Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwezingane Ngokomzwelo Nangokwengqondo

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• Ziyini izimpawu zokuhlukumeza izingane ngokomzwelo?
• Kufanele ngitshele bani?
• Yini engingayenza uma ngicabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ngilimaza ingane yami?
• Imiphumela yesikhathi eside yokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo
• Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ingane ehlukunyeziwe ilulame?

Kuyini ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo ezinganeni?

Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo ezinganeni kuchazwa njengokuziphatha, ukukhuluma, nezenzo zabazali, abanakekeli, noma ezinye izibalo ezibalulekile empilweni yengane ezinomthelela omubi emqondweni enganeni.

Ngokusho kukahulumeni wase-U.S., "Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo (noma ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomqondo) kuyindlela yokuziphatha ekhinyabeza ukukhula kwengane ngokomzwelo noma ukuzethemba kwayo."

Izibonelo zokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo zifaka:

• ukubiza igama
• ukuthuka
• ukusongela udlame (noma ngaphandle kokwenza izinsongo)
• ukuvumela izingane ukuthi zibone ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo komunye umuntu
• ukugodla uthando, ukwesekwa, noma ukuholwa

Kunzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa okungokomzwelo kwengane kuvame kangakanani. Izinhlobo eziningi zokuziphatha zingathathwa njengokuhlukumeza, futhi zonke izinhlobo kucatshangwa ukuthi azibikwa kakhulu.

U-Childhelp ulinganisela ukuthi minyaka yonke e-United States, izingane ezingaphezu kwezigidi ezingama-6.6 zibandakanyeka ekudlulisweni kwezimo ze-Child Protective Services (CPS). Ngokusho kuka, ngo-2014, zingaphezu kuka-702,000 izingane ezaqinisekiswa yi-CPS njengezazihlukunyeziwe noma ezinganakiwe.

Ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kwenzeka kuzo zonke izinhlobo zemindeni. Kodwa-ke, ukuhlukunyezwa okubikiwe kubonakala kuvame kakhulu emindenini oku:

• ukuba nobunzima bezezimali
• ukubhekana nokuba ngumzali ongayedwa
• ukubhekana (noma ukubhekana nakho) isehlukaniso
• olwa nezinkinga zokusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa

Ziyini izimpawu zokuhlukumeza izingane ngokomzwelo?

Izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo enganeni zingafaka:

• ukwesaba umzali
• bethi bayamzonda umzali
• bekhuluma kabi ngabo (njengokusho ukuthi, "Ngiyisilima")
• kubonakala kungavuthiwe ngokomzwelo uma kuqhathaniswa nontanga
• kukhombisa izinguquko ezingazelelwe enkulumweni (njengamalimi)
• ukubhekana noshintsho olungazelelwe ekuziphatheni (njengokungenzi kahle esikoleni)

Izimpawu kumzali noma kumnakekeli zifaka:

• ekhombisa ukungayinaki ingane noma ingayinaki nhlobo
• ekhuluma kabi ngengane
• ukungayithinti ingane noma ukuyiphatha ngothando
• ukunganaki izidingo zokwelashwa kwengane

Kufanele ngitshele bani?

Ezinye izindlela zokuhlukumeza, njengokumemeza, zingase zingabi yingozi ngokushesha. Kodwa-ke, ezinye izinhlobo, njengokuvumela izingane ukuthi zisebenzise izidakamizwa, zingalimaza ngokushesha. Uma unesizathu sokukholelwa ukuthi wena noma ingane oyaziyo isengozini, shayela ku-911 ngokushesha.

Uma wena noma othile omaziyo ehlukunyezwa ngokomoya, xhumana nezingane zakho zasendaweni noma iminyango yezinsizakalo zomndeni. Cela ukukhuluma nomeluleki. Iminyango eminingi yezinsizakalo zomndeni ivumela abafonayo ukuthi babike ukuhlukunyezwa okusolwayo ngokungaziwa.

Ungashayela ne-National Child Abuse Hotline ku-800-4-A-CHILD (800-422-4453) ukuthola imininingwane ngosizo lwamahhala endaweni yangakini.

Uma kungenakwenzeka ukuxhumana ne-ejensi yezinsizakalo zomndeni, cela usizo kothile omethembayo, ofana nothisha, isihlobo, udokotela, noma umabhalane.

Ungahle ukwazi ukusiza umndeni okhathazeke ngawo ngokunikela ngokugcina ingane noma ukwenza imisebenzi ethile. Kodwa-ke, ungazibeki engcupheni noma wenze noma yini ezokwandisa ubungozi bokuhlukunyezwa kwengane okhathazeke ngayo.

Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi kuzokwenzekani kubazali bengane noma abanakekeli bayo, khumbula ukuthi ukubathola usizo kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokubakhombisa ukuthi uyabakhathalela.

Yini engingayenza uma ngicabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ngilimaza ingane yami?

Ngisho nabazali abahle kakhulu kungenzeka ukuthi baklabalase izingane zabo noma basebenzise amagama anolaka ngezikhathi zengcindezi. Lokho akusikho ukuhlukumeza ngempela. Kodwa-ke, kufanele ucabange ukubiza umeluleki uma ukhathazekile ngokuziphatha kwakho.

Ukuba ngumzali kuwumsebenzi onzima nobaluleke kunayo yonke oyoke uyenze. Funa izinsizakusebenza ukuze ukwenze kahle. Isibonelo, shintsha indlela oziphatha ngayo uma usebenzisa njalo utshwala noma izidakamizwa ezingekho emthethweni. Le mikhuba ingathinta indlela ozinakekela ngayo izingane zakho.

Imiphumela yesikhathi eside yokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo

Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo kwengane kuxhumene nokukhula kahle kwengqondo kanye nokwakha ubunzima nokugcina ubudlelwane obuqinile. Kungaholela ezinkingeni esikoleni nasemsebenzini kanye nasekuziphatheni kobugebengu.

Ucwaningo lwakamuva olwenziwe ePurdue University lubike ukuthi abantu abadala ababa yizisulu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo noma ngokomzimba besezingane basengozini enkulu yokuba nomdlavuza.

Nabo bayathola.

Izingane ezihlukumezekile ngokomzwelo noma ngokomzimba futhi ezingalufuni usizo nazo zingaba ngabahlukumezi zona njengabantu abadala.

Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ingane ehlukunyeziwe ilulame?

Kungenzeka ngokuphelele ukuthi ingane ehlukunyezwe ngokomzwelo ilulame.

Ukufuna usizo lwesisulu sengane kuyisinyathelo sokuqala nesibaluleke kakhulu ekululameni.

Umzamo olandelayo kufanele kube ukuthola usizo kumhlukumezi namanye amalungu omndeni.

Nazi ezinye izinsiza zikazwelonke ezingasiza kule mizamo:

• Inombolo yocingo kazwelonke yodlame lwasekhaya ingafinyelelwa ku-24/7 ngengxoxo noma ngocingo (1-800-799-7233 noma i-TTY 1-800-787-3224) futhi ingafinyelela kubahlinzeki bezinsizakalo nezindawo zokukhosela ezweni lonke ukuhlinzeka ngosizo lwamahhala noluyimfihlo.
• Isango Lolwazi Lwezenhlalakahle Yezingane igqugquzela ukuphepha nenhlala-kahle yezingane, intsha, nemindeni futhi inikezela ngezixhumanisi, kufaka phakathi izinsizakalo zokusekela imindeni
• Amandla Okuphila.gov inikeza imininingwane kanye nezixhumanisi ezihlinzeka ukusekelwa kwezingane nemindeni ngezihloko eziningi zezempilo, kufaka phakathi ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane nokunganakwa.
• Vimbela Ukuhlukunyezwa Kwezingane eMelika ikhuthaza izinsizakalo ezisekela inhlalakahle yezingane futhi zenze izinhlelo zokusiza ukuvimbela ukuhlukunyezwa nokunganakwa kwezingane.
• Inombolo Kazwelonke Yokuhlukunyezwa Kwezingane ungatholwa ngo-24/7 ngo-1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) ukuthola imininingwane ngosizo lwamahhala endaweni yangakini.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, izwe ngalinye livamise ukuba nenombolo yalo yokuhlukumeza izingane ongaxhumana nayo ukuze uthole usizo.