Hamba! Hamba! Onodoli Bezemidlalo Bamemezela "Umsubathi" Ukuba Abe "Inkosazana" Entsha

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Njengabantu abadala, iningi lethu liyalijabulela ithuba lokuthi izimonyo zethu zisebenze futhi izingubo zethu zinuke ngenxa yokujuluka okukhulu (inqobo nje uma kunethuba lokushintsha ngaphambi kokuba sibuyele emsebenzini). Kepha khumbula ukuthi kwakunjani ukuba neminyaka eyi-12 futhi ufise ukuba nengubo enhle njengodoli bakho? Yebo, usomabhizinisi nomama wabathathu uJodi Norgaards ubheke ukukushintsha lokho ngomugqa wakhe weGo! Hamba! Ezemidlalo Amantombazane, umugqa wonodoli abadlala ezemidlalo abafuna ukukhombisa amantombazane ayo yonke iminyaka ukuthi abasubathi amakhosazana amasha.

Umugqa wabo wethegi usho konke: "Thola ukungcola okuncane esiketini sakho." "Kuyamangalisa ukuthi amantombazane afuna ukugqoka ingubo kanokusho kodwa ngifuna ukuwatshela, 'Uyacwebezela futhi ungaba nolaka,'” kusho uNorgaards.

Yilokho kanye odoli abahle abakwenzayo-amantombazane amahle anetimu ezizungeze imidlalo ehlukene, njengoba edlala ibhola lezinyawo, i-basketball, i-gymnastics, igalofu, ithenisi, i-softball, nokubhukuda. Kukhona nodoli ogijimayo, u-Ella, ochazwa njengomuntu ohlale egcoba isikrini selanga futhi ezelula, ephuza amanzi amaningi, futhi othanda ukudla ubhanana ngemuva komjaho (kusobala ukuthi Umumo intombazane ekwakhiweni!). Unodoli ngamunye uza ne-peoper gear yomdlalo wabo futhi unesiqubulo semfihlo esithungelwe esiswini ukukhuthaza amantombazane; Eka-Ella ifundeka ngokuthi "Phupha kakhulu, gijima ngokushesha!"

UNorgaards ugqugquzelwe ukuthi enze onodoli ngemuva kokuthatha indodakazi yakhe eneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye ubudala, uGrace, bayise esitolo samathoyizi ngemuva kwebhola futhi udoli ongcono kakhulu abebengamthola kwakuyithoyizi eliphakeme elibizwa ngokuthi "uLovely Lola." Ebheka onodoli abagqoke isiketi esincane, i-crop top, izithende eziphakeme, namathani wezimonyo-abese ebuka indodakazi yakhe egqoke iyunifomu yakhe emnandi, ejulukile, uNorgaards wacabanga, "Ngingenza kangcono kunalokhu. Mina unayo ukwenza kangcono kunalokhu. "

"Noma nini uma 'sexy' efika emqondweni uma ubheka ithoyizi lezingane ezincane, idinga ukuba ingabikho emashalofini," usho kanje. "Ngicabanga ukuthi sonke sikhathele ukubona amantombazane amancane enziwa ucansi."

Ukulwa nesithombe esigcwele ucansi samantombazane nabesifazane emphakathini wethu i-Go! Hamba! Amantombazane Ezemidlalo awagcini nje ngokudlala izinhlobo eziningi zezemidlalo kodwa abonisa ukuhlukahluka komzimba ngemibala yesikhumba ehlukahlukene, izinhlobo zomzimba, nezitayela zezinwele.

Kepha uNorgaards uthi ingxenye ayithandayo yale nqubo kwakuxhuma nombhali uKara Thom, umama wabane uqobo, owanikela ngokubhala incwadi ezohambisana nodoli ngamunye. Kunokuba abe indaba evusa amadlingozi noma enenkanyezi, uThom ugxile "ezindabeni ezinhle, ezinempilo, zansuku zonke zamantombazane" izintokazi ezincane nezindala ezingahlobene nazo.

"Bengihlale ngithanda ezemidlalo. Ngangingakaze ngibe muhle kodwa ngangiyijabulela," kusho uNorgaard. "Ngifuna ukukhuthaza amantombazane ukuthi asebenzise imizimba yawo ngendlela enempilo."

Futhi umlayezo wakhe uyasabalala nakanjani. ITennis Girl ibingunodoli wokuqala ukudayiswa e-US Open ngo-2008 kanti ulayini ubulandwe ngabakwaWal-Mart nezinye izitolo, behola imiklomelo eminingi yamathoyizi endleleni futhi beqinisa emantombazaneni yonke indawo ukuthi akukho lutho olungcono kunalokho ajuluke.

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