batshele ukuthi uyababonga."

Yize lawa ma-TikTokkers angakhombisi ukubonga kumuntu othize, ukuvele ubezwe egubungula izinto ezingenamsebenzi iningi lethu elizenzayo ngokungazi kungakwenza uzizwe waziswa futhi waziswa ngokuba khona nje njengomuntu.

"Ngizizwa nginconyiwe ngenxa [yezinto] ezincane engizenzayo manje," kuphawula omunye umsebenzisi we-TikTok kuvidiyo ethi #whatilikeaboutpeople. "Hey idk uma lokhu kungalungile kodwa ngikugcinile lokhu ngoba kungikhumbuze ukuthi kungani kufanele ngiqhubeke ngiphila," kuphawula omunye umsebenzisi.

Futhi, uma iTikTok akuyona into yakho, kuhlala kukhona ukubhalwa kwezindaba zokubonga.

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