Ingabe I-Squirting Ingokoqobo? Okufanele Ukwazi Ngokuchithwa Kwabesifazane

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• Isayensi Ye-squirting Nokuchithwa Kwabesifazane
• Kuyini Ukujuxuza?
• Kuyini Ukuqhanyelwa Kwabesifazane?
• Ukujuxuza vs. Ukuqunjelwa Kwabesifazane
• Ngabe Uhlala Kanjani Ngokwe-squirt Noma U-Ejaculate?
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Ah, inganekwane yasemadolobheni engabonakali ye ~ squirting ~. Noma ngabe uke wazibonela, wakubona ku-porn, noma wamane wezwa amahemuhemu ngakho, akuwena wedwa onentshisekelo yokufuna ukubabaza. (Idatha ye-PornHub kusuka ku-2010 kuya ku-2017 iveze nokuthi abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe bafuna ama-video "abesifazane abacunulayo".)

Izinto zokuqala kuqala: Ingabe i-squirting ingokoqobo? Yebo, kunjalo.(Ukukhiqiza uketshezi oluningi kungenye yemiphumela emibi ejwayelekile kodwa engalindelekile yocansi.) Ukusuka lapho, kuba nzima ngokwengeziwe. Nakhu odinga ukukwazi mayelana nokujuxuza, ukuthi yini ukucwilisa impela, ukubhuqa kanjani, nokuningi.

Isayensi Ye-squirting Nokuchithwa Kwabesifazane

Kukhona impikiswano eningi evumayo ngokuthi ngabe "ukuskirt" kuyafana yini "nokuchama kwabesifazane." Lezi zombili zivame ukusetshenziswa ngokushintshana, nakuba olunye ucwaningo olusha lucacisa ukuthi ngempela zibonakala ziyizinto ezimbili ezihlukene. (Kuyaqapheleka ukuthi igama elithi "ukukhishwa kwesifazane" ngokwalo liyinkinga ngoba lingahlukanisa abantu abangahambisani nobulili noma abangahambisani kanambambili.) Abantu baphikisana nokuthi ukucwaswa kungaba ukungavumelani komshado (aka ukulahleka kokuzithandela komunye umchamo ngesikhathi socansi ), ucwaningo oluthi lungathinta noma yikuphi ukusuka kwengxenye eyodwa kweshumi kuya kokubili kokuthathu kwabesifazane. (Okuningi ngokuthi kungani kusekhondi.)

Kodwa-ke, isibuyekezo sika-2018 esishicilelwe ku- Ijenali Yomhlaba Wonke Ye-Urogynecology kugomela ukuthi ukucwiywa, ukujula kwabesifazane, kanye nokungakwazi ukusebenza komzimba "yizinto ezehlukene ezinezinqubo ezahlukahlukene futhi zingahlukaniswa ngokomthombo, ngobuningi, ngendlela yokuxoshwa, kanye nemizwa yokuzithoba ngesikhathi sokwenza ucansi." Ukuhumusha: Ukukhwabanisa kungokoqobo, ukujula kwesifazane kungokoqobo, futhi ukungabambeki komzimba kungokoqobo, kepha konke kuyizinto ezihlukile.

Kuyini Ukujuxuza?

Ucwaningo lwakamuva luthole ukuthi ukuswiliza empeleni kuwukugeleza ketshezi oluphuma emthanjeni futhi empeleni kuwumchamo, ngokusho kukaLogan Levkoff, Ph.D., ongumfundisi wezocansi oqinisekisiwe eNew York City. (Yingakho abanye ochwepheshe bephikisana ngokuthi i-squirting ingaba i-coital incontinence.) Ukubuyekezwa okukhulunywe ngakho ngenhla kwe-2018 kubuye kuchaze ukugoqa njengokuxoshwa kwe-orgasmic yohlobo lomchamo ophuma emzimbeni nge-urethra.

Kuyini Ukuqhanyelwa Kwabesifazane?

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uketshezi lwe-ejaculation lwabesifazane ukukhishwa kwesisindo esiminyene, esinobisi, esimhlophe empeleni esifana kakhulu nesidoda, ngaphandle kwesidoda, ngokusho kukaLevkoff. Eqinisweni, le nto yenziwe ngisho ne-prostatic acid, i-glucose, ne-fructose, efana nesidoda. Ukubuyekezwa kuchaza nokuthi i-ejaculate yabesifazane njengokukhipha uketshezi "olujiyile, olunobisi yi-prostate yabesifazane (izindlala zikaSkene) ngesikhathi se-orgasm."

Ukujuxuza vs. Ukuqunjelwa Kwabesifazane

Umehluko phakathi kwe-squirting ne-ejaculation yabesifazane ukhonjiswe ocwaningweni luka-2014 olushicilelwe ku- Ijenali Yezokwelapha. RAbacwaningi babenabesifazane besifazane, base bebenza ukuba bahlanganyele ekuvuseleleni ngokocansi baze bakhishwe. Izikena ze-pelvic ultrasound zikhombise ukuthi iziswazi zabesifazane okungenani zazigcwele kancane ngaphambi kokuba zigxumele, kepha zingenalutho ngemuva - okukhombisa ukuthi uketshezi luvela esinyeni. Impela, lapho abacwaningi behlola lolu ketshezi, amasampuli amabili kwayisikhombisa ayefana namakhemikhali ngokufana nomchamo. (Bheka amanye amahemuhemu amane wezocansi ukuze uyeke ukukholelwa.)

Amanye amasampula amahlanu nawo abe nokuthile okubizwa ngokuthi i-prostatic-specific antigen (PSA), i-enzyme ekhiqizwa izindlala ze-Skene, ezivame ukubizwa ngokuthi yi-prostate yesifazane. Lezi zindlala zitholakala ngaphakathi kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane ekugcineni kwangaphansi komchamo futhi lapho ososayensi bakholelwa ukuthi i-ejaculate yabesifazane ivela khona, ngokusho kukaLevkoff. (Izindlala zeSkene nazo zisondele kakhulu ku-g-spot yakho, okungukuthi, eyiqiniso.)

Ngakho-ke iqembu lokuqala ngempela "lakhungatheka," kuyilapho iqembu lesibili lalikhishwe. Kusho ukuthini konke lokhu empilweni yakho yezocansi? Akunalutho - noma kunjalo umzimba wakho uphendula i-orgasm, ungumnikazi wayo, kusho uLevkoff. (Okuhlobene: Ungaba Nama-Orgasms Amaningi?)

Ngabe bonke abantu besifazane bangacunuka noma bakhiphe isichitho? Yebo, lokho akucaci. Ngokwe-International Society for Sexual Medicine, balinganiselwa kumaphesenti angu-10 kuya kwangu-50 abesifazane abakhipha isidoda ngesikhathi socansi, kodwa baphinde baphawule ukuthi abanye ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi.konke abesifazane bangakwazi ukukhipha umchamo, kodwa lokho iningi alikwazi ngoba uketshezi lungahlehlela emuva esinyeni esikhundleni sangaphandle komzimba.

Ngabe Uhlala Kanjani Ngokwe-squirt Noma U-Ejaculate?

Manje njengoba usazi ukuthi ukucwilisa kungokoqobo futhi ukukhishwa kwesifazane kungokoqobo, mhlawumbe ufuna ukukuzama. Izindaba ezinhle: Nansi inkomba yokuthi ungazama kanjani ukuklolodela abanikazi be-vulva.

Lokho kusho, uma ufuna inhlanganisela yemilingo yokuhamba okuqinisekisiwe ukukusiza noma ukubhangqa nomlingani wakho noma ukukhipha i-ejaculate, uxolo; ijaji lisaphenya ngokuthi ngabe wonke umuntu angafunda ukubhuqa ngesikhathi socansi, kusho uLeah Millheiser, MD, umqondisi we-Female Sexual Medicine Programme eStanford University Medical Center. Njengoba nje abanye abantu bengadlala i-ograsm kusuka ekudlaleni kwezingono noma ezintweni zodwa, abanye abantu bangadluthula ngenkathi abanye bengenjalo. Akukho lutho olungahambi kahle ngokugigitheka noma ukungakwazi ukuphefumula.

Ngenkathi ukugaya kungenzeka ngesikhathi se-orgasm, akudingeki ukuthi kwenzeke ngesikhathi somvuthwandaba; kungase kwenzeke uma nje uvukile futhi uvuselelwe, kusho uMilheiser. (Ukukhuthazwa kwe-g-spot noma izindlala ze-Skene eziseduze kungase kukwenze uzizwe sengathi udinga ukuchama ngesikhathi socansi.)

Lokho kusho ukuthi, uma umzimba wakho uphuma noma u-squirt ngesikhathi socansi, asikho isidingo sokuzizwa unamahloni ngakho. "Ngitshela abesifazane abahlangabezana nokuchama kwabesifazane futhi bazizwe benovalo noma benamahloni ngakho ukuthi bavele batshele ozakwethu abasha ngaphambili ngaphambi kocansi: Hheyi, lokhu kuyinto eyenzeka kimi. Kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ubulili buhle ngempela!" kusho uMillheiser. Bese ubeka phansi ithawula noma amashidi epulasitiki bese uqala ibhizinisi. (Mhlawumbe ungazama nokusebenzisa ingubo yokulala ocansini.)

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