Kungani Ungadingeki Ukhethe Phakathi Kwemisipha Nobufazi, Ngokusho kukaKelsey Wells

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Uma kukhulunywa ngemizimba yabesifazane, abantu ababonakali bekubamba ukugxeka kwabo. Noma ngabe kuhlambalaza amafutha, kuhlambalaza, noma kwenza abesilisa ocansini, ukugeleza okungaguquguquki kwamazwana amabi kuyaqhubeka.

Abesifazane bezemidlalo nabo bayahlukaniswa — iphuzu uKelsey Wells alibeke kokuthunyelwe okunamandla kwe-Instagram. (Okuhlobene: UKelsey Wells Nguye Ukugcina Kuyiqiniso Ngokuthi Ungazinzima Kakhulu Kuwe)

"Akudingeki ukhethe phakathi kokuba namandla NOMA usengozini. Zithobe NOMA ukuzethemba. Imisipha NOMA ukuba wesifazane. I-Conservative NOMA i-sexy. Ukwamukela NOMA ukuqinisa kumanani akho," kubhala umqeqeshi we-SWEAT. "Impilo ayilula NOMA inzima, inethemba noma inselele futhi inhliziyo yakho ayihlali igcwele NOMA ibuhlungu." (Okuhlobene: UKelsey Wells Wabelana Ngokuthi Kusho Ukuthini Ukuzizwa Unamandla Ngokufanele)

U-Wells wabelane ngalesi sikhumbuzo esibalulekile eceleni kwezithombe zakhe ezimbili ezibhekene. Kwesinye isithombe, ugqoke izingubo zokujima, ephethe i-dumbbell, futhi enyakazisa imisipha yakhe. Kwenye, ukhazimulisiwe futhi ugqoke ingubo enhle yobude obuphansi. Iphuzu lakhe? Ungowesifazane ngokulinganayo kuzo zombili izithombe, noma ngabe abanye abantu bangacabanga ngenye indlela. (Kuhlobene: USia Cooper Uthi Uzizwa "Esifazane Kakhulu Kunangaphambili" Ngemva Kokukhipha Izimila Zakhe Zebele)

"Uma ungowesifazane, umzimba wakho muhle ngokwedlulele futhi ungowesifazane awunandaba nobukhulu bemisipha noma ukuma komzimba noma usayizi ngoba nje UNGOWESIFAZANE," kubhala yena. "Yeka ukuzabalaza ukuze uvumelane nesimo osilungiselelwe umhlaba owenziwe ngemibono yabanye kanye nezindinganiso zomphakathi ezihlala zishintshashintsha. Eqinisweni, thatha leso sikhunta futhi USIHLUBE." (Thola ukuthi kungani uKelsey Wells efuna ukuthi ucabangele ukulahla isisindo somgomo wakho.)

Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukuhlukanisa izinto ngendlela u-Wells ayichaza ngayo. Kepha ubuhle beqiniso buvame ukutholakala ezindaweni ezimpunga zokuphila, okuyilokho kanye u-Wells akukhuthaza ukuba ukwamukele. Unquma ukuthi yini enhle, futhi ubufazi yilokho okwenzayo ngakho.

"UNGUYE, Hhayi NOMA," kubhala u-Wells, ephetha okuthunyelwe kwakhe. "Niyizingxenye zenu NONKE. Niphelele, NINA. Yamukelani iqiniso lakho futhi nihlanganyele ekwambulweni kwenu. NGENA EMANDLENI AKHO."

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