Lapho Engasho Ukuthi "Ngiyakuthanda" Emuva

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Uma uke wacwila ukulalela uJuan Pablo phakathi nokubusa kwakhe njengo IBachelor, kungenzeka ukungabi khona kwakhe kwamagama okwenze wakubuza isiphetho sesizini izolo ebusuku.

Ngemuva kokuthi uNikki-lona wesifazane aqede ukukhetha-ukuphindaphinda igama le-L kubalandeli bebhola laseVenezuela, uvele waphendula wathi, "Ngiyakuthanda kakhulu." Wamtshela nokuthi unendandatho yokuthembisana umshado ephaketheni lakhe-kodwa wayengeke ayisebenzise. Amazwi akhe aqondile: "Angiqiniseki ngamaphesenti angu-100 ukuthi ngifuna ukukuphakamisa, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ngiqinisekile ngamaphesenti angu-100 ukuthi angifuni ukukukhulula."

Ngenkathi kungafanele uthathe Okuningi kakhulu izifundo zothando ezivela embukisweni ophikisela abaqhudelanayo emhlabeni wonke ezindaweni ezingavamile futhi abaphange ngokudla, isiphuzo, nezinsuku ezibonisa ukugxuma kwe-bungee nokugibela amahhashi, ukuthi "Ngiyakuthanda" futhi ukungakuzwa kuyinto abaningi bethu esiyesabayo.

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"Kujwayelekile ukuthi abantu ababili bahambe ngejubane elihlukile," kusho uTracey Steinberg, ongungoti wezokuqomisana ozinze eNew York. Kepha uma uku "Ngiyakuthanda," futhi uku "Ngiyakuthanda," lowo umehluko omkhulu. Bamba uqinise futhi uzinike umnqamulajuqu-izinyanga ezimbili, usho-bese uhlola: Ingabe ubambe iqhaza noma kukhona igebe elikhudlwana endleleni enizizwa ngayo nobabili? Ukwenza lokhu kukunikeza ithuba lokuthi ubudlelwano bukhule kodwa kuqinisekisa ukuthi awuhlezi ulindile into okungenzeka ingenzeki, kusho uSteinberg.

Ngaleso sikhathi, naka izenzo zakhe.Ngabe ukufake empilweni yakhe? Ngabe uyabonakala lapho umdinga khona? Ngabe uyakubukisa ngomndeni wakhe nabangane? "Lezi yizimpawu zokuthi indoda iyakuthanda, yize ingahle ingakulungeli ukukusho," kusho uSteinberg. Vele, kufanele uziphathe kahle wena nokuthi yini oyifunayo (futhi lokho kungaba yindoda ekwaziyo ukufinyelela imizwa yayo), kepha uma umfana wakho enza ngothando, ungahle uthande ukumnika isikhashana avume ngokuzwakalayo.

Ubucabangani nge Isiqu isiphetho? Wake waba nomfana ongathi "Ngiyakuthanda" abuyele kuwe? Sitshele kumazwana angezansi noma usithumele ku-@Shape_Magazine.

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