Imiphumela Emibi Yesikhathi Eside Yesikhathi Eside Yokuklabalasa Izingane Zakho

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• 1. Ukumemeza kwenza izinkinga zabo zokuziphatha zibe zimbi kakhulu
• 2. Ukumemeza kushintsha indlela ubuchopho babo obukhula ngayo
• 3. Ukumemeza kungaholela ekucindezelekeni
• 4. Ukumemeza kunemiphumela empilweni yomzimba
• 5. Ukumemeza kungabangela ubuhlungu obungapheli

Sifuna okungcono kakhulu ezinganeni zethu. Yingakho nje abazali abaningi bethwala kanzima ngokukhetha ukuba ngumzali. Futhi singabantu kuphela, ngemuva kwakho konke.

Kuvamile ukukhungatheka ngezingane zakho, ikakhulukazi uma zingaziphathi kahle. Kepha indlela oveza ngayo lokhu kukhungatheka nokubhekana nalesi simo ingaba nomthelela omkhulu ekuthuthukiseni ubuntu babo nasempilweni yabo yesikhathi eside.

Eqinisweni, izinyathelo zokukhuza zabazali ezinzima, njengokumemeza, zingaba nomthelela omkhulu nakakhulu ezinganeni kunokuba bekholelwa phambilini. Funda kabanzi ukuze ufunde ukuthi yiziphi izifundo zokwelashwa ezikutholile ngemiphumela yesikhathi eside lapho ukumemeza kungaba nezingane.

1. Ukumemeza kwenza izinkinga zabo zokuziphatha zibe zimbi kakhulu

Ungase ucabange ukuthi ukuthethisa izingane zakho kungaxazulula inkinga okwamanje noma kungazivimbela ekuziphatheni kabi ngokuzayo. Kepha ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi empeleni kungadala izingqinamba eziningi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ukumemeza empeleni kungenza ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kube kubi nakakhulu.Okusho ukuthi kuzomele umemeze kakhulu ukuzama ukukulungisa. Futhi umjikelezo uyaqhubeka.

Ucwaningo ngobudlelwano bomzali nengane lwabonisa ukuthi lokhu kunjalo nje emindenini eminingi. Kulolu cwaningo, izingane ezineminyaka engu-13 ezathethiswa ngabazali bazo zaphendula ngokwandisa amazinga azo okuziphatha okubi ngonyaka olandelayo.

Futhi uma ucabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthi imuphi umzali owenza ukujezisa, akunjalo. Omunye uthole ukuthi awukho umehluko uma isiyalo esinokhahlo sivela kubaba noma kumama. Umphumela uyefana: izinkinga zokuziphatha ziya ngokuba zimbi.

2. Ukumemeza kushintsha indlela ubuchopho babo obukhula ngayo

Ukumemeza nezinye izindlela zobuzali ezinzima kungashintsha ngokoqobo indlela ingqondo yengane yakho ekhula ngayo. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi abantu bacubungula imininingwane engemihle nezehlakalo ngokushesha nangokuphelele kunalokho okuhle.

Omunye uqhathanisa ukuskena kobuchopho be-MRI yabantu ababenomlando wokuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi komzali ebuntwaneni ngezikeni zalabo ababengenawo umlando wokuhlukunyezwa. Bathole umehluko obonakalayo ngokomzimba ezingxenyeni zobuchopho ezibhekele ukucubungula imisindo nolimi.

3. Ukumemeza kungaholela ekucindezelekeni

Ngaphezu kwezingane ezizizwa zilimele, zesaba, noma zidabukile lapho abazali bazo bezithethisa, ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi kunamandla okubangela izingqinamba ezijulile zengqondo eziba ngabantu abadala.

Ocwaningweni olwaluthungatha izinkinga zokuziphatha ezandayo ezineminyaka engu-13 ezazithethiswa, abacwaningi baphinde bathola ukuphakama kwezimpawu zokudangala. Ezinye izifundo eziningi futhi ziphakathi kokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo nokudangala noma ukukhathazeka. Lezi zinhlobo zezimpawu zingaholela ekuziphatheni okubi futhi zingakhula zibe yizenzo zokuzilimaza, njengokusebenzisa izidakamizwa noma ukwanda kocansi oluyingozi.

4. Ukumemeza kunemiphumela empilweni yomzimba

Okuhlangenwe nakho esikhule ngakho kusibumba ngezindlela eziningi, ezinye zazo esingase singaziqapheli. Ukuxineka ebuntwaneni kusuka kumzali ohlukumeza ngamazwi kungakhuphula ingozi yengane yezinkinga ezithile zempilo lapho isikhulile. isitshela ukuthi ukubhekana nengcindezi usengumntwana kungaba nemithelela yesikhathi eside empilweni yomzimba.

5. Ukumemeza kungabangela ubuhlungu obungapheli

Ucwaningo lwakamuva luthole ukuxhumana phakathi kokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle ebuntwaneni, kufaka phakathi ukukhuluma nezinye izinhlobo zokuhlukumezeka, kanye nokwakhiwa kamuva kwezimo ezibuhlungu ezingapheli. Izimo zibandakanya i-arthritis, ikhanda elibuhlungu, izinkinga zangemuva nezentamo, nezinye izinhlungu ezingapheli.

Akukephuzi kakhulu ukwenza ushintsho ekuziphatheni kwakho kobuzali noma ufunde amasu amasha. Uma uzibona umemeza kakhulu noma uthukuthele, cela usizo. Umelaphi noma omunye umzali angakusiza ukuthi uhlele eminye yaleyo mizwa futhi wakhe uhlelo lokuyisingatha ngendlela enempilo.