Usayizi Wezingubo Yinombolo Nje, Futhi Nabu Ubufakazi

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Sonke siyawazi umzabalazo wegumbi lokugqoka ongenakugwenywa: ukubamba inqwaba yosayizi, ngethemba ukuthi oyedwa wabo uyalingana futhi ekugcineni ahambe ephoxekile. Akukho lutho olukhungathekisayo njengokusayizi okungahambelani ezitolo. Amathegi osayizi kade aba yimpicabadala njengoba abantu bengezi ngezinhlobo ezilingana nosayizi owodwa, futhi sonke asilingani sibe ngosayizi abahlukene. Izithombe ezinhle kakhulu zalo wesifazane zifakazela ngempela ukuthi kungani usayizi wezingubo ungenandaba.

Ngasekuqaleni kwale nyanga, uDeena Shoemaker wabelane ngokuthunyelwe kwakhe ku-Facebook ngesikhathi ezama izinto zokugqoka eziyisithupha ezehlukene ezilingana naye ngendlela efanayo. Ukubamba? Zonke zaziba ngosayizi kusuka kweziyisihlanu kuye kweziyishumi nambili.

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Ubhale wathi, "Cha, angithengisi ibhulukwe lami; ngitholile ithambo nje engizolikhetha." Akukhona nje ukuthi lokhu kuyinto uShoemaker azibonele yona mathupha, kodwa futhi usebenza njengomeluleki wamantombazane asakhula. Eminyakeni yabo, amathegi osayizi asho konke kubo - futhi ngandlela thile uShoemaker kufanele achaze ukuthi kungani kungenandaba.

"Ngilalele amantombazane amaningi engitshela ngokudla kwawo okusha kanye nezimfashini [zokwehlisa isisindo]. Ngike ngabamba amantombazane ekhala ezingalweni zami futhi wangibuza, 'Ukube bengiyisikhumba, ngabe ubengahlala?' Ngiluleke amantombazane abeqa ukudla. Ngibambe abanye bephalaza konke abasanda kukudla. "

Eqinisweni, akubona abesifazane kuphela ababhekana nalokhu futhi ngokuqinisekile kakhulu ngokuba nempilo nokujabula kunokulingana nosayizi othile.

Umenzi wezicathulo usishiya nomlayezo onamandla kakhulu:

"Usayizi ophrintwe ngaphakathi kwezingubo zakho uncike ekuthandweni yimboni yezemfashini futhi yehla yenyuka ngokushesha. Yeka ukukholelwa ezinkambisweni zomphakathi mayelana nokuthi kufanele ube ngubani nokuthi yini."

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