Ukondla Umama Omusha Uveza Iqiniso Mayelana Nezigaba Ze-C

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Kubonakala sengathi nsuku zonke kuvela isihloko esisha mayelana nomama ohlazekile ngenxa yesici esithile esingokwemvelo sokubeletha (njengoba uyazi, onamamaki alula). Kodwa ngenxa yenkundla yezokuxhumana, izihloko ezithile ebezingavumelekile ngaphambilini, ezifana nokudangala kwangemva kokubeletha noma ukuncelisa esidlangalaleni, zigcina zidelelekile. Noma kunjalo, ngisho nangokwesiko lethu lokwabelana ngokweqile, akuvamile ukuthi sizwe ama-akhawunti aluhlaza, angahlungiwe avela komama abasha ababhekana nokucindezeleka ngokomzimba (futhi ngokuvamile okungokomzwelo) kokuzalwa kwesigaba C-kanye nokwahlulela okungadabukisayo. woza nayo. Nokho, ngenxa kamama okhathele, lelo veli selisusiwe.

"Oh. I-C-section? Ngakho awuzange ngempela ubelethe. Kumelwe ukuba kube kuhle ukuthatha indlela elula kanjalo," u-Raye Lee uqala okuthunyelwe kwakhe, okuqukethe izithombe ezimbalwa zezibazi zakhe ze-C-section. "Ah, yebo. I-C-section yami yezimo eziphuthumayo bekuyinto nje elula. Bekulula impela ukuthi ngibe nokuhlinzwa amahora angama-38 ngaphambi kokuba ingane yami ikhathazeke bese kuthi konke ukusikwa bekumisa INHLIZIYO yayo ngokoqobo," kubhala yena kokuthunyelwe kwakhe , manje esinamasheya angaphezu kwama-24,000.

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Uqhubeka echaza ngokushaqeka kokuzwa ukuthi ubelungiselelwa ukuhlinzwa okukhulu kwesisu ukuze kusindiswe impilo yengane yakhe, futhi uchaza ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi inqubo yakhe yokubeletha yayinjani ngempela. (Okuhlobene: Lo Mama Blogger Ubungaze Umzimba Wakhe Wengane Ngemuva nge-Selfie Ephefumulelwe Enqunu)

"Ukuba nosana olumemezayo kukhishwe emgodini ongamasentimitha ama-5 ubude kuphela, kepha kuyasikwa futhi kugawulwe futhi kudonswe kuze kube yilapho iklebhuka kuzo zonke izingqimba zakho zamafutha, imisipha nezitho zomzimba (ezibekwa phezu kwetafula eceleni kwakho umzimba, ukuze uqhubeke usika kuze kube yilapho ufika enganeni yakho) kuyinto ehluke ngokuphelele kunalokho engangikucabange ukuzalwa kwendodana yami."

Ngokuphikisana nanoma ngubani okholelwa ukuthi ukubeletha kuyindlela 'elula,' uRaye Lee uchaza ukuthi ukuhlinzwa kwaba "yinto ebuhlungu kakhulu engake ngabhekana nayo empilweni yami" nokuthi ukululama kube nesihluku esifanayo. "Usebenzisa imisipha yakho eyinhloko ukwenza yonke into ngokoqobo ... ngisho nokuhlala phansi, ucabange ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukuyisebenzisa ngoba iklanywe ngokoqobo futhi yabanjwa udokotela futhi yangakwazi ukuyilungisa amasonto ayi-6 + ngoba umzimba wakho kufanele kwenze ngokwemvelo, "kubhala yena. (Kungenxa yalesi sizathu amadokhumenti ancoma ukugwema ukuzivocavoca isisu okungenani izinyanga ezintathu, noma ngabe indawo ezungeze imbobo ingahlala indikindiki izinyanga eziyisithupha noma ngaphezulu, njengoba UFitPregnancy kubika ku Ukushintsha Umzimba Wakho Ngemva Kwesigaba C.

URaye Lee uqinisile: Ngenkathi ukubeletha ngokuhlinzwa kuvame ukubonwa 'njengokulula,' ezimweni eziningi, akunjalo. "Komama abangenawo amathuba okuba sengozini, umuntu obelethwe empeleni akaphephile kangako kumama nasenganeni kunokuzalwa kwesitho sowesifazane sangasese," kusho umcwaningi ngesikhathi sokubeletha u-Eugene Declercq, Ph.D. utshele Ukukhulelwa okufanelekile.

Naphezu kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe okunezibazi (ngokoqobo), unombono omuhle ngendaba yakhe yokuzalwa, futhi uzibheka njengengxenye "yesizwe esibi sikamama." Futhi nakuba ayengahlosile ngempela ukuthi okuthunyelwe kwakhe okuthembekile ngonya kuhambe ngegciwane, u-Raye Lee ubhala kokulandelayo okuthunyelwe ku-Facebook ukuthi "ujabule kangangokuthi abantu basakaza ukuqwashisa ukuthi akubona bonke omama abangaletha 'indlela yemvelo.' Angibuthakathaka. Ngiyiqhawe. " Ngiyajabula ukukusiza ukusabalalisa ukuqwashisa, Raye Lee!

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