Ukufingqwa Ngokuphikisana Ngabadlali BaseTransgender - nokuthi Kungani Befanele Ukusekelwa Kwakho Okugcwele

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• Kungani Sikhuluma Ngabasubathi BeTransgender Manje
• Eminingi yale Mithethosivivinywa Yahlukanisa Amathimba Ngocansi Lwezinto Eziphilayo '
• Isimangalo Esikhulu: Amantombazane aseTransgender Anayo "Inzuzo Engafanele"
• Kusho Ukuthini Le Mithetho Ekhokhelwa Abasubathi BaseTransgender
• Ukuthi Abalingani BeCisgender Bangakubonisa Kanjani Ukusekela Kwabo
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Ngenani elandayo lezindawo zomphakathi ezilungisa iminyango yazo yokugezela ngezimpawu ezithi "All Gender Welcome", Pose ukuthola iziphakamiso ezimbili zeGolden Globe, kanye noLaverne Cox kanye no-Elliot Page beqinisa izindawo zabo njengamagama asekhaya, kuyiqiniso ukuthi, ezindaweni eziningi, imibono yomphakathi mayelana nobulili iyashintsha (ekugcineni) iyashintsha, futhi iya ngokuya yamukela abantu abashintsha ubulili.

Kepha abadlali be-transgender abasenkundleni, echibini, nasendundumeni babhekana nesimo esihluke kakhulu emhlabeni wezemidlalo.

"Ezifundazweni eziningi ezweni lonke, kube nomzamo omkhulu wokunqabela abasubathi abangama-transgender ukuthi bangazibandakanyi nemidlalo yezikole emaqenjini ahambisana nokuthi angobani," kuchaza uCasey Pick osezingeni eliphezulu kwezokugqugquzela nezindaba zikahulumeni kuThe Trevor Project , engenzi-nzuzo igxile ekuvikeleni ukuzibulala kwabantu abasha abathandana nobulili obufanayo, abesilisa abesilisa nabesifazane, abesilisa nabesilisa, abesilisa nabesifazane. Ezingeni eliyisisekelo, lokho kusho ukuthi amantombazane ashintsha ubulili kulezo zifundazwe awavunyelwe ngokomthetho ukubamba iqhaza kwezemidlalo namanye amantombazane, futhi abafana be-transgender abakwazi ukuhlanganyela kwezemidlalo nabafana abashintsha ubulili. Kepha bamba ujule, futhi uzobona ukuthi lokhu kuvinjelwa kunomthelela omkhulu kakhulu kunama-varsity rosters kuphela.

Qhubeka ufunde ukuze uqonde kangcono ukuthi kungani lokhu kuvinjelwa kusenziwa manje, ukuthi zisho ukuthini kubasubathi bama-transgender, nokuthi kungani ukubukeka "kokulunga" okuzungeze lokhu kuvinjelwa akuyona into ebonakala ngayo.

Kungani Sikhuluma Ngabasubathi BeTransgender Manje

Imizimba yabantu abancane ngokobulili (amantombazane, abesifazane, abantu abangebona kanambambili) kade yaba umthombo wokuqagela nokucwaswa kwezemidlalo. Bheka nje konke okwenzekile ngoCaster Semenya, umgijimi wama-Olympic amahlandla amabili. USemenya ugadwe umzimba ngokwedlulele kusukela ngo-2009 ngemuva kokuthi ephule umgijimi wamamitha angu-800 emqhudelwaneni womhlaba eBerlin, eGermany. Kutholakale ukuthi une-hyperandrogenism, okusho ukuthi amazinga akhe e-testosterone aphezulu ngokwemvelo "kunebanga lesifazane elijwayelekile." Kusukela lapho, uke wabhekana nezimpi ezishubile ne-International Association of Athletics Federations ukuze avikele izicoco zakhe nelungelo lokugijima esigabeni sabesifazane ukuya phambili.

Kodwa-ke, ama-Olympics aseTokyo azayo kanye nezindaba zakamuva ezithinta umgijimi we-transgender u-CeCé Telfer zibeke amaphuzu kanye nezinselelo zokulawula imidlalo ye-transgender endaweni evelele futhi. U-Telfer ngeke avunyelwe ukungenela izivivinyo zama-Olympics e-U.S. ngezithiyo zabesifazane zamamitha angu-400 ngenxa yokuthi akazange ahlangabezane nezidingo zokufaneleka ezibekwe yi-World Athletics, inhlangano ephethe umhlaba wonke yokugijima ezemidlalo, ngokusho kwe-Associated Press. Izidingo zokufaneleka - ezakhishwa ngo-2019 futhi zihlanganisa, isibonelo, ukuthi amazinga e-testosterone adinga ukuba ngaphansi kwama-nanomoles angu-5 ilitha isikhathi esingangezinyanga ezingu-12 - kuvalwe imicimbi yamazwe ngamazwe yabesifazane phakathi kwamamitha angu-400 kanye nekhilomitha kubasubathi abangazange bahlangabezane. kubo. Ngaphandle kokubuyela emuva, uTelfer ubukeka esithatha kancane lesi sinqumo. Embhalweni we-Instagram ngemuva nje kokuvela kwezindaba, u-Telfer wabhala, "I-Can't stop will stop🙏🏾. Akukho okuzobamba lezi 🦵🏾 phansi. Ngingumuntu okhathazekayo kaNkulunkulu futhi ngiyisosha. Ngiyenzela yami abantu futhi ngikwenzela wena ❤️🌈💜💛."

Kwathi ngoJulayi 2, abanye abasubathi ababili bagwetshelwa ukungafaneleki ukuncintisana emicimbini ethile yomkhondo wabesifazane kumaMidlalo azayo ngenxa yamazinga abo e-testosterone, yize babeyi-cisgender; Abasubathi baseNamibia uChristine Mboma noBeatrice Masilingi, bobabili abaneminyaka engu-18 ubudala, baphoqeleke ukuthi bahoxe kulo mcimbi wamamitha angu-400 ngemuva kokuthi izivivinyo ziveze ukuthi amazinga abo e-testosterone abephezulu kakhulu, ngokusho kukaisitatimende esikhishwe yiNamibia National Olympic Committee. Imiphumela yabo yokuhlolwa ikhombise ukuthi bobabili abasubathi banamazinga aphezulu ngokwemvelo e-testosterone abenza bangafaneleki emicimbini ephakathi kwamamitha angama-400 kuye kwayi-1600, ngokomthetho we-World Athletics; kodwa-ke, basazokwazi ukuncintisana emjahweni wamamitha ayi-100 namamitha angama-200 e-Tokyo.

Uhulumeni waseNamibia uphendule ngesitatimende esiseka abasubathi, wathi, “UMnyango ucela i-Athletics Namibia kanye nekomiti le-Namibia National Olympics ukuthi baxoxisane ne-International Association of Athletics Federations (manje eyaziwa ngokuthi yi-World Athletics) kanye ne-International Olympics Committee ukuze kutholakale izindlela ezingasiza. angashiyi ngaphandle noma yimuphi umsubathi ngenxa yezimo zemvelo ezingazenzelanga, "ngokusho AmaReuters.

Kepha ama-Olimpiki azayo akayona ukuphela kwesizathu esenza abagijimi be-transgender babe sematheni, noma kunjalo; Izifundazwe eziningana zisanda kuthatha izinyathelo ezigcina abafundi be-transgender bengena kwezemidlalo. Kusukela ekuqaleni kuka-2021, i-Alabama, i-Arkansas, i-Mississippi, i-Montana, i-South Dakota, i-West Virginia, i-Tennessee ne-Florida konke sekubeke imikhawulo evimba abafundi be-transgender ukuthi bangazibandakanyi neqembu labo lobulili elifanele ezikoleni zomphakathi. IFlorida yisifundazwe sakamuva sokwenza lokhu, uMbusi waseFlorida uRon DeSantis asayine umthethosivivinywa okhohliswa ngokuthi, "Fairness in Women's Sports Act" ngoJuni 1 walo nyaka (okungukuthi, yebo, kuba usuku lokuqala lweNyanga Yokuziqhenya). Ezinye izifundazwe eziningi (iNorth Carolina, iTexas, iMichigan, ne-Oklahoma ukubala nje ezimbalwa) njengamanje zizama ukushaya umthetho ofanayo.

Umsindo omningi ozungeze lezi zikweletu wenze umphakathi ukholwe ukuthi izinhlangano ezincane, i-transphobic grassroots zibhebhezela lo mlilo we-transphobic - kodwa akunjalo. Esikhundleni salokho, "lokhu kuhlanganiswa ngu kazwelonke izinhlangano ezilwa ne-LGBTQ ezifana ne-Alliance Defending Freedom, inhloso yayo enkulu akuyona ukuvikela abesifazane namantombazane kwezemidlalo, kepha kunalokho ukubekela eceleni intsha engama-transgender kanye ne-non-binary, "kusho uPick. La maqembu asebenzisa amalungelo nemizimba yentsha ye-transgender ukulwa ngokumelene nokwamukelwa nokwanda kwenhlonipho umphakathi we-LGBTQ onqobile eminyakeni yamuva. "Lokhu kumayelana nezepolitiki kuphela, ukukhishwa inyumbazane, futhi kwenziwa kanjalo ngendlela elimaza impilo yengqondo nenhlalakahle yabantu abasha abangama-transgender ezweni," uthi.

Ukucacisa: Le mithethosivivinywa ibhekiswe ngqo ezinganeni ezifunda isikole ezikoleni zikahulumeni. I-National Collegiate Athletic Association kanye ne-International Olympic Committee azikho ngqo okuhlanganisiwe lapha; lezi zigungu ezilawulayo zizoqhubeka nokuzenzela imithetho yazo.

Eminingi yale Mithethosivivinywa Yahlukanisa Amathimba Ngocansi Lwezinto Eziphilayo '

Ulimi oluqondile lwezikweletu luyahlukahluka kancane, kepha iningi lithi abafundi kumele bancintisane namaqembu ngokususelwa kubulili babo begazi, okushiwo umthethosivivinywa waseFlorida njengobulili obumakwe esitifiketini sokuzalwa sabafundi ngesikhathi sokuzalwa: M (owesilisa) noma F (kowesifazane).

Nakuba ngokuvamile isetshenziselwa ukuhlukanisa nokuhlela umphakathi, umqondo wobulili bezinto eziphilayo awuqondwa kahle kakhulu. Imvamisa, abantu bacabanga ukuthi ucansi lwebhayoloji luyisilinganiso "sokuthi yini ephakathi kwemilenze yakho," izindlela ezimbili okungaba 'owesilisa' (onepipi) noma 'owesifazane' (unesitho sangasese sowesifazane). Hhayi nje ukunciphisa, lokhu kuqonda akuhambisani nesayensi. Ubulili bebhayoloji abuyona eyezinto ezimbili - bukhona kububanzi. Abantu abaningi banezinhlanganisela zezimpawu (amazinga amahomoni, ukumiswa kwezitho zangasese, izitho zokuzala, amaphethini okukhula kwezinwele, njll.) ezingangeni kahle emabhokisini 'owesilisa' kanye 'nowesifazane'.

Ngiyintombazane futhi ngingumgijimi. Ngibamba iqhaza kwezokusubatha njengontanga yami ukuze ngiphumelele, ngithole umphakathi, nenjongo empilweni yami. Kulungile futhi kubuhlungu ukuthi ukunqoba kwami ​​kufanele kuhlaselwe futhi ukusebenza kwami ​​kanzima kunganakwa.

UTerry Miller, umgijimi we-transgender, esitatimendeni se-ACLU

Inkinga yokuhlukanisa abafundi besebenzisa le ndlela iphindwe kabili. Okokuqala, iqinisa kanambambili wezinto ezingekho. Okwesibili, kususa ubulili ku-equation ngokuphelele. (Bheka: Yini Abantu Abenza Okungalungile Ngayo iTrans Community, Ngokusho Kwezemfundo Yezocansi yaseTrans)

Ubulili buhlukile kwezocansi, futhi kubhekiswa kusethi yokuziphatha, izici, nezinto ezithandayo okucatshangwa ukuthi zihambisana nabesilisa, abesifazane, abantu abangekho kanambambili, abantu be-bigender, nabo bonke abanye abantu abahlala ngaphesheya kobubanzi bobulili. Indlela elula yokucabanga ngayo ukuthi ucansi yilokho okwenzekayo emzimbeni, kanti ubulili yilokho okwenzeka enhliziyweni yakho, engqondweni nasemphefumulweni wakho.

Kwabanye abantu, ukuqondana kwabo ngokobulili nobulili, okwaziwa ngokuthi yi-cisgender. Kodwa kwabanye abantu, ubulili nobulili akuhambisani, okuyinto eyaziwa ngokuthi i-transgender. Izikweletu okukhulunywa ngazo zithinta kakhulu lezi zokugcina. (Okwengeziwe lapha: I-LGBTQ+ Glossary of Gender and Sexuality Definitions Allies Okufanele Bazi)

Isimangalo Esikhulu: Amantombazane aseTransgender Anayo "Inzuzo Engafanele"

Lezizikweletu azihlosile amantombazane angama-transgender kuphela, kepha njengoba igama lalezizikweletu liphakamisa - e-Idaho naseFlorida yi "Fairness in Women's Sports Act" ngenkathi eMississippi kungu "Mississippi Fairness Act" - isimangalo esikhulu salabo abasithandayo kuzo ukuthi amantombazane ashintshe ubulili anenzuzo engokwemvelo engalungile uma kuqhathaniswa namantombazane e-cisgender.

Kepha abukho ubufakazi besayensi obuthi abesifazane be-transgender akufanele bavunyelwe ukudlala namanye amantombazane, kusho udokotela wezingane no-Eric Vilain, MD, ongumeluleki wabo bobabili i-International Olympic Committee kanye ne-NCAA, owakhuluma no I-NPR.

Abaxhasi balezi zikhokhelo bakhomba ocwaningweni olwedlule oluphakamise ukuthi, uma kuqhathaniswa nabesifazane be-cisgender, abesilisa be-cisgender banamaphesenti angaba ngu-10 kuya kwayi-12 ezenzweni zemidlalo, okuye kwabikwa ukuthi ngokwengxenye ethile kumazinga aphezulu e-hormone testosterone, enesibopho sokwanda imisipha namandla. Kodwa (futhi lokhu kubalulekile!) Abesifazane be-transgender ngabesifazane, hhayi amadoda e-cisgender! Ngakho-ke lokhu okutholakele akunakusetshenziselwa ukubanga ukuthi amantombazane noma ama-transgender amantombazane anenzuzo engafanele ngaphezu kwamantombazane e-cisgender. (Bheka: Ukuguquka Kukuthinta Kanjani Ukusebenza Kwezemidlalo Komsubathi Oshintsha Ubulili?)

Ngaphezu kwalokho, "abafundi be-transgender abathola ukwelashwa kwama-hormone benza lokho njengokwelashwa ngaphansi kweso lodokotela, ngakho-ke kufanele bavunyelwe ukubamba iqhaza kwezemidlalo njenganoma yimuphi omunye umfundi onikeze umuthi udokotela wabo," kusho uPick.

Abasekeli balezi zikweletu baphinde bakhombe kaningi ukulandelela izihlabani u-Terry Miller no-Andraya Yearwood e-Connecticut (isifunda esivumela abasubathi ukuthi baqhudelane kwezemidlalo ngokobunikazi babo bobulili) abavame ukunqoba imijaho futhi kwenzeke ukuthi bashintshe ubulili. (Ukuze ufunde kabanzi ngalaba bagijimi, hlola Nancy Podcast Isiqephu sama-43: "Lapho Bephumelela.")

Nansi into: Kunabafundi abangaphezu kwezigidi ezingama-56.4 e-United States, phakathi kwenkulisa nebanga le-12, kufaka phakathi zombili izikole zikahulumeni nezizimele. Izilinganiso ziphakamisa ukuthi cishe amaphesenti ama-2 alaba bafundi angama-transgender, okusho ukuthi babalelwa esigidini abafundi be-transgender e-U.S. Futhi abaningi kulabo bafundi abayisigidi babamba iqhaza kwezemidlalo. "Kodwa-ke, [abasekeli balo mthetho oyilwayo] kufanele baqhubeke babize igama elilodwa noma amabili ngoba abadlali be-transgender abamane babuse ezemidlalo," kusho uPick. "Ngakho-ke noma yimuphi umphumela i-testosterone enawo, siyazi ukuthi ayibangeli ukubusa." Ngokufingqa: Lokho okubizwa ngokuthi inzuzo engenabulungiswa akunasisekelo eqinisweni.

Ukungabi nabulungisa kwangempela ukucwaswa ababhekene nabasubathi abasha bama-transgender. Njengoba uMiller, omunye wabalingisi be-transgender track e-Connecticut, esitatimendeni se-ACLU: "Ngibhekane nobandlululo kuzo zonke izici zempilo yami [...]. Ngiyintombazane futhi ngingumgijimi. Ngibamba iqhaza ezokusubatha njengontanga yami ukuze ziphumelele, zithole umphakathi, futhi zibe nenjongo empilweni yami. Kakulungile futhi kubuhlungu ukuthi ukunqoba kwami ​​kufanele kuhlaselwe futhi ukusebenza kwami ​​kanzima kunganakwa. "

Kusho Ukuthini Le Mithetho Ekhokhelwa Abasubathi BaseTransgender

Ngokudlula kwalezi zikhwama, abafundi be-transgender ngeke bakwazi ukuncintisana emaqenjini nabanye abantu ezigabeni zabo zobulili. Kepha futhi kusho ukuthi kungenzeka, laba bafundi be-transgender ngeke bakwazi ukuba kunoma yiliphi iqembu lezemidlalo nhlobo. Ngenkathi abomthetho bethi la mantombazane angama-transgender angancintisana emaqenjini abafana futhi abafana be-transgender bangancintisana namaqembu amantombazane, kungalimaza kakhulu ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo ukudlala eqenjini elingahambisani nobulili bakho.

"Ukuphoqa umuntu oguqukayo ukuthi enze sengathi akathandi ukushintsha ubulili noma ukubabeka nobulili abuhambisani nezimbangela zokuzilimaza nokuzibulala kukhuphuke kakhulu," kusho uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo uKryss Shane, M.S., L.M.S.W., umbhali we Umhlahlandlela Wothisha Ekuhlanganisweni Kwe-LGBT. Kuphinde kubabeke engcupheni yokuhlukunyezwa. "Ingozi yokuxhashazwa iphezulu," esho. Uma umfundi ekhetha ukungadlali, “unqatshelwa ukuba nengxenye, ukusebenza njengeqembu, ukuvivinya umzimba, ukuzethemba, nazo zonke ezinye izinto noma iyiphi intsha eyithola ngokuhlanganyela emidlalweni yesikole,” kusho uPick.

Khetha amanothi njengamanje cishe uhhafu wabafundi be-transgender ababika ukuthi baqinisekisiwe ukuthi bangobani esikoleni. Uma / lapho kuphasiswa, "lezi zikhwama zizodinga ngokusemthethweni izikole ezemukelayo ukuthi ziziphathe ngendlela ecwasa le ntsha," esho. Ugcina unesimo lapho, kusukela ngo-8 ekuseni kuya ku-3 ntambama. ubulili bomuntu buyaqashelwa buqinisekiswe, bese kuthi ngesikhathi sokuziqeqesha, akunjalo, kusho uPick. "Lokho kululaza ngokuphelele amazinga okwenza ukunakekelwa kwezempilo yengqondo, kuwushaya indiva umsebenzi wesikole wokuphatha izingane ngokulingana, futhi akusebenzi kahle. Lawa ngamantombazane; awafuni ukubekwa emaqenjini abafana." (Okuhlobene: UNicole Maines no-Isis King Babelane Ngeseluleko Sabo Kwabesifazane Abasebasha beTransgender)

Ukuthi Abalingani BeCisgender Bangakubonisa Kanjani Ukusekela Kwabo

Kuqala ngobuncane obungenalutho: Ukuhlonipha abantu abadlulisiwe, ukubabiza ngamagama abo afanele, nokusebenzisa izabizwana zabo. Nakuba kuzwakala kukuncane, lokhu kuzuzisa kakhulu inhlalakahle engokwengqondo yabakwa-trans folks. "Ukuba nomuntu oyedwa kuphela owamukela impilo yentsha ye-LGBTQ kunganciphisa imizamo yokuzibulala ngamaphesenti angama-40," kusho uPick.

Okwesibili, "ungazivumeli ukuba ubanjwe olwazini olungamanga olukhona," kusho u-Pick. "Kunomzamo ohlangene [ovela emaqenjini alandela imithetho] wokukhipha amadimoni izingane ezifuna nje ukuba izingane." Ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthi uthola imininingwane yakho kusuka emithonjeni esekwe ocwaningweni, efakazelwa yidatha, emithonjeni ebandakanya wonke umuntu njenge-Them, NewNowNext, Autostraddle, GLAAD, neThe Trevor Project. Lokhu kuzobaluleke kakhulu kuleli hlobo lapho u-Laurel Hubbard ozophakamisa izinsimbi eNew Zealand ezoncintisana njengomsubathi wokuqala we-transgender kuma-Olimpiki. (ICYWW: Yebo, uhlangabezane nazo zonke izidingo zemithethonqubo kanye nemihlahlandlela yeKomidi lama-Olimpiki Yomhlaba wonke yabasubathi abadlulayo).

Ngokuqondene nokuthi ungalwa kanjani nalezi zikhokhelo ze-transphobic? Okuningi kwalo mthetho kwenziwa egameni labesifazane namantombazane, kuchaza uPick. "Ngakho-ke lesi yisikhathi lapho ngibiza khona abesifazane namantombazane engikanye nabo ngithi 'Hhayi ngegama lethu.'" Shayela izishayamthetho zakho zasendaweni, thumela umbono wakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, sekela amaqembu ezemidlalo endawo, duma kakhulu ngokuxhasa kwakho i-transgender ubusha, uthi.

Uma ngempela ufuna ukusiza abesifazane namantombazane kwezemidlalo, ikhambi hhayi ukugcina amantombazane angama-transgender angakwazi ukufinyelela kuwo. Kepha esikhundleni sokuqinisekisa ukuthi amantombazane angama-transgender anokufinyelela okulinganayo namathuba kuyo yonke imidlalo."Singavikela futhi siqhakambise imidlalo yabesifazane namantombazane ngasikhathi sinye njengokuhlonipha ubunikazi bobulili be-transgender nentsha engeyona eye-binary," kusho uPick "Lona akuyona umdlalo we-zero-sum."

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