Ukuqonda Ukukhula Kwezingane

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• Kuyini ukukhula kwezingane?
• Zenzeka nini?
• Ziyini izimpawu zokukhula ngokushesha?
• Yini ongayenza?
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Ngonyaka wokuqala nengane, kuningi okumangazayo - iminwe nezinzwane zabo ezithandekayo, amehlo abo amahle, indlela emangalisayo abangaveza ngayo ukushaywa kwenabukeni okugqoka yonke intshi yezingubo zabo nesihlalo semoto, nokuthi kungakanani zikhula ngqo phambi kwamehlo akho. Ezinye zazo ngokusobala zijabulisa kakhulu kunezinye.

Kungenzeka ukuthi ukufika kwakho okusha kuzosiphindaphinda isisindo sabo sokuzalwa ngezinyanga ezi-5 bese kusiphinda kathathu ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala. Lokho kukhula okukhulu ukukwenza ngonyaka owodwa nje!

Eqinisweni, ezinye izinsuku kungahle kube sengathi awukwazi ukuqeda ilondolo ngokushesha ngaphambi kokuba zigqoke izingubo zazo. Akuwona umcabango wakho ukuthi zikhula ngokushesha okukhulu - mhlawumbe ukukhula nje.

Kuyini ukukhula kwezingane?

Isikhathi sokukhula yisikhathi lapho ingane yakho iba nesikhathi esikhudlwana sokukhula. Ngalesi sikhathi, bangahle bathande ukuncelisa kaningi, bashintshe izindlela zabo zokulala, futhi ngokuvamile babe fussier.

Ngenkathi ezinye zalezi zimpawu zokukhula zingabonakala zingahlala unomphela ngenkathi ubhekene nazo, ukukhula okuvame ukukhula kugcina izinsuku ezimbalwa kuya esontweni.

Khumbula ukuthi ukukhula ngonyaka wokuqala akugcini nje ngobukhulu, kepha futhi kungokuthuthuka. Ngezikhathi lapho izingane zisebenza ekufundeni amakhono amasha ungabona ezinye zalezi zinkomba ezifanayo.

Zenzeka nini?

Ngenkathi yonke ingane ihlukile, kungenzeka ukuthi uzwe ukukhula okuncane impela ngonyaka wokuqala. Nakhu lapho ungabona khona ukukhula kwengane yakho:

• Isonto elilodwa kuya kwamathathu ubudala
• Amaviki ayisithupha
• 3 izinyanga
• Izinyanga eziyi-6
• Izinyanga eziyi-9

Vele kukhona uhla, futhi ezinye izingane zingaba nokuganga okungatheni noma okubonakalayo. Inqobo nje uma ingane yakho idla kaningi ngokwanele, ikhiqiza amanabukeni manzi futhi angcolile, futhi ilandela ijika labo eshadini lokukhula ungaqiniseka ukuthi ikhula kahle.

Ziyini izimpawu zokukhula ngokushesha?

Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, kungenzeka ukuthi kube nezinguquko ezithile zokuziphatha eziphakamisa ukuthi omncane wakho ubeka umsebenzi owengeziwe ekukhuleni. Ukubona lezi zimpawu ezilandelayo kungasho ukuthi ukuqhuma kokukhula noma ukukhula kuyasebenza.

• Ukuphakelwa okungeziwe. Uma ingane yakho ngokuzumayo inentshisekelo yokuphakelwa ngamaqoqo noma ingabonakali yanelisekile ngemuva kokuqeda ibhodlela layo lobisi lwebele noma ifomula ingahle ibe nesifiso esengeziwe sokufanisa izidingo zomzimba wayo okhulayo.
• Shintsha ebuthongweni. Lokhu kungahambisana nokuphakelwa okungeziwe (ngubani ongakuthandi ukudla okuphakathi kwamabili?). Lolu shintsho lungasho ukuvuka kusenesikhathi kusukela ngezithongo, maphakathi nokuvuka kwasebusuku, noma (uma ungomunye wabanenhlanhla!) Ukulala isikhathi eside noma kaningi. Eqinisweni, kuphakanyiswe ukuthi izikhathi zokulala ezikhuphukile ziyisibikezelo sokwanda kobude kungakapheli amahora angama-48.
• Ubunzima. Ngisho nezingane ezijabule kakhulu zingathola ukukhononda okuncane ngesikhathi sokukhula. Ukwanda kwendlala, izindlela zokulala eziphazamisekile, ngisho nezinhlungu ezikhulayo kungaba imbangela.

Yini ongayenza?

• Bondle lapho belambile. Uma ingane yakho enceliswa ibele imvamisa ijabule ukuhamba amahora amathathu phakathi kokuphakelayo kepha ngokungazelelwe ibonakale ilambile ngemuva kwamahora ama-2 kuphela (noma ngaphansi), qhubeka udle ngokufunwayo. Lokhu kuzohlala izinsuku ezimbalwa kuphela futhi izifunzo ezingeziwe zizoqinisekisa ukuthi ukunikezwa kwakho kuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo. Uma omncane wakho esebenzisa ifomula noma ubisi olumpontshwe ungahle uthande ukunikela nge-ounce eyengeziwe ngesikhathi sokudla kwasemini noma phakathi kokudla uma kusabonakala ukuthi balambile.
• Basize balale. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukulandela ukuhola kwabo uma bedinga ukuphumula okwengeziwe. Uma kubonakala sengathi awubalalisi, shayela ukubekezela kwakho noma ngabe izinto ziba nzima kakhulu ngesikhathi sokulala noma ngokuvuka ebusuku. Kubalulekile ukugcina inqubo yakho ejwayelekile yokulala kanye neshejuli uma kwenzeka ngalesi siphazamiso esifushane. Kuzokwenza ukubuyela emgqeni kube lula uma usudlule ekukhuleni okukhulayo.
• Yiba nesineke nothando. Nikeza ama-cuddles angeziwe nesikhathi sokuthoba ndawonye. Uma zixakekile ungazama isikhumba nesikhumba, ukugeza, ukufunda, ukucula, ukuzamazama, ukuhamba ngaphandle, noma yini ingane yakho ekujabulelayo.
• Zinakekele kahle. Akuyona nje ingane yakho ebhekana nalezi zinguquko. Bangaba nzima kuwe, futhi. Naka izidingo zakho zokudla nokokuphumula. Vumela abanye abathanda ingane yakho basize ngokunakekelwa ukuze uthole amakhefu.
• Naka impilo yonke yengane. Njengoba izingane zingakwazi ukusitshela ukuthi zizizwa kanjani kulo nyaka wokuqala kungaba nzima ukwazi ngokweqiniso lapho izinto zingahambi kahle. Uma ingane yakho ihlangabezana nezinye izimpawu ezingaphezu kwalokhu okuchazwe ngenhla cabanga ukuthi kungaba yini okunye ngaphandle kokukhula kokukhula. Uma ingane yakho ikhombisa izimpawu zokugula njengomkhuhlane, ukuqubuka, ukuphelelwa amanzi emzimbeni (amanabukeni ambalwa amanzi noma angcolile), noma ezinye izindaba qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nodokotela wezingane.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Ngaphambi kokuthi wazi ukuthi ingane yakho encane esanda kuzalwa izoba yingane encane (engalokothi siyisho?). Kuningi abakhulayo okufanele bakwenze ukuze bafike lapho, futhi ngeke kuhlale kulula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngenhlanhla banakho lapho ubagcina bondliwe, ubathande ngezinselelo, futhi ubungaze ukukhula kwabo okumangalisayo.