Isiteji Sokusebenza Kokhonkolo Sokuthuthukiswa Kokuqonda

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• Siyini isigaba sokusebenza kukakhonkolo?
• Senzeka nini isigaba sokusebenza kukakhonkolo?
• Izici zesigaba sokusebenza kokhonkolo
• Ukwahlukanisa
• Ukulondolozwa
• Ukuzihlukanisa
• Ukubuyiselwa emuva
• Ubukhulu
• Ukuzibandakanya emphakathini
• Izibonelo zesigaba sokusebenza kokhonkolo
• Ukulondolozwa
• Ukwahlukaniswa kanye nokwabiwa kwamandla ezindawo
• Ukuzibandakanya emphakathini
• Imisebenzi yesigaba sokusebenza kokhonkolo
• Funda etafuleni lesidlo sakusihlwa
• Qhathanisa amaswidi
• Yakha ngamabhulokhi
• Bhaka amakhukhi
• Xoxa izinganekwane
• Dlala kubhavu
• Hlela iphathi
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Lapho ingane yakho eneminyaka engama-7 ubudala engavumi ukuhamba ngokugibela amahhashi ngoba ibenza bathimule, yima ucabange. Ingabe bakwenzile ukuxhumana okuphuthelwe? Khansela ikilasi bese ugubha! Ingane yakho ikukhombisa ukuthi ifinyelele esigabeni esisha sokuthuthuka: Ingenza ukuxhumana okunengqondo phakathi kwemicimbi engafani.

Ngokusho kwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseSwitzerland uJean Piaget, kunezigaba ezine zokukhula kwengqondo (ukucabanga nokucabanga) esidlula kuzo njengoba sikhula sibe ngabantu abadala. Lesi sigaba sesithathu sibizwa ngokuthi isigaba sokusebenza kokhonkolo.

Siyini isigaba sokusebenza kukakhonkolo?

Uzibuza ukuthi kwenzekani kulesi sigaba? Ukusikisela: Ukhonkolo kusho izinto zomzimba futhi ukusebenza kusho indlela enengqondo yokusebenza noma ukucabanga. Ukukuhlanganisa konke, ingane yakho isiqala ukucabanga ngokunengqondo nangokunengqondo, kepha ijwayele ukukhawulelwa ekucabangeni ngezinto zomzimba.

Esigabeni esilandelayo sokukhula, ingane yakho izokwazi ukuqonda okungaqondakali, futhi nizokwazi ukwenza ifilosofi ndawonye.

Senzeka nini isigaba sokusebenza kukakhonkolo?

Isigaba sokusebenza kokhonkolo ngokuvamile siqala lapho ingane yakho ifinyelela eminyakeni engu-7 ubudala futhi ihlala ize ifinyelele eminyakeni engu-11. Cabanga ngakho njengesigaba soguquko phakathi kwezigaba ezimbili zokuqala zokukhula (inzwa yokuqonda kanye nezigaba zangaphambi kokusebenza) nesigaba sesine (isigaba sokusebenza esisemthethweni).

Abanye abacwaningi babuza umugqa wesikhathi kaPiaget. Bakhombise ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka esukela kwengu-6 noma eneminyaka emi-4 ubudala, ziyakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yokuqonda ephawula lesi sigaba (noma okungenani ezinye izici zalesi sigaba.) Ngakho-ke ungamangali lapho ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-4 ukhombisa okuthile okunengqondo ongazange ucabange ngakho kuqala.

Izici zesigaba sokusebenza kokhonkolo

Ngakho-ke kwenzekani kini nobabili kule minyaka engu-4 ezayo? Nalu uhlu lwezimpawu eziyinhloko zalesi sigaba esibalulekile sentuthuko. Okokuzijabulisa nje, sikwenze kwaba uhlu lwazo ngokulandelana kwezinhlamvu zamagama. (Hei, lokhu kumayelana nokucabanga okunengqondo!)

Ukwahlukanisa

Zimbili izingxenye zokuhlukaniswa. Eyodwa ukuhlela izinto ngezigaba. Ingane yakho isivele ihlukanisa izimbali nezilwane ngezigaba ezimbili ezihlukene.

Kulesi sigaba, bangahamba igxathu elilodwa. Bayakuqonda ukuthi kunezigaba ezingaphansi kweqembu, njengezimbali eziphuzi nezibomvu noma izilwane ezindizayo nezilwane ezibhukudayo.

Ukulondolozwa

Lokhu ukuqonda ukuthi okuthile kungahlala kufana ngobuningi yize kubukeka kwehlukile. Lelo bhola lenhlama yokudlala lilingana noma ngabe uliklabha noma uligoqe libe yibhola.

Ukuzihlukanisa

Lokhu kuhlanganiswe nokongiwa kwemvelo. Ingane yakho idinga ukuthola ukwehla ukuze ikwazi ukonga kahle. Konke kumayelana nokugxila ezicini eziningana ngasikhathi sinye.

Umugqa weziqeshana ezinhlanu zamaphepha ulayini weziqeshana ezinhlanu zamaphepha, noma ngabe uzibeka kude kangakanani. Kulesi sigaba ingane yakho iyakubona lokhu ngoba ingakhohlisa inombolo nobude ngasikhathi sinye.

Ukubuyiselwa emuva

Lokhu kufaka ukuqonda ukuthi izenzo zingaguqulwa. Uhlobo lokuzivocavoca kwengqondo. Lapha, ingane yakho ingathola ukuthi imoto yakho iyi-Audi, i-Audi iyimoto futhi imoto iyimoto.

Ubukhulu

Konke kumayelana nokuhlunga ngokwengqondo iqembu lezinto kuhlobo oluthile lokuhleleka. Manje ingane yakho ingahlela kusuka kokude kakhulu kuya kokufushane kakhulu, noma ku-thinnest kuya kubanzi.

Ukuzibandakanya emphakathini

Lesi yisici obukade usilindile! Ingane yakho ayisazithandi futhi isezinakekele ngokuphelele kuyo. Bayakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi uMama unemicabango yakhe, imizwa yakhe, nesikhathi sakhe.

Yebo, umama ufuna ukushiya ipaki manje. Hhayi ngemuva kwaleyo mizuliswano emihlanu yokugcina kusilayidi.

Izibonelo zesigaba sokusebenza kokhonkolo

Masenze izici zalesi sigaba kube lula ukuziqonda.

Ukulondolozwa

Uthela inkomishi ende yesoda enkomishini emfushane. Ingabe ingane yakho iyamukela ngokuthula indebe emfushane? Mhlawumbe. Okwamanje bathole ukuthi imali esenkomishini yokuqala ayishintshi nje ngoba inkomishi entsha imfishane kunale yokuqala. Uyitholile: lokhu kumayelana nokongiwa.

Ukwahlukaniswa kanye nokwabiwa kwamandla ezindawo

Gijima. Khombisa ingane yakho izimbali ezine ezibomvu nezimbili ezimhlophe. Bese ubabuza, "Ingabe kunezimbali ezibomvu eziningi noma izimbali eziningi?" Lapho uneminyaka emi-5 ubudala, ingane yakho izothi, "Abomvu ngaphezulu."

Kepha lapho befika esigabeni sokusebenza kokhonkolo, bayakwazi ukuhlonipha futhi bagxile ezintweni ezimbili ngasikhathi sinye: inombolo nesigaba. Manje, bazobona ukuthi kukhona isigaba kanye nesigaba esiphansi futhi bakwazi ukuphendula, "Izimbali eziningi." Ingane yakho isebenzisa imishini yazo zombili izigaba kanye nokwabiwa kwamandla emiphakathini.

Ukuzibandakanya emphakathini

Lapho ungazizwa kahle futhi uphumule kusofa amehlo akho evaliwe, ingabe ingane yakho ikulethela ingubo oyithandayo? Esigabeni sokusebenza kokhonkolo, bayakwazi ukudlula ngaphezu kwalokho abakufunayo futhi bacabange ngalokho okudingwa omunye umuntu.

Imisebenzi yesigaba sokusebenza kokhonkolo

Ulungele isenzo? Manje njengoba usuyazi ukuthi ukucabanga kwengane yakho kushintsha kanjani, nalu uhlu lwemisebenzi yobumnandi eningayenza ndawonye ukuqinisa lamakhono okuqonda.

Funda etafuleni lesidlo sakusihlwa

Thatha ibhokisi elincane lobisi ulithele engilazini ende, ewumngcingo. Thatha ibhokisi lesibili lobisi ulithele engilazini emfushane. Buza ingane yakho ukuthi iyiphi ingilazi equkethe okuningi.

Qhathanisa amaswidi

Dlulela kuma-candy bar for dessert. Nawe uthola eyodwa! (Lo ngumsebenzi onzima futhi ufanele ukuphathwa kahle.) Phula umucu owodwa woswidi ube yizicucu, uwusakaze kancane, bese ucela ingane yakho ukuthi ikhethe phakathi kwamaswidi amabili - elilodwa liphukile nelilodwa liqinile. Isiphakamiso sokubuka senza kube lula ukufunda ukuthi amabha amaswidi ayafana. Imayelana nokongiwa.

Yakha ngamabhulokhi

Izicucu zeLego zingafundisa nokongiwa. Yakha umbhoshongo omkhulu. Bese uvumela ingane yakho ukuthi ihlukane nayo. (Yebo, abakwaLegos bangashayana ngaphansi kombhede.) Manje babuze, "Ngabe bekukhona izingcezu ezengeziwe kulombhoshongo owakhiwe noma kwinqwaba ehlakazekile?"

Bhaka amakhukhi

Izibalo zingaba mnandi! Bhaka amakhukhi e-chocolate chip bese usebenzisa izinkomishi zokulinganisa ukuze unikeze ingane yakho umuzwa omuhle wezingxenyana. Khuluma ngokuthi yisiphi isithako esimele inani elikhulu kakhulu. Cela ingane yakho ibabhale ngokulandelana. Futhi-ke yiba nesibindi bese uphinda kabili iresiphi yokuzijwayeza okwengeziwe. Njengoba ingane yakho iba nekhono ngokwengeziwe, qhubekela ezinkingeni zamagama. Lokhu kubasiza ukuba bathuthukise ukucabanga kwabo okungaqondakali.

Xoxa izinganekwane

Unesikhathi esithe xaxa? Thatha indaba eyintandokazi yengane yakho uyithayiphe. Bese usika indaba ngezigaba. Ndawonye, ​​ningabeka indaba ngokulandelana. Thatha lesi sinyathelo uye phambili futhi ukhuthaze ingane yakho ukuthi ibe ngomunye wabalingiswa. Yini abayenzayo ngokulandelayo? Bazizwa kanjani? Yini abagqoke ephathini yokugqoka kanokusho?

Dlala kubhavu

Uma ungumlandeli wesayensi, cela ingane yakho ukuthi intante izinto ezihlukene kubhavu wokubheka ukuthi imuphi usinki nokuthi yikuphi okuntanta. Ingane yakho ngeke ibe nenkinga yokukhumbula izinyathelo ezahlukahlukene ekuhlolweni. Ngakho-ke bakhuthaze ukuthi badlule kulokhu futhi bacabangele izinto ngokuhlehla. Bangakutshela ukuthi yisiphi isinyathelo esedlule? Futhi yisiphi isinyathelo esafika ngaphambi kwalokho? Yonke indlela eya esinyathelweni sokuqala?

Hlela iphathi

Cela ingane yakho ikusize uhlelele ugogo iphathi emangazayo (noma omunye othandekayo). Kuzofanele bacabange ngokudla okuthandwa nguGogo ngisho nokuthi hlobo luni lwesipho uGogo angalufuna. Konke kungokudlula kumbuthano wabo we-egocentric. Futhi khipha amakhukhi e-chocolate chip owabhakile. Uma uyiphindaphinde iresiphi, uzoba nokuningi.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Ungaziqhenya kakhulu ngengane yakho ngokufinyelela kulezi zigaba zentuthuko. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi ukucabanga kwengane yakho kuseseqinile. Kujwayelekile impela ukuthi usenenkinga ngemiqondo engaqondakali. Bazofinyelela lezi zigigaba ezihamba phambili ngejubane labo futhi uzobe ukhona ukubathokozisa ngokuqhubekayo.