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U-Louise Aubery ungumdlali waseFrance oneminyaka engu-20 ubudala okhuluma ngokubonisa ukuthi ukuphila okunempilo kungaba mnandi kakhulu futhi kube lula kanjani uma wenza izinto ozithandayo. Uyaqonda futhi namandla eza nepulatifomu yakhe, kanye nengozi yokubona izithombe ezifakwe ngokuphelele zabathonya namamodeli. Muva nje, uthathe isinqumo sokuyigcina ingeyangempela futhi wabelana ngokuthunyelwe ukufakazela ukuthi ama-engeli ayikho konke-noma ngabe ileveli yakho yokuqina ingaba yini. (Okuhlobene: Lo Mmeli Omuhle Womzimba Ufuna Ukuba Uyeke Ukulwela I-Angle Ephelele)

Esithombeni, uLouise wenza okuthile esikwenzile konke impelakwenziwe ngaphambili esibukweni: Emcindezela isinqa. Esithombeni esiseceleni, uqokomisa ukuthi kungakuguqula kangakanani ukubukeka kokuphangwa kwakho, uma kuqhathaniswa neposi eqhamukayo esivame ukuyibona ku-Instagram.

Futhi into, wonke umuntu isinqe sibukeka kanjena uma usikhama. Njenge wonke umuntu amahips namathanga anwebeka emaceleni uma uguqa, futhi wonke umuntu imibimbi esiswini uma uhlala phansi. (Isibonelo A: U-Anna Victoria kanye nesibonelo B: Jen Widerstrom.)

Yize lokhu kungafanele kube uguquko, akuvamile ukuthi sibone izinqe ku-Instagram. Kungaba lula ukukhohlwa ukuthi lawa "maphutha" ajwayelekile lapho konke okubonayo kokuphakelayo kwakho kungukuphangwa okukodwa ngemuva kokulandelayo.

Umyalezo uLouise awuthumele nalesi sithombe nawo uyisikhumbuzo sokuthi umzimba "ophelele" uyohlale uyinjongo engafinyeleleki. "Yebo ngiyasebenza. Yebo, ngidla ukudla okunempilo. Cha, anginawo umzimba ophelele," ubhale eceleni kwezithombe.

"Ngesikhathi ngiqala ukuzivocavoca umzimba, nganginokulindela okungasile emzimbeni engangifisa / engangifuna ukukuthola," kubhala yena. "Ekugcineni, ngizothola igebe lamathanga, isisu esisicaba, futhi akusekho cellulite!" wayezicabangela ngaleso sikhathi.

Kepha noma ngabe unalezi zimfanelo zomzimba noma cha, uLouis ufuna abantu bazi ukuthi "okunempilo" akubukeki, kuyindlela yokuphila. "Yebo, ngisagcina amafutha esiswini sami. Yebo, ngisenayo i-cellulite. Futhi yebo, ngisaphila." (Kuhlobene: Indlela uKelly Clarkson Afunda Ngayo Ukuthi Ukuba Mncane Akufani Nokuba Nempilweni)

Uphetha okuthunyelwe kwakhe ngokusikhumbuza: "Umzimba wakho AKUSONA isitha" futhi usinxusa ukuthi sibe nomusa kithina.

Lesi akusona okokuqala uLouise evula izindinganiso ezingafinyeleleki zomphakathi zobuhle-okuvame ukuqhutshwa onobuhle nabashushisi ku-Instagram. Ngasekuqaleni konyaka, wabelane ngokuthunyelwe mayelana nokuthi yini nokuthi yini engabonakali "njengekhangayo"

Kulokhu okuthunyelwe, uLouise ubuza: "Uyini umzimba ohehayo ncamashi? Umphakathi unencazelo eyinqaba yokuthi 'uyakhanga.' Kusho ukuthi unezindinganiso ezifanelekayo, ezibukeka njengamamodeli emabhodini okukhangisa. Umzimba onamajika, kodwa hhayi kakhulu; onencazelo, kodwa hhayi kakhulu; mude, kodwa hhayi kakhulu. Ngicabanga ukuthi igama eligqamisa lokhu kakhulu 'elingenasici.' "(Okuhlobene: UKatie Willcox Ufuna Ukwazi Ukuthi Ungaphezu Kokubonayo Esibukweni)

Uqhubeke ngokusinxusa ukuthi silisuse lelo gama esilulumagama sethu ngokuphelele. "Kuyiphutha kakhulu. Ngoba yikho okusenza sikulangazelele. AKUKHO amaphutha," ebhala. Okungenani yilokho ebengikulangazelela isikhathi eside kangaka. Kodwa kuyisimungulu. Akekho 'ongenawo amaphutha.' Konke kuncike ekubekeni esikhetha ukubona izinto ngakho-ke ngokuzayo lapho uzizwa ungalungile ngawe, khumbula ukukhetha okuhle. " Shumayela.

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