Ama-Orgasms ahlanganisiwe: Ayini nokuthi Ungaba Nawo Kanjani

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- Yini i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe?
- Ngabe izwakala kanjani?
- Ungayifinyelela kanjani i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe
- Solo
- Bahlanganyele
- Izikhundla ezihamba phambili zocansi zama-orgasms ahlanganisiwe:
- Thembela amathumbu akho ngamaqiniso
Ulungele ukuba nama-orgasms amaningi ngasikhathi sinye?
I-orgasm yesitho sangasese sowesifazane ivame ukubonakala ingekho, kepha abantu abane-clitorises kanye nama-vaginas babusiswe kakhulu. Amaqhinga namathoyizi angasiza ukuyiqonda kahle (ukusikisela: inkohliso yokuqala ukubekezela), futhi kungenzeka ukufeza izinhlobo eziningi ze-orgasm - ngasikhathi sinye. Sikhuluma ngesitho sangasese sowesifazane, isigaxa, ingquza, ne-erogenous.
Kepha muva nje uhlobo olwehlukile lwe-orgasm selungena olimini lwezocansi: i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe.
Yini i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe?
I-orgasm ehlanganisiwe ichazwa njenge-clitoral kanye ne-orgasm yesitho sangasese sowesifazane eyenzeka ngasikhathi sinye. Ngakho-ke, yebo, ngobuchwepheshe ama-orgasms amabili ngasikhathi sinye avame ukuholela ekuphenduleni okukhulu, okugcwele komzimba.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi isinyathelo sokuqala sokuba ne-orgasm ehlanganisiwe sikwazi ukukhuthaza kokubili i-clitoris kanye nesitho sangasese ngesikhathi esisodwa, okungekho nzima njengoba kuzwakala.
Okokuqala, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ama-orgasms wesitho sangasese sowesifazane nesitho sangasese asebenza kanjani.
Ama-orgasms wesitho sangasese sangasese ngokuvamile afaka ukushaya i-G-spot, etholakala odongeni lwangaphakathi lwesitho sowesifazane sangasese. Ukukhuthaza indawo ye-G ngengcindezi ejwayelekile kungaholela ku-orgasm.
bathole futhi nge-ultrasound ukuthi i-G-spot kungenzeka ibucayi kakhulu ngoba iyingxenye yenethiwekhi ye-clitoral: impande ye-clitoral itholakala ngemuva kodonga lwangaphakathi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Ngakho-ke, ukushaya indawo ye-G nakho kungashukumisa ingxenye ye-clitoris.
Okwe-clitoral orgasm, ama-orgasms ayenzeka lapho ingcindezi nokunyakaza okuphindaphindwayo kusetshenziselwa i-clitoris emanzi (evame ukutholwa nge-lube). I-clitoris isitho esigcwele imithambo esitholakala phezulu kwesitho sangasese esidlulela ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwe-labia. Kukhulu kunokucatshangwa.
Ukuphindaphinda okuphansi naphansi noma ukunyakaza okuyindilinga ukufeza i-orgasm kungenziwa ngokusebenzisa iminwe (emanzi), isundu, noma ulimi, kuya ngokuthi umlingani wakho uthanda ini.
Ngabe izwakala kanjani?
I-orgasm ehlanganisiwe ingafingqwa njenge-ah-mazing - futhi ibe namandla kakhulu kunama-orgasms wesitho sangasese sowesifazane noma ama-clitoral kuphela.
Njengoba zombili izitho zangasese ne-clitoris zivuselelwa, i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe ingadala noma yini kusuka ekunyakazeni kokuzibandakanya okulingisa ukudlikizela kwe-ejaculation yabesifazane kwezinye izimo. (Lokhu kwenzeka lapho i-G-spot ivuselelwa, okwenza ukuthi izindlala zeSkene ngapha nangapha kwe-urethra nazo zikhuthazwe.)
Kepha kufanele futhi wazi ukuthi ama-clashlor noma ama-orgasms wesitho sangasese sowesifazane angabukeka kanjani noma azizwe eyedwa:
- Clitoral ama-orgasms avame ukuzwakala ebusweni bomzimba, njengokuzwa okuzwakala esikhumbeni sakho nasebuchosheni bakho.
- Isitho sangasese sowesifazane ama-orgasms ajulile emzimbeni futhi angazwakala ngumuntu ongena esithweni sangasese ngoba izindonga zangasese zizoshaya ngamandla.
Ayikho i-orgasm efanayo, noma kunjalo. Ukuthi umzimba wakho udedela kanjani kungaba ibanga ukusuka ekububuleni okuthambile kuye ekukhishweni okunamandla. Uma kukhulunywa ngokujaha ama-orgasms, kungcono ukuthi ungayi ocansini unomgomo wokugcina engqondweni.
Kepha uma uzizwa ukhululekile nomlingani wakho futhi ufuna ukuya ku-orgasm ehlanganisiwe, funda ezinye izeluleko.
Ungayifinyelela kanjani i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe
Noma wazi ukuthi ungazisusa kanjani kuzo zombili izindlela, i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe izosebenza. Amanye amathiphu? Khululeka bese ungena ngenhloso yokuthola injabulo hhayi ikakhulukazi uhlobo lwe-orgasm.
Ungazizwa sengathi udinga ukuqala ngokushukumisa zombili i-G-spot kanye ne-clitoris ngasikhathi sinye, noma. Uma ingxenye eyodwa ithatha isikhathi eside ukuphakama, gxila lapho kuqala. Futhi maqondana nesikhathi sokuqala, isikhathi futhi singumngani wakho (ungahleleli ukugijimela ukusebenza ngemuva!).
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Ukufeza i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe wedwa, qala ngobulili ngokuthola i-G-spot:
- Usebenzisa iminwe yakho noma ithoyizi locansi, phakamisela phezulu ubheke enkingeni yesisu sakho ngokunyakaza okuthi “woza lapha”.
- Phinda ukunyakaza njengoba umuzwa wakha, futhi - esikhundleni sokunyakaza kokungena nokuphuma - uzofuna ukugcina ugxile kule ndawo.
- Ngesinye isandla sakho, qala ukusebenza i-clitoris. Uma udinga ukufaka i-lube, yithathe!
- Faka ingcindezi esheshayo futhi enzima ngokunyakaza okuphindaphindwayo usebenzisa iminwe yakho noma intende yesandla, uye emuva naphambili noma isiyingi.
Ama-vibrator futhi ayindlela enhle yokuvuselela i-G-spot ne-clitoris yakho, ikakhulukazi uma ukufinyelela kokubili kubonakala kungumsebenzi omningi.
Bahlanganyele
Uma unozakwethu, ungabatshela indlela engcono yokufinyelela i-G-spot yakho ngezandla kuqala. Mimic that "come here" motion towards your belly inkinobho ngaphambi kwanoma iluphi uhlobo lokungena luqala.
Umlingani wakho angasebenzisa futhi umlomo nolimi ukukhuthaza i-clitoris. Bangase baqale ukuqabula indawo, bese besebenzisa ichopho lolimi lwabo ukukhotha, baqale kancane futhi benyuse isivinini nengcindezi kanye nokunyakaza, njengokuya phezulu naphansi noma okuyindilinga.
Ngesikhathi sokungena, esinye sezikhundla ezihamba phambili zokufeza ukukhuthazeka kwe-clitoral sibizwa ngokuthi isikhundla "sokugibela phezulu".
Ukuzama lokhu, lala ngomhlane. Umlingani wakho kufanele akhonze ipipi lakhe noma ithoyizi lakhe locansi ukuze shaft engenhla igudluze i-clitoris yakho njengoba igxila. Ukugxila ngakunye kufanele kuslayidele i-hood yakho phezulu naphansi, noma kunikeze ingcindezi eyanele ngaphezulu kwe-hood ukuvuselela i-clitoris yakho.
Izikhundla ezihamba phambili zocansi zama-orgasms ahlanganisiwe:
- cowgirl noma reverse cowgirl
- emi
- kuvaliwe isikhundla sezithunywa zevangeli
- ukufaka isipuni
- doggy (kodwa ngaphandle kwezandla phansi)

Khumbula, wonke umzimba wehlukile. Uma lezi zikhundla zobulili ezithandwayo zingasebenzi, kuhlale kunezinguquko ezincane ongazama ukushaya izindawo ezifanele.
Futhi, akukho ingcindezi yokuthi i-orgasm yakho ehlanganisiwe ibe ngeyokuhlangana kanye nesitho sangasese sowesifazane ngasikhathi sinye. Encwadini yethu, noma yikuphi ukuhlanganiswa kwe-orgasm (kungaba i-anal noma ingono!) Kuyinjabulo.
Thembela amathumbu akho ngamaqiniso
Kutholakale ukuthi ngokwesilinganiso, amaphesenti angama-54 abesifazane athola i-orgasm ngokugqugquzela okwenziwe ngokobulili nangokwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, uma kuqhathaniswa namaphesenti angama-34 abenza i-orgasmed nge-clitoral stimulation kuphela kanye namaphesenti ama-6 athambile ngokugqugquzela kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane kuphela.
Futhi izikhathi zokuqala? Thembela emathunjini akho: Uyawazi umehluko phakathi kwama-orgasms e-clitoral and vaginal.
Ngokuya ngomlando we-clitoral kanye ne-orgasms yesitho sangasese sowesifazane, izifundo ezimbili ezenziwe ngeminyaka yama-1970s zathola ukuthi abesifazane abahlanganyela ocansini bayawazi umehluko phakathi kwama-orginal clitoral and vaginal.
Ngama-akhawunti azibikayo, abesifazane bachaze i-orgasm ye-clitoral njenge- “localized, intact and ngokomzimba eyanelisayo, kanti i-orgasm yesitho sangasese sowesifazane ichazwe njengeqinile futhi ihlala isikhathi eside ukwedlula i-clitoral orgasm, 'deep,' a 'whole body' sension with throbbing feelings, futhi kwanelisa ngokwengeziwe ngokwengqondo. ”
Manje ake ucabange ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani ngasikhathi sinye.
U-Emily Shiffer ungumkhiqizi wewebhu wedijithali wangaphambilini weMen's Health and Prevention, futhi njengamanje ungumbhali ozimele osebenza kakhulu kwezempilo, ukudla okunomsoco, ukwehlisa isisindo somzimba, nokuqina komzimba. Uzinze ePennsylvania futhi uthanda zonke izinto zakudala, i-cilantro, nomlando waseMelika.