Lo Mama Wokudala Wabathathu Uthola Indlela Yokuzivocavoca Ngazo Zonke Izingane Zakhe

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UJuca Csíkos ugcwele izandla ngamawele kanye nengane yentombazane esanda kuzalwa, kepha lokho akumvimbanga ekucingeni ekusebenzeni nasekuqinisekiseni ukuthi ukuzivocavoca umzimba kunendawo efanele yokuba ngumama. Lesi sithandwa esizinze e-Hungary esineminyaka engu-27 sihlanganise abalandeli abangaphezu kuka-64,000 ngenxa yokuthunyelwe kwakhe okukhuthazayo nokuthandekayo kokuthola ukufaneleka ngosizo lwezingane zakhe.

Noma ngabe kungukuphakanyiswa kwengane ukuphakamisa noma ukuqeda bonke abantwana abathathu ngenkathi uhamba epakini (khuluma ngokuqeqeshwa kwesisindo!), Uthole indlela yokwenza ukusebenzela isikhathi sokudlala somama nendodakazi, ngakho-ke akudingeki akhethe phakathi kwalaba ababili. (Okwamanje, lo mama ngokuyisisekelo uphendule yonke indlu yakhe yaba yindawo yokuzivocavoca.)

Ibhalansi u-Csíkos ayithole nomndeni wakhe izuzisa yena kanye nezingane zakhe njengoba izingane eziningi zidinga okungenani ihora lokujima nsuku zonke, okungazisiza zakhe amathambo anempilo futhi kuthuthukise ukuzethemba, ngokusho kweNational Institutes of Health.

Mhlawumbe ikhono likamama elihlaba umxhwele kakhulu u-Csíkos alisebenzise ukuthola indlela yokuzivocavoca ngenkathi encelisa-yebo. Ngeke kusaba nesikhathi sokujuluka uma usana lwakhe lukhala. Uvele abophe ezinye izinsimbi zamaqakala bese ethola ulwazi. Zihlolele wena. (Uyazi ukuthi yini enye ongayenza ngenkathi uncelisa? Siza ekuphatheni uhulumeni: Lesi Sigele Sase-Australia Esiyi-Badass Sisanda Kuba Ngowesifazane Wokuqala Ukuncelisa Ibele EPhalamende.)

"Awunaso isikhathi sokwenza izivivinyo ngoba amaswidi akho kufanele awadle?" ufake amazwibela wevidiyo yakhe yakamuva lapho ephakamisa khona imilenze yakhe enesisindo ngenkathi esengunesi. "Ningakhathazeki! Nali icebo lenu bomama, yenzeni kancane kancane izingane zenu zisancela ibele."

Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi ukuba nezingane kuphoqa ukuthi uyeke uhlelo lwakho olujwayelekile lokuzivocavoca, noma okungenani, ushintshe kusukela ngezikhathi zantambama uye ekusebenzeni kwasekuseni (ekuseni kakhulu). Kepha kuhle ukubona omama bezenzela ubuciko ukuze baphule izithukuthuku nezingane zabo.

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