Ingabe Akukho emthethweni Ukudlula Efonini Yesoka Lakho Ufunde Imibhalo Yakhe?
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Imibuzo yePop: Uhlanganyela kuMgqibelo onobuqili futhi isoka lakho liyaphuma egumbini. Ngenkathi esahamba, ifoni yakhe ikhanya ngesaziso. Uyaqaphela ukuthi iphuma kosebenza naye oshisayo. Ngabe wena A) Nquma ukuthi akuyona indaba yakho bese ubheka eceleni, B) Bhala engqondweni yakho ukumbuza ngakho, C) Yithathe, swayipha ikhodi yakhe yokungena bese uyifunda, noma D) Yisebenzise njengemvume yokugcwala Mnu Robot futhi uhambe ngocingo lwakhe phezulu kuye ezansi? Ukukhetha inketho yokuqala kudinga ukuzithiba kongcwele-isilingo sokungena ocingweni lomunye umuntu ngakho kwangempela. Kodwa uma ukhetha noma yini ngaphandle kwenketho A, ungase ube semandleni omthetho antengantengayo. Kuvela ukuthi ukudlula kulwazi lwedijithali lomlingani wakho kungakufaka emanzini ashisayo nomthetho uma ethukuthele ngokwanele ngakho ukuya emaphoyiseni-ingasaphathwa eyokuthi ithini ngokuthembela ku-SO yakho.
Kungazwakala kusabisa, kepha ukuqonda lokhu kungena nokuphuma kubaluleke kakhulu manje kunanini ngaphambili, uma kubhekwa ukuthi bangaki abantu ababamba iqhaza kolunye uhlobo lobuchwepheshe bokubona. "Ngokuya ngemiphumela yocwaningo oyifundile, noma yikuphi abantu abangamaphesenti angama-25 kuya kwangama-40 ebudlelwaneni bayavuma ukuthi bahlole ngasese ama-imeyili abo, umlando wesiphequluli, imiyalezo noma ama-akhawunti ezinkundla zokuxhumana," kusho abahluleli uDana noKeith Abakwa-Cutler, abameli bempilo yangempela (nabashadikazi) abasebenza eMissouri kanye namajaji angamele umbukiso osanda kuqala, i-Couples Court ne-Cutlers. "Ubuchwepheshe bokulandelela lowo" mzwelo we-gut "wezinto ezisolisayo bukhona, futhi abantu bayayisebenzisa."
Ngaphambi kokuthi uhlole (ngisho nomzuzwana nje!), nakhu okudingeka ukwazi:
Konke kweza ezinkingeni ezintathu: ubunikazi, imvume, nokulindela ubumfihlo. Umthetho wokuqala ulula kakhulu: Uma ungeyena umnikazi wefoni, awuvunyelwe ukwenza noma yini ngaphandle kwemvume yomunye umuntu. Kodwa "imvume" yilapho izinto ziba muncu. Okuhle, isoka lakho lingakunika iphasikhodi yalo bese lithi uvunyelwe ukubuka noma yini oyifunayo noma nini lapho uzizwa uthanda, futhi ungenza okufanayo, ngoba nithembana ngokuphelele futhi kusobala ukuthi nihlanzekile kakhulu kulo mhlaba. Kodwa lokho ngokuvamile akuyona impilo yangempela (futhi ukube bekunjalo cishe ubungeke udinge ukubuka kuqala). Ngakho-ke uma engakuniki ikhodi yakho yokudlula, kuzodingeka ukuthi uthole imvume njalo.
"Imvume ingumqondo okhohlisayo ngoba inganqunyelwa noma ichithwe," kusho iJaji u-Dana Cutler. "Ukuthi isimo esiphuthumayo esithile ake sakudinga ukuthi akutshele i-password yakhe akukuniki ilayisense engapheli yokuhamba ubuka ucingo lwakho ubheka izithombe nemibhalo noma kunini lapho uthanda khona." Ukungasho ukuthi lokhu akuyona indlela yokuziphatha enempilo kakhulu kwasekuqaleni. Uma uzizwa sengathi okuwukuphela kwendawo ongakhetha kuyo ukungena ocingweni lomlingani wakho, lapho-ke kungadingeka ukuthi uphinde ucabange ngobuhlobo bakho-noma okungenani ubheke ukwelulekwa kwezithandani.
Ngaphansi komthetho wase-U.S., Abantu banelungelo lokulindela ubumfihlo, ngisho nabathandekayo abasondelene nabo, kuchaza iJaji uKeith Cutler. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma ekunika ifoni yakhe futhi akubonise okuthile noma ashiye isikrini sakhe sivuliwe futhi sivule lapho ongabona khona ngokusobala, akalindele ukuthi sihlale ngasese. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kufanele ubuze kuqala. Kungase kukhungathekise ukuba nomuntu ozokwabelana nawe ngesixubho kodwa hhayi ucingo lwakhe, kodwa ekugcineni lokho kuwucingo lwakhe. (Futhi wubizo lwakho ukunquma ukuthi ngabe yini le nto ongahlala nayo ebudlelwaneni.)
Izinto zisuka kokufiphele ziye kokungekho emthethweni uma uqagela iphasikhodi yakhe, uyithole ngokumbuka, noma "uyigebeze" ngenye indlela. "Uma engazi ukuthi uyayazi iphasiwedi yakhe, futhi kufanele uvule futhi uvule uchungechunge lwezinhlelo zokusebenza ocingweni lwakhe ngenkathi elele ukuze uthole lokho okufunayo, kungenzeka ukuthi weqe umugqa ngaleso sikhathi futhi wenze ngokungalungile. wangenela ubumfihlo bakhe,” kusho iJaji uDana Cutler.
Siyabonga ngozakwethu abafisa ukwazi (noma abasolisayo), kunezinye izindlela zokubuka ezihlanzekile. Imithombo yezokuxhumana, isibonelo, kulungile. Uma ethumela okuthile esidlangalaleni, ungaphakathi kwamalungelo akho wokuyifunda ngekama elizinyo elihle. Kusemthethweni futhi kulwazi "lwe-backdoor", okusho ukuthi udlula kokuthunyelwe esidlangalaleni kwabangani abafanayo ukuze ubone izinto umlingani wakho angase abeke amazwana noma azithande. Awukwazi, nokho, ukufunda imilayezo yakhe yangasese, kuneza iJaji uKeith Cutler.
Kepha kuthiwani uma kunguwe osesikhundleni sokuba nesithandwa sakho sibheke eyakho ifoni? Uma ungazange umnikeze ikhodi yakho yokudlula noma umnike imvume futhi ungazange uyishiye ilele ivuliwe futhi isikrini sivuliwe, kusho ukuthi inkinga esemthethweni. Nciphisa isilingo sanoma ngubani sokubheka nje ngokuqiniseka ukuthi usuthatha izinyathelo eziyisisekelo zobumfihlo, kusho iJaji uKeith Cutler. Shintsha ikhodi yakho yokudlula namaphasiwedi bese ususa izaziso esikrinini sakho sokukhiya.
Uma idlulela ngaphezu kwelukuluku elingalungile, ingahle yeqe umugqa iye ekuzingeleni kwedijithali. Zivikele ngokushesha ngokubeka amasethingi wakho wezokuxhumana kubangani abazimele nabangaxakile. Qiniseka ukuthi uvala izinhlelo zokusebenza futhi ukhiye isikrini sakho sefoni njalo, futhi uxhumane nenkampani yakho yefoni mayelana nokusetha ukuvikeleka okwengeziwe kulayini wakho. Isinqumo sakho sokugcina, ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, ukubiza amaphoyisa bese ufaka isikhalazo sobugebengu. Ngenkathi kungenakwenzeka ukuthi abomthetho bazobandakanyeka elula "wafunda imibhalo yami!" icala, uma kunosongo lodlame noma ukulinyazwa komzimba, uma kuyingxenye yendlela yokulandelela, noma uma imininingwane yakho isetshenziselwe ukukhwabanisa (ukwebiwa kwezazisi) bazoyithatha ngokungathi sína kakhulu, kusho iJaji uDana Cutler.
Iphuzu eliyinhloko: Ungangeni ocingweni lwabanye abantu, noma ngabe lukulinga kangakanani. Uma kwenzeka ebudlelwaneni bakho, sekuyisikhathi sokuba nemicabango ejulile ngokuthi ufuna ngempela yini ukuba nomuntu ongamethembi. Okungcono kakhulu, lolu hlobo lokuziphatha (wena noma umlingani wakho) aluphilile. Okubi kakhulu, "ukuhlukunyezwa kwedijithali" kungaba yingxenye yephethini enkulu, noma isandulela sodlame lwasekhaya.