Indlela I-Hijab Engisiza Ngayo Ukunqoba Amazinga Wobuhle Obuhlanga

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• Ngokomzwelo, ngikhululekile nge-hijab.
• Ngokwengqondo, ngizizwa nginoxolo futhi nginelisekile ngokubheka i-hijab.
• Ngokomzimba, ngithulisiwe ngokubuka i-hijab.
• Njengoba umuntu engabona, ngenkathi i-hijab ihlale ichazwa kabi emphakathini, imiphumela ye-hijab yehlukile kuwo wonke umuntu.

Sibona kanjani ukwakheka komhlaba esikhetha ukuba yibo - {textend} nokwabelana ngamava acindezelayo kungakha indlela esiphathana ngayo, ibe ngcono. Lo ngumbono onamandla.

Ngenkathi izindinganiso zobuhle bezilokhu ziguqukela eminyakeni edlule, umphakathi ngamunye uzenzele incazelo yawo yokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba muhle. Ngakho-ke, yini ubuhle? UMerriam Webster uchaza ubuhle ngokuthi “ikhwalithi noma inhlanganisela yezimfanelo kumuntu noma entweni ejabulisa izinzwa noma ephakamisa umqondo noma umoya.”

Amasiko e-United States, kanye nemidiya yaseNtshonalanga ikakhulukazi, imvamisa ichaza ubuhle ngobumnandi obungabunikeza omunye umuntu. Kusukela ekugxileni okusindayo esikhunjeni "sempilo" kuya kumbala webala lethu, amazinga asuselwa "ekuthuthukiseni" ukubukeka komzimba.

Lokhu kuholele ekukhuphukeni kokuthengiswa embonini yezimonyo, ikakhulukazi ekukhanyeni kwesikhumba, futhi kuholele ezigidini zabesifazane ezizizwa zingaphephile.

Kodwa-ke, njengowesifazane ongumSulumane waseMelika, ngiyakwazi ukubheka izindinganiso zobuhle zaseNtshonalanga kulabo engibona zibaluleke kakhulu ngokubheka i-hijab nobuhle njengoba kuchazwe yi-Islam.

Ngithole inkululeko ethe xaxa ngamathuba angapheli ngokuchaza ubuhle njengobuhle bomphefumulo, obuvumela umusa wangaphakathi nangaphandle. Kimi, ngihamba ngesisho esingokwesiprofetho sokuthi uma inhliziyo iphilile futhi iphilile, umzimba wonke uphilile - {textend} lokho, kimi kuhle.

UKhush Rehman, obeseneminyaka engu-11 ebuka i-hijab, ungitshela ukuthi, “Ubuhle ne-hijab kuvame ukuzwakala esikhundleni sokuchazwa. Kimi, ubuhle be-hijab abunakuchazwa. Kudinga ukuzwakala. Kusho ukuqondwa ngumuntu okhetha ubuhle ukuze abonwe, futhi kudinga uthando oluningi, ukholo, nokwethembeka. ”

Ngenkathi labo ababona i-hijab bevame ukubhekwa njengabezizwe (njengoba kuboniswa ukuhlaselwa kwakamuva kwabantu abadumile abanjengoMmeleli u-Ilhan Omar), abesifazane baseMuslim American kanye ne-hijab empeleni sekuyinsakavukela kakhulu kunakuqala.

Ukuchazwa kwami ​​kobuhle, ngezindlela eziningi, kukhululeka ngokomzwelo, ngokwengqondo, futhi nangaphandle komzimba.

Ngokomzwelo, ngikhululekile nge-hijab.

Ngokuzithoba kulokho amaSulumane angichazela khona, ngiyakwazi ukufaka incazelo yobuhle bomphefumulo phambili. Ngizizwa ngijabule kakhulu ukuthi ngimboziwe futhi ngingawagwema amazwi angenhloso angahle ahlobene nomzimba wami nokubukeka kwami. Anginayo i-angst engahlotshaniswa nokuthi ngibonwa kanjani. Esikhundleni salokho, ngiyaneliseka futhi ngiyaneliseka nge-hijab.

Ngokwengqondo, ngizizwa nginoxolo futhi nginelisekile ngokubheka i-hijab.

Akudingeki ngibe nengcindezi yokuthi ngibonwa kanjani. Esikhundleni salokho, ngizizwa ngiqiniswa yi-hijab. I-hijab isebenza njengesikhumbuzo kimi ngezindlela eziningi ukuthi amakhono ami abamba isisindo esikhulu kunangendlela engizethule ngayo kulokho okungathathwa njengesimo samanje ngamazinga aseNtshonalanga.

Ukugxila kwami ​​kukuzimpahla zami ezingaphatheki esikhundleni salokho: amakhono athambile neziqu ezehlukile kunendlela engibukeka ngayo.

Ngalesi sikhathi, kunesici se-gymnastics yengqondo esenzeka lapho ngingena ngaphakathi endaweni yomphakathi futhi ngiqaphela ukuthi ngingaba ngomunye wabesifazane abanemibala ababheka i-hijab. Kepha esikhundleni sokubona lokhu njengesisulu sesimo, ngiyasimema futhi ngikubuke njengesitebhisi sokuqeda izinganekwane.

Ngokomzimba, ngithulisiwe ngokubuka i-hijab.

I-hijab inomthelela opholile kimi lapho ngiya ngaphandle. Yize ngingahle ngibhekane nezahlulelo zenzondo ngendlela engibukeka ngayo, lokhu akusangikhathazi njengakuqala.

Kuyathokozisa ukukwazi ukulawula ukuthi yiziphi izingxenye zomzimba wami engifuna ukuzidalula emhlabeni wonke - {textend} lokhu kufaka izandla zami nobuso kuphela, kwesinye isikhathi izinyawo.

Ulwazi lokuthi ukwakheka komzimba wami alunakuchazwa kalula ngaphansi kwe-hijab kuyangiqinisa. Ngikhetha ukubona lokhu njengesikhuthazo kubantu sokuthi bakhulume nami njengomuntu esikhundleni sokubukeka kwami.

Kunokuthile okuqinisekisayo ngalokho ngami: ukungabi ngoswidi bamehlo kwabanye engikhetha ukungabuvezi ubuhle bami bomzimba. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ngikhohlwa ukubukeka kwami ​​kwangaphandle. Ngisenendaba nokuthi ngivela kanjani - {textend} kepha ukubaluleka akuqinisekisi ukuthi ngiguqule ukubukeka kwami ​​ukuze ngivumelane namasiko amakhulu.

Esikhundleni salokho kuhlanganisa izingubo ezifanayo. Lapho ngikhetha ingubo ethile noma isiketi sosuku, ngifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi sihlanzekile futhi si-ayina ngaphandle kwemibimbi. Ngiyaqaphela ukuthi ngikhetha okokusebenza okuzohlala kahle ekhanda lami ngaphandle kokulungisa ngokweqile. Izikhonkwane kufanele zixhumane futhi zidinga ukubekwa ezindaweni ezifanele.

Izinhlobonhlobo nokukhethwa kwemibala kubalulekile nakimi. Kumele kube nokwehluka okuyikho ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi ingubo ibukeka ingenamthungo.

Kwakukhona isikhathi lapho ngangijwayele ukuzinyeza ngokuthi ngingavela kanjani emehlweni abanye. Ngizwe sengathi nginesibopho sokumelela abanye besifazane nabo ababuka i-hijab. Kepha manje sengiyikhulule leyo ngxenye yami. Angigqoki izimonyo ezisindayo emphakathini, ngoba leyo akuyona ingxenye ye-hijab.

Amandla nesikhathi esichithwa ekuzihlobiseni kuncane kakhulu manje njengoba ngingasenalutho ekubukekeni kwami.

Njengoba umuntu engabona, ngenkathi i-hijab ihlale ichazwa kabi emphakathini, imiphumela ye-hijab yehlukile kuwo wonke umuntu.

Kimina ikakhulukazi, i-hijab iyashintsha umdlalo futhi iyindlela yokuphila. Ingikhuphula ngezindlela ebengingazicabangi futhi ngiyayibonga ngoba ingisiza ukuba ngigweme izindinganiso zobuhle bezenhlalo ezivame ukusho indlela abantu abazibona nabaziphatha ngayo. Ngokubalekela leyo nqubo, ngizizwa ngiphilile futhi ngijabule ngokwengeziwe nangokuthi ngingubani.

UTasmiha Khan une-MA ku-Social Impact evela eClaremont Lincoln University futhi uyi-2018-2019 American Association of University Women Career Development Awardee. Landela uKhan @CraftOurStoryto ufunde kabanzi.