Konke Odinga Ukukwazi Ngokunikeza Umsebenzi Omkhulu Wesandla
-Delile
- Izinto zokuqala kuqala
- Imithondo iyahluka ngombala, ukuma, nosayizi
- Kanjalo nezinwele zasesidlangalaleni
- Kungenzeka kube nephunga
- Futhi uma uqhubekisela phambili izinto ... yazi ukuthi kukhona ukunambitheka, futhi
- Khumbula: Ukuya ocansini ngesandla kusenobungozi (kanjalo nomlomo)
- Imibuzo ejwayelekile
- Ngenzenjani uma kukhona ijwabu?
- Kunzima kangakanani ukubamba?
- Ngenzenjani uma izandla zami zikhathala?
- Kuthiwani uma ngiphelelwa ngamathe?
- Kungani umuntu engithandana naye ethule kangaka? Ngiyaphila KULUNGILE?
- Kuthiwani uma kukhona i-pre-cum?
- Lapho usubeke phansi izisekelo, usukulungele ukwenza okwenzekayo
- Ngikwenza kanjani izinto zihambe?
- Ingabe isikhundla sinendaba?
- Izingubo noma azikho izingubo?
- KULUNGILE, ngiyangena. Manje yini?
- Setha ijubane
- Naka ulimi lwabo lomzimba
- Khiya amehlo
- Faka i-lube
- Sebenzisa izandla zombili
- Duka kusuka kushaft
- Shintsha izinto
- Mhlawumbe engeza amathoyizi
- Gxila enjabulweni, hhayi ku-orgasm
- Kufanele ngime lapha? Yini engiyenzayo ngokulandelayo?
- Ngazi kanjani ukuthi kufanele ngiqhubeke?
- Kuthiwani ngami!?
- Sebezofika ... ngenzenjani?
- KULUNGILE, sekuphelile manje kwenzenjani?
- Okubalulekile
Imisebenzi yezandla ingahle idume ngokuthi “ucansi lwentsha,” kepha inenjabulo enkulu njenganoma iluphi olunye uhlobo lokudlala - {textend} yebo, kufaka phakathi ucansi lwangasese nolwangasese olungena ngaphakathi! - {textend} Ama-HJs ayayifanele indawo nesikhathi sakho sokudlala sabantu abadala, futhi.
Skrolela phansi ukuze uthole, um, usizo umhlahlandlela wokwenza imisebenzi yezandla konke.
Izinto zokuqala kuqala
Uma kwenzeka ungazi: Amapipi ahlukahlukene njengoba umthondo uzinyakazisa.
Imithondo iyahluka ngombala, ukuma, nosayizi
I-Penises evezwe ku-porn ingase ibe ne-vibe efanayo, kepha i-IRL yonke ipipi yehlukile!
“Amanye amapipi asokiwe, amanye awasokiwe. Abanye bangajikela eceleni, kanti abanye bangatshekisi, ”kusho uthisha ocwaninga ngokuhlukumezeka uCassandra Corrado. “Ezinye ziyizigaxa kanti ezinye zizacile. Eminye imifushane, kanti eminye mide. ”
Kanjalo nezinwele zasesidlangalaleni
Amabhabhu afana notshani. Wonke umuntu, utshani Ihluke kakhulu ngombala nokuthungwa, futhi wonke umuntu imihlaba (noma cha) ihluke kakhulu.
Abanye abantu abanabo nhlobo utshani, abanye ama-initials abo agundwe otshanini, kanti abanye bayeke utshani bukhule futhi bukhule.
Kungenzeka kube nephunga
Izindaba ezimnandi: Akudingeki uthenge ikhandlela elithi “Lokhu Kunuka Njengepipi Lami” (yebo, leyo yinto ongayithenga) ukwazi ukuthi ilungu lomlingani wakho ngeke linuke lutho.
"Njengoba unyawo noma ikhwapha linephunga, kanjalo nepipi," kusho uSarah Melancon, PhD, isazi sezokuhlalisana kwabantu kanye nodokotela wezocansi emtholampilo neThe Sex Toy Collective.
Kungase kunuke:
- usawoti
- musky
- umhlaba
- kumuncu
Amakha amabili okufanele uwabheke abolile noma abolile, njengoba lawo angakhombisa ukutheleleka.
Futhi uma uqhubekisela phambili izinto ... yazi ukuthi kukhona ukunambitheka, futhi
Isikhathi semibuzo: Izitho zangasese zikabani ezinambitheka njengophaya we-apula? Akekho umuntu!
Imvamisa, amaqhude anambitha usawoti, umami, noma okunongiwe komhlaba.
“Ukunambitheka kungathinteka kancane ekudleni umuntu akugcinayo, kepha kuvame ukuthintwa yimikhuba yenhlanzeko umuntu ayigcinayo,” kuphawula uCorrado.
Uma nje izihlambi zakho ze-boo zihlala kufanele zinambithe A-OK.
Khumbula: Ukuya ocansini ngesandla kusenobungozi (kanjalo nomlomo)
“Ukuya ocansini ngesandla kungenye yezenzo zobulili ezinobungozi obuphansi; kodwa-ke, ayinabo ubungozi kumuphi noma umamukeli, ”kusho uSearah Deysach, ofundisa isikhathi eside ngocansi futhi ongumnikazi we-Early to Bed, inkampani ekhiqiza imikhiqizo yobumnandi eChicago ehambisa umhlaba wonke.
“Ukusikeka okuncane ezandleni neminwe kungenza noma ngabe ngubani ukuthi abhebhethekise noma abambe izifo zocansi ezithwalwa yigazi,” kuchaza uDysach.
Ngokunjalo, uma umlingani oyedwa enesifo esithathelwana ngocansi (STI) futhi ethinta imfucumfucu yabo ngaphambi kokuthinta eyakho, ukudluliswa kwe-STI kungenzeka.
“Uma oyedwa noma bobabili abalingani benesifo socansi (noma bengasazi isimo sabo), ukugqoka amagilavu e-latex noma i-nitrile kunganciphisa ubungozi,” kwengeza uDeysach.
Imibuzo ejwayelekile
Ngaphambi kokuthi sikhulume ngamasu, ake sibheke ama-Qs akho acindezelayo.
Ngenzenjani uma kukhona ijwabu?
I-Foreskin = isiqeshana esincanyana sesikhumba esimboze ikhanda lepipi. Kwesinye isikhathi, abazali bengane banquma ukususa lelo cwecwe - {textend} aka bayabasoka.
Uma leso sikhumba sishiywa singekho, kuso can kuhoxiswe phansi phansi kwesisekelo sowesilisa, kuveze ikhanda lepenisi elifana namakhowe, elizwelana no-oh ngezansi.
"Abanye abantu bazokujabulela ukusebenzisa ijwabu labo njengengxenye yomsebenzi wesandla ukwengeza ungqimba lokuthungwa, ukufudumala, nokumanzisa," kusho uLuna Matatas, ezocansi, umzimba, ukuzethemba, nomfundisi we-kink nomsunguli wePeg The Patriarchy.
Abanye abantu bangaba nejwabu eliqinile, futhi kungaba buhlungu ukuzama ukuhoxisa ijwabu labo ngenhloso ngesikhathi somsebenzi wesandla.
Ukuze uthole ukuthi umlingani wakho uthanda ini, buza!
Kunzima kangakanani ukubamba?
Ngokuvamile, ufuna ukuqala ukhululeke futhi wandise ukubambelela lapho uya (kuze kufike iphuzu!).
Kepha wonke umnikazi wepipi ukhetha okuhlukile. Ngakho-ke, bamba iqhude lomlingani wakho, bese ubuza:
- “Kungani ungabeki isandla sakho phezu kwesami futhi ungibonise ukuthi usithanda kangakanani?”
- “Ngitshele uma uthanda ukuqina kokubamba kwami.”
Ngenzenjani uma izandla zami zikhathala?
Ucansi kufanele lube mnandi kubo bonke abalingani. Uma ukukhathala komunwe kuphazamisa injabulo yakho, shintshela komunye umsebenzi.
Ungase uthi:
- “Babe, ngiyakuthanda ukukuthinta, kodwa isandla sami siyakhathala. Ungazizwa kanjani ngokuziphulula ngenkathi ngikuqabula intamo? ”
- "Ngabe ufuna ngikwenyukele esikhundleni sakho?"
- "Ngicabanga ukuthi kungashisa ngempela ukukubuka usebenzisa i-stroker kuwe."
Kuthiwani uma ngiphelelwa ngamathe?
“Amathe anganxanxathela, kepha asoma masinyane futhi akuphuce ukushelela okushelelayo okwenza ukuziphulula kube mnandi kakhulu,” kusho uMatatas.
Liyini ikhambi? Sebenzisa i-lube futhi uphane ngayo. Ama-lubes asekwe ngabicah ahlala isikhathi eside kunama-lube asuselwa emanzini.
Kepha uwoyela wehlisa i-latex, ngakho-ke uma ungahle uhlanganyele ukuya ocansini ngemuva, namathela ku-lube olususelwa ku-silicone njenge-LberLube.
Kungani umuntu engithandana naye ethule kangaka? Ngiyaphila KULUNGILE?
Izinhlungu akuzona okuwukuphela kwendlela yokuxhumana nokuthi izwa kanjani. Izinguquko ekuphefumuleni, ukukhuluma komzimba, nokubukeka kobuso nakho.
Indlela enhle yokuthola ukuthi uqhuba kanjani ukubuza!
"Buza imibuzo elula njengokuthi" uthambile noma unzima? ' noma ‘esheshayo noma ehamba kancane?’ ”kusikisela uMatatas.
Kuthiwani uma kukhona i-pre-cum?
I-pre-cum = pre-ejaculate engaphuma ngaphandle kwepipi lepipi noma yikuphi ukusuka kumasekhondi kuya kumizuzu ngaphambi kokukhishwa.
Uma umlingani wakho ekhipha i-pre-cum, lokho kunempilo ngokuphelele futhi kujwayelekile! Qhubeka (ngaphandle kokuthi bakucela ukuthi ume, kunjalo).
Lapho usubeke phansi izisekelo, usukulungele ukwenza okwenzekayo
Qhubeka ufunde ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungasuka kanjani ukufuna ukunikeza i-HJ ukuthi ikwenze empeleni.
Ngikwenza kanjani izinto zihambe?
Musa ukusuka “sawubona” uye emsebenzini. Yakha ukuvusa inkanuko nge:
- ukuqabula
- ukubhucungwa umzimba
- ukudansa
- ukugquma nokugaya
- ukukhuthaza ingono
Ingabe isikhundla sinendaba?
Imisipha ehlukene ingathwala ubunzima ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene.
“Imisipha yakho ye-hip neye-ab izosebenza kakhulu uma uhambahamba,” kuchaza uCorrado.
“Imisipha yakho yamahlombe ingazizwa iphazamisekile uma ulele ngohlangothi, futhi isikhundla ngasinye singabeka izingqinamba ezingafani ezingalweni zakho,” kusho uCorrado. "Yenza okukulungele kakhulu wena nomlingani wakho."
Izingubo noma azikho izingubo?
Akunasidingo sokuhlubula i-boo yakho isudi yabo yosuku lokuzalwa kusukela lapho uthola khona.
Banciphise ngaphezulu kwamabhodlela abo ngokulandela imikhondo, ngokuveza ipipi labo ngendwangu, noma ngokufaka isandla sakho phezu kweqhude labo eligqokile bese ubavumela bagayeke kulo.
Uma usukulungele (futhi ubona ukuthi bakulungele) ukuthola okuningi, buza: "Ngingakwazi ukukhumula lokhu?"
KULUNGILE, ngiyangena. Manje yini?
Ngezansi kukhona amathiphu ajwayelekile.
Kodwa khumbula: “Wonke amapipi angathola injabulo ehlukile kumasu, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuxhumana nomuntu othola umsebenzi wesandla,” kusho uMatatas.
Setha ijubane
“Ukunqoba” okuhamba kancane futhi okungaguquki umjaho umsebenzi wesandla - {textend} okungenani ukuqala.
Qala ngokucindezela okulula nokushaywa unyawo (ish), bese ukhuphula umfutho ekunxuseni komlingani wakho.
Naka ulimi lwabo lomzimba
Cue Shakira ngoba amahips (namehlo) awaqambi amanga.
Ngabe umlingani wakho uxhasa izinkalo zakho kude nokubamba kwakho? Izinkinga uhamba ngejubane elikhulu noma ziqinile.
Ngabe umlingani wakho ufaka isandla sakho? Izinkinga basondele kakhulu ...
Khiya amehlo
Noma okungenani, uma ufuna ukuzizwa uxhumekile kwi-AF nomlingani wakho.
Amanothi kaMatatas: Oxhumana naye ngamehlo angazizwa enamandla ngisho nangaphezulu lapho onikezayo nomamukeli besezingeni eliphakeme elihlukile (okungukuthi, onikezayo uguqa ngenkathi umamukeli emi).
Faka i-lube
Futhi: Lube> khafula amathe.
"ILube isiza ekwehliseni ukungqubuzana okungathandeki kanye nokucasuka kwesikhumba okungaba khona," kusho uCorrado.
Sebenzisa izandla zombili
“Izandla ezimbili zingakusiza uhlukanise amandla nesivinini, futhi kungaba yindlela yokushintsha izinto,” kusho uMatatas.
Ungazama ukugoqa izandla zakho ezigcotshwe kahle umthondo bese uhlanganisa iminwe yakho nezithupha, wakhe isitsha sokushaya umthondo, usho kanje.
Noma, "Sebenzisa isibhakela namasu okusonta kodwa ngezandla zombili zibekiwe ngaphezulu komunye nomunye," kwengeza uMatatas. “Dlala ngokubasonta ngokunyakazisa phansi umthondo.”
Noma ungasebenzisa isandla esisodwa kushaft yabo nakwesinye isandla ukwenza lokhu:
- Donsa izinwele zabo.
- Dlalisa izingono zabo.
- Ziminyanise njalo.
- Zithinte.
Duka kusuka kushaft
I-perineum (isiqeshana sesikhumba esiphakathi kwamabhola ne-anus), izihlathi ze-bum, i-anus, amabhola, amathanga angaphakathi, kanye nendunduma ye-pubic nazo ziyisibindi.
“Uma umlingani wakho ethanda amabhola abo adlalwe ngawo, sebenzisa isandla esisodwa enkomishini noma uvuselele amasende abo kanti esinye isandla singaqhubeka nokushaywa unhlangothi,” kuphakamisa uMatatas.
Shintsha izinto
Ziningi izindlela zokuthinta ipipi. Kungani unamathela kweyodwa nje?
Nazi izindlela ezintathu, ukuhlonishwa kukaMatata, ungazama:
- Isibhakela nokusonta. Songa umunwe wakho wenkomba nesithupha uzungeze umsuka wepipi. Dala isibhakela ngesinye isandla sakho, bese ushaya unyawo ngokunyakaza phezulu naphansi.
- Ukuhhafu uhhafu. Bamba ipipi ngesandla esisodwa, bese usebenzisa esinye isandla sakho ukwenza iminyakazo ezungezayo ekhanda.
- Ukushaya ingwane. Sondela ekhanda lomthondo ngentende eyisicaba uvumele iminwe yakho yehle iye phansi kushaft. Hudula iminwe yakho ngengcindezi, kube sengathi yizihibe ezidla shaft.
Mhlawumbe engeza amathoyizi
Ungahle ukuthi umlingani wakho afake indandatho yeqhude elidlidlizelayo ngenkathi uphulula, kusho uCorrado. Futhi omunye wenu angagqoka i-butt plug noma izingono zezingono.
Gxila enjabulweni, hhayi ku-orgasm
“Kwesinye isikhathi - {textend} ikakhulukazi nabaninipipi - {textend} sigxila kakhulu ekuthini sifike emaphupheni size siphuthe amathuba okuqaphela umlingani wethu, ukugibela amagagasi abo wenjabulo, nokuzitholela injabulo yethu ngokunikela,” kusho Matatas.
"Yehlisa izinto phansi, khuthaza ukuxhumana, futhi ukhombise intshiseko yakho yokunikeza injabulo."
Kufanele ngime lapha? Yini engiyenzayo ngokulandelayo?
Umsebenzi wesandla kungaba umcimbi omkhulu. Noma, kungaba yindawo yokuqala yokuma ohambweni lobusuku bonke.
Ngazi kanjani ukuthi kufanele ngiqhubeke?
Uma beklabalasa noma bebubula njengesilwane (se-orgasmic), ama-probs awafuni ukuthi ume. Qhubeka wenze lokhu okwenzayo.
Ngokushesha "Lokhu kuzizwa kanjani?" noma "Ufuna ngiqhubeke?" izosusa noma yikuphi ukudideka.
Kuthiwani ngami!?
Kunezindlela eziningi zokuthola ezakho ngenkathi unikeza umsebenzi wesandla!
Ungase:
- Zama ithoyizi locansi eligqokekayo njenge-b-vibe Rimming Plug noma i-We Vibe Moxie, etholakala ku-inthanethi.
- Phonsa umatilasi noma ithanga lomlingani wakho.
- Cela umlingani wakho akushukumise ngasikhathi sinye.
- Sebenzisa esinye isandla sakho kuwe.
- Mema umlingani wakho ukuthi akuthinte lapho kwenziwa umsebenzi wesandla.
Sebezofika ... ngenzenjani?
Qhubeka. Ungabavumela baqedele esandleni sakho, ubacele ukuthi baziqedele ngesandla sabo, noma uthathe ubhuqu bese usebenzisa lokho ukubamba ikhumu.
Ungase futhi ubavumele baqede emlonyeni wakho.
KULUNGILE, sekuphelile manje kwenzenjani?
Ukuncoma okuncane okuvela emuva kuhamba ibanga elide. Yazisa umlingani wakho ukuthi bekushisa kanjani ukubabukela bezijabulisa.
Okulandelayo, hlanza. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma ufuna ukuthintwa, sazise!
Okubalulekile
Bheka! Imisebenzi yezandla akuyona nje ifolishi lentsha. Kungumsebenzi ojabulisayo wabo bonke abanikazi bamadoda abenza ucansi nabalingani babo.
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