UDanielle Brooks Uthi Isikhangiso sakhe Esisha sikaLane Bryant Simfundise Ukwamukela I-Bloat Yakhe kanye "Nezibambo Zothando"

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Ngesikhathi sama-Emmy Awards ayizolo ebusuku, kuqale ukuhweba okusha kuka-Lane Bryant ethi "I'm No Angel", enobuso obuthathu obaziwa kakhulu emhlabeni wokumodela osayizi omkhulu kanye nasemhlabeni: u-Candice Huffine, ovala imibono yakudala "yomzimba womgijimi", UDenise Bidot, osemkhankasweni wokwenza ama-stretch mark abe mahle, no-Ashley Graham, ongasasidingi nakancane isingeniso.

Imodeli yesine enyakazisa ulayini wezingubo zangaphansi zikaLane Bryant: Umlingisikazi nesishoshovu somzimba esihle uDanielle Brooks, okuthi, yize edume kakhulu ngokudlala iTaystee ku Iwolintshi Imnyama Entsha, naye uzenzele igama kwezomfashini. Ngonyaka odlule, u-Brooks wahamba phambili embukisweni we-Christian Siriano wombukiso we-Lane Bryant, futhi wafakwa emkhankasweni womkhiqizo othi #ThisBody. Usanda kwengeza umklami kuCV yakhe, ememezele ngesonto eledlule ku-Instagram ukuthi usebenzisana ne-Universal Standard eqoqweni elihlanganisa usayizi. Futhi konke kuyingxenye yomsebenzi wakhe ukuvumela abesifazane abathandekayo bazi ukuthi bafanelwe ukuzizwa be-sexy-kuzo zombili izingubo nezingubo zangaphansi.

Sixoxe no-Brooks mayelana nokuthi kunjani ukuma ku-lingerie yakho ngomkhankaso kazwelonke (#bloat is real), ukujima okumenza azizwe edabukile, nokuthi ufunde kanjani ukuthanda izibambo zakhe zothando.

Ekweqeni ukungazethembi ngesikhathi sokudubula kwakhe:

"Ngike ngenza lezi zinhlobo zamahlumela phambilini, futhi isikhathi esiningi ngiye ngiphume kancane lapho isithombe sivela. Ngifana, Oh Nkosi yami lona abamkhethile? Bese ngibuyela ekuthandeni ngempela isithombe. Kodwa kulokhu, inselele kimi empeleni yayingesikhathi sokuthwebula ngoba ngangizizwa ngiqunjelwe kakhulu, futhi kwakungenza ngizizwe ngingakhululekile. Ngangikhathazekile ngendlela engangibukeka ngayo engutsheni yangaphansi. Khona-ke ngesinye isikhathi, ngafaka isithombe ku-Instagram yami ngiphakamisa nje ihembe lami phezulu futhi ngangifana, niyazi ukuthini? Kungani ngikhathalela ngalokhu? Lo ngumzimba wami, kulapho ukhona namhlanje, futhi kufanele ngigoqeke ngawo. Kumele ngiyithande. Futhi yilokho engikwenzile. Ngiyawathanda amashothi manje futhi ngiyethemba ukuthi abanye besifazane bathola amandla okuthanda imizimba yabo noma ngabe ikusiphi isigaba noma ngabe bazizwa bequnjelwe kakhulu. "

Kungani ukubona abesifazane abanosayizi wezingubo zangaphansi kubaluleke kangaka:

"Kimina kubalulekile ukumela engangikufuna ngiseyintombazanyana. Ngesikhathi ngiqala ukubona lo mkhankaso kaLane Bryant, ngaphambi kokuba ngibe yingxenye yawo, ngabona amabhasi edlula nalaba besifazane abahle ababebukeka sengathi. Mina, ngizethemba esikhunjeni sabo futhi ngingabufihli ubuhle babo. kwafika isikhathi futhi ngacelwa ukuba ngibe yingxenye ye-'I'm No Angel 2.0, 'ngangijabule kakhulu.Kubantu besifazane abaningi abaphezulu, awuziboni izikhangiso ngokwakho.Ngakho-ke lokho kumelwa kubalulekile. Lapho lokhu kuthengisa kuphuma abantu bazojabula kakhulu ngoba bazothi, O, ngingakuthola lokho futhi ngiyazi ukuthi ngingakuthenga kuphi lokho. Ngiyazi ukuthi uzolingana nomzimba wami ngaleyo ndlela. Ngiyibona kuDanielle noma ngiyibona eDenise.’

Ekutholeni uthando lwempilo yakhe njengaye Iwolintshi Imnyama Entsha uhlamvu:

"Ngesizini yesi-5, uTaystee useqhulwini ekulweleni ubulungiswa nokubhekana nokulahlekelwa ngumngani wakhe. Nginomuzwa wokuthi sonke sinemishini nezinhloso empilweni. Ingxenye yami ivumela abesifazane ukuthi bazizwe behle kunoma yini abayibeka- noma ungagqoki. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile kimi enhlosweni yami ukuthi ngiqhubeke ngikhulume ngakho, ukuqhubeka ngiphonsela inselelo abasiki bengqephu abasezingeni eliphezulu ukuthi baklanyelwe futhi bagqokiswe abesifazane abakhulu kunabo, yize ngingathathwa njengesibonelo Okokuqala. Ukuqhubeka ngithi: Ngifuna ukuzibona esikrinini, ngifuna ukuzibona ngiboniswa emigwaqweni yezindiza, ngifuna ukuzibona ngivezwa kumamagazini. Akuyona nje iphupho. Sikhona futhi sidinga ukubukwa. Ukuba khona kwethu kufanele yenziwe. "

Kungani engeze umklami wezingubo esicongweni sakhe:

"Ukuklama kwakungeyona into engangihlale ngikuyo, kepha angikwazanga ukuthola izingubo engangifuna ukuzigqoka. Bengifuna ukwazi ukungena kunoma yisiphi isitolo ngibe nombono wokuthi ngifunani bese ngiyokuthola Futhi lokho bekungeyona inketho, ngakho-ke kube nengqondo ukungena kuleso sikhundla, ngoba kungani kungenjalo? Kungani ungakuniki lelo thuba? Bengifuna ukudala izingcezu engizifunayo bese ngiphinde ngihlanganyele lokho nabo bonke abesifazane abazizwele ngendlela efanayo. nakanjani uhola icala uma kukhulunywa ngabasejele."

Uyaqhubeka nokusebenza engenazo ihembe-futhi akazifanisi nomunye umuntu:

"Ngenkathi ngiqala ukwenza le vidiyo ku-Instagram [emayelana nokusebenza ngaphandle kwehembe] ngithole ukuthi inselelo yami ukungafani nanoma ngubani omunye. Inselelo yami ukuthi ngibe ngcono kunangayizolo. Kumele sikhumbule ukuthi asikwazi bheka umuntu oseduze kwethu bese uthi, oh ngifuna lokho abanakho. Lokho kuyinto ejwayelekile emphakathini wethu ngenxa ye-Instagram ne-Twitter nakho konke lokho, akunjalo? Kodwa lokho kucabanga akunampilo. Ukuziqhathanisa nomunye umuntu akulona iqiniso Senziwe ngokuhlukile futhi kufanele siqale ukubona ubuhle obungaphakathi kithi. Ngakho-ke kimi, ngizoqhubeka nokuya ejimini ngikhumule ihembe lami. ukulwela ukuzethemba. Futhi akusibo abesifazane besayizi ehlanganisiwe kuphela. Kunabesifazane abango-0 kanye no-2 nabo abanezikhathi zomzabalazo wokuthanda imizimba yabo. Ngakho-ke ngicabanga ukuthi uma ngikwazi ukuhamba ngokuzethemba esikhunjeni sami, ngethemba ukuthi kuzonikeza omunye umuntu ukuzethemba ukuthi enze okufanayo futhi angagcini ngokuyeka ukwahlulela themselv es kepha futhi uyeke ukwahlulela abanye. Ngizama ukuthola uthando ngaphakathi kimi kuqala bese ngethemba ukuthi lokho kuzoba nomthelela omubi kwabanye abantu. Yilokho i-MO yami yonke."

Kungani uhlushwa ukujuluka:

"Nginomqeqeshi omuhle kakhulu osayizi omkhulu impela ogama lakhe linguMorit Sommers, owake wasebenza no-Ashley Graham esikhathini esedlule. Uyamangalisa. Ngokujwayelekile sisebenza kathathu ngesonto sindawonye sindawonye futhi ngithanda ukuphakamisa izinsimbi, kodwa muva nje 'ngike ngathatheka ngestair-stepper.Istair-stepper bekuyijamu yami.Ngiyazi abantu bayayizonda kodwa mina ngiyayithanda.Ijima eligcwele umzimba.Ucija imisipha yakho yonke bese kuba ne-cardio yakho. Ngingakwenza lokho imizuzu eyi-10 futhi ngijuluka amabhakede! Isekethe lami elijwayelekile le-cardio uma ngingedwa: imizuzu engama-20 esitebhisini sokugibela izitebhisi, imayela ku-treadmill, okungithatha cishe imizuzu engu-15, futhi bese ngigibela imizuzu eyi-10.Ngizovele ngikwenze lokho bese ngizizwa ngilungele usuku.Uma ngingenakukwazi ukwenza lokho, okungenani ngenza imizuzu engu-20 yesitebhisi. ngiqale usuku lwami bese ngivuka ngithole izithukuthuku ezinhle. "

Lapho udonsa isikali-nengcindezi-ejimini:

"Njengabesifazane, inhloso yethu enkulu yokwenza umsebenzi ukunciphisa umzimba, futhi kwesinye isikhathi kuleso sifiso sokwehlisa isisindo, sikhohlwa ukunakekela umoya wethu. Sigxila kakhulu esikalini. Siyakhohlwa ukuthi imizimba yethu, kunamadoda, ashintshashintsha ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ama-hormone ethu ashintsha njalo. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi kudingeka sizinike ikhefu futhi sithi, Uyazi yini namhlanje engizogxila esikalini. Namuhla ngizogxila ekuzithandeni nasekufikeni kule ndawo yokuzivocavoca ngizilolonge kahle. Yilokho kuphela engizogxila kukho. Ngeke ngikhathazeke ngokuthi mangaki amakhalori engiwashisayo. Ngeke ngikhathazeke ngokuthi ngabe ngiyasishaya yini isikhathi sami sokugijima. Namuhla ngizongena lapha ngikhombise mina uthando. Lokho kube usizo ngempela kimi muva nje, ngoba kunezingcindezi zokuma ku-lingerie yakho futhi uziveze kanjalo-abantu bahlala belungele ukuba izixhwanguxhwangu ze-inthanethi. Kubalulekile kimi ukuthi ngisuse yonke leyo ngcindezi. "

Ukungavikeleki komzimba ekugcineni usekuqedile:

"Ngifunda ukuthanda izibambo zami zothando. Isikhathi eside ngangibazonda ngoba nganginomuzwa wokuthi angikwazi ukugqoka izingubo ezithile, futhi ngoba angizange ngibabone abesifazane komagazini bebakhombisa. Kodwa njengoba isikhathi siqhubeka futhi ngaqala ukubona abesifazane bemukela 'izibambo zabo zothando' kwizikhangiso zemikhiqizo efana noLane Bryant, ngabona ukuthi kuyinto evamile futhi kulungile ukuba nabanikazi bami. "

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