Konke Mayelana Nokukhulisa Umshini Wokushisisa

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• I-Lawnmower vs. umzali onophephela emhlane: Uyini umehluko?
• 1. Awuyivumeli ingane yakho ukuthi isingathe izingxabano
• 2. Uqedela umsebenzi wesikole wengane yakho
• 3. Uyeka umsebenzi wesikole lapho ingane yakho ikukhohlwa ekhaya (noma kungenjalo thatha ukuxega kwayo)
• 4. Ususa ingane yakho ezintweni ezinzima
• 5. Unikeza ingane yakho noma yini eyifunayo
• 6. Uhlala uhlangana nothisha
• Ingabe ukuba ngumzali womshini wokugunda utshani kuhle noma kubi?
• Ukuthatha

Inhliziyo yakho ivuvukala kakhulu uma ucabanga ngezingane zakho. Lobude obude oya kubo uma kukhulunywa ngokuzivikela ekulimaleni kungokwemvelo kuphela futhi kukhombisa uthando lwakho olujulile nokukhathalela.

Mhlawumbe uzwile ukuthi abanye abazali bathatha elinye igxathu futhi bavikela ingane yabo kubo noma yini uhlobo lokwehluleka nobunzima. Mhlawumbe uze watshela nokuthi uyakwenza lokhu. Uma kunjalo, ungahle ube ngowohlobo olusha lomama nobaba abaziwa njengabazali be- "lawnmower".

Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi inhliziyo yakho isendaweni efanele. Kepha ukususa zonke izithiyo ingane yakho ebhekene nazo kungabathinta kabi isikhathi eside?

Nakhu okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nokukhulisa utshani, nokuthi yini ongayenza ukuze unqobe ezinye zezingibe.

Okuhlobene: Yiluphi uhlobo lobuzali olulungele wena?

I-Lawnmower vs. umzali onophephela emhlane: Uyini umehluko?

Ebizwa nangokuthi abazali be- "snowplow" noma abazali be- "bulldozer", abazali abenza utshani banesifiso esinamandla sokuvikela ingane yabo kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lomzabalazo noma isithiyo. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, kuthiwa "bagunda" noma iyiphi inkinga ebhekene nengane yabo, kanye nokuvimbela izinkinga ukuthi zivele kwasekuqaleni.

Lokhu kungabonakala kufana kakhulu nomunye umkhuba wokuba ngumzali, umzali onophephela emhlane.

Umzali wendiza enophephela emhlane uyandiza futhi ubheke iso konke okwenziwa ingane yakhe. Abazali abasebenzisa utshani bangaba nokuthambekela kokuhambisa ngaphezu kokusindisa izingane zabo.

Ukubonisa umehluko, umzali we-helicopter angahlola njalo umsebenzi wesikole wengane yakhe noma amamaki aku-inthanethi futhi njalo abakhumbuze ukuthi bathumele izabelo.

Umzali otshala utshani, noma kunjalo, angaqedela umsebenzi wesikole namaphrojekthi "engane" yengane yakhe - azi noma cha. (Futhi, laba bazali bafuna okungcono kakhulu ezinganeni zabo.)

Nakhu ukubheka izici eziyisithupha ezibonisa ukuthi ungaba ngumzali womshini wotshani.

1. Awuyivumeli ingane yakho ukuthi isingathe izingxabano

Udweshu luyingxenye yempilo. Kepha kungaba buhlungu ukuyibuka, ikakhulukazi uma iqala usemncane. Izelamani nabazala bakho bangalwa bodwa, kanti omncane wakho angathola okungenani ukukhafula okukodwa nenye ingane ebaleni lokudlala.

Yize abanye abazali bengabheka lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho njengengxenye ejwayelekile yobuntwana, umqondo wokuthi ingane yakho ayithandi noma icasukile ingaba ngaphezu kwamandla akho ngokomzwelo - siyakuthola, sithembe.

Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yabo ayizibandakanyi lezi zinhlobo zezinkinga, umzali otshala utshani angakhansela izinsuku zokudlala noma avimbele ikhono lomntwana wabo lokudlala nezingane ezithile. Bangaze babize isikole sabo babike ngengane ecasula ingane yabo, ngisho nasezenzakalweni ezincane.

Le ndlela yokuba ngumzali can ube yingozi kwezinye izimo ngoba ayivumeli ingane yakho ukuba yakhe amandla engqondo, engayisiza ukuba ikwazi ukuqina ngokwengeziwe. Futhi, kungahle kungavumeli ingane yakho ukuthi ikhuthaze amakhono wokuxazulula izinkinga, angabasiza banqobe izithiyo.

2. Uqedela umsebenzi wesikole wengane yakho

Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokusiza ingane yakho ngomsebenzi wesikole. Yilokhu okwenziwa abazali ababandakanyekile. Inkinga, nokho, ukuthi abazali abasebenza ngotshani bangenzela izingane zabo umsebenzi wesikole namaphrojekthi ekilasi.

Lokhu kungaqala esikoleni samabanga aphansi lapho ingane inenkinga ngezingxenyana noma ukuphindaphinda. Iphethini ingangena esikoleni esiphakathi noma esikoleni esiphakeme, lapho abanye abazali beze bahambe baze babhale amaphepha ocwaningo, uma kungumsebenzi omningi noma udala ingcindezi enkulu enganeni.

Ekugcineni, noma kunjalo, lezi zingane ziya ekolishi nakubasebenzi. Uma benolwazi oluncane lokuphatha isikhathi esinqunyiwe nokuphathwa kwesikhathi, kungaba nzima kubo ukujwayela impilo yasekolishi esheshayo noma umsebenzi odingayo.

Khumbula: Ukufuna ukubandakanyeka a kuhle isici. Kepha uma uzizwa ukuthi isabelo sidinga ingane yakho kakhulu, ungahle uthande ukusebenzisa abanye abazali njengesivivinyo se-litmus noma ukukhuluma nothisha.

3. Uyeka umsebenzi wesikole lapho ingane yakho ikukhohlwa ekhaya (noma kungenjalo thatha ukuxega kwayo)

Esinye isici sokufunda ukuba ngumuntu ophethe kahle ukukhumbula ukuletha umsebenzi wesikole namaphrojekthi - noma izingubo zokuzivocavoca noma amasiliphu emvume asayiniwe - esikoleni. Kepha uma ungumzali otshala utshani, uzokwenza noma yini edingekayo ukuvimbela ingane yakho ukuthi ithethiswe noma ithole amamaki aphansi ngoba ikhohlwa ukwabelwa ekhaya.

Ngakho-ke uma ubona iphrojekthi, umsebenzi wesikole, noma incwadi yomtapo wolwazi eshiywe ngemuva, uzolahla konke bese ugijimela ngokushesha esikoleni sabo. Kodwa ngeshwa, lokhu akufundisi ukuphendula. Esikhundleni salokho, kungahle kufundise ukuthi uzohlala ukhona ukuhlenga nokubakhipha.

Kukhona umugqa omuhle walokhu. Isibonelo, uma kunohambo lwenkambu futhi ingane yakho ikhohlwa isiliphu sayo semvume esisayiniwe kanye noma kabili, kungenzeka kunengqondo ngokuphelele ukuyiyisa esikoleni uma ukwazi. Kepha uma ukukhohlwa kujwayelekile, ukuphuthelwa yinsimu kungaba yindlela enhle yokubenza bakhumbule ngokuzayo.

4. Ususa ingane yakho ezintweni ezinzima

Akekho ofuna ukubona ingane yakhe ihluleka. Kepha ungahle ube ngumzali wokulawula utshani uma ususa ingane yakho emakilasini noma emisebenzini enzima.

Yazi ukuthi lokhu kungabuyela emuva, kuthumele umyalezo wokuthi awukholwa enganeni yakho - esaziyo ukuthi akunjalo nhlobo. Lokhu kungadala ukuthi bahlakulele ukungazethembi nokuzethemba okuphansi. (Khumbula futhi ukuthi impendulo eyodwa yemvelo kulindelo oluphakeme ukukhuphuka kubo.)

5. Unikeza ingane yakho noma yini eyifunayo

Uma ingane ezansi nomgwaqo ithola ibhayisikili elisha, uthengela ingane yakho ibhayisikili elisha. Uma omunye umndeni uhambisa ingane yawo epaki lokuzijabulisa, nawe uhlela uhambo losuku.

Lokhu "akuhambisani nabakwa-Jones." Kwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi ingane yakho ayizizwa ishiywe ngaphandle noma ilulazekile - okukhombisa uthando lwakho olujulile. Kepha njengomphumela, ingane yakho ingahle igcine ithola konke ebikade ikufuna. Ngenkathi sifisa ukuthi impilo ibe kanjena ingunaphakade, akunjalo. Ingane yakho ingakhula icabanga ukuthi kufanele njalo ibe nakho lokho abanye abanakho.

6. Uhlala uhlangana nothisha

Uma ungumzali otshala utshani, kungenzeka othisha nomeluleki wengane yakho bakwazi ngegama. Akuyona into embi kukodwa, kepha…

Okudingayo yisikhalazo esisodwa esisuka enganeni yakho futhi usesikoleni uphikisana nabo. Uma ingane yakho inomuzwa wokuthi ibanga eliphansi belingenasizathu, usheshe uthathe uhlangothi lwayo ngaphandle kokuzwa amaqiniso.

Ungaxhumana futhi nomeluleki wabo wokuqondisa kaninginingi ngenqubo yokufaka isicelo yasekolishi. Futhi uma ukhuluma ngokufaka isicelo ekolishi, ungakhetha izikole onomuzwa wokuthi zingcono kakhulu, uqedele isicelo sabo sokungena ekolishi, futhi unqume nesheduli yabo yekilasi.

Asisho ukuthi ungalokothi uhlangane nothisha bengane yakho. Eqinisweni, ubudlelwano obuqhubekayo nothisha babo - ikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho inezimo ezihlukile eziyidingayo, njengecebo lemfundo elenzelwe umuntu ngamunye (i-IEP) - kuyinto enhle.

Ingabe ukuba ngumzali womshini wokugunda utshani kuhle noma kubi?

Abazali abasebenzisa utshani banezinhloso ezinhle. Lokho abakufunela izingane zabo akuhlukile kulokho okufunwa yibo bonke abazali - impumelelo nenjabulo.

Kepha yize izithiyo "zokugunda phansi" kungabonakala kuyindlela enhle yokusetha encane ukuthi iphumelele, ingalimaza kakhulu kunokulunga.

Ukungqubuzana nezinkinga kufundisa izingane ukuthi zingabhekana kanjani nokungaphatheki kahle, ukudumazeka nokukhungatheka - futhi kuzisize zikhulise amandla engqondo. Ngale ndlela, kuba lula ngabo ukubhekana nempilo.

Ngokungenelela okukhulu kakhulu kwabazali, ezinye izingane zingathola ukukhathazeka okukhulu lapho zikhona kukhona ngaphansi kwengcindezi awukwazi ukukulawula. Futhi, ukubandakanyeka ngokweqile kwabazali kungahle kungazilungisi ngokomzwelo ezinye izingane zasekolishi, ezingadlala indima ekutheni abafundi bonyaka wokuqala bazivumelanise kanjani.

Ngokuya kokunye ukuhlola okwenziwa ezweni lonke kwentsha engu-1,502 yase-U.S eshintsha isikole isuka esikoleni esiphakeme iya ekolishi, cishe amaphesenti angama-60 afisa sengathi abazali bawo babezilungiselele ngokomzwelo ukuba baye ekolishi. Futhi amaphesenti angama-50 athi adinga ukuthuthukisa amakhono abo okuphila ngokuzimela lapho bengena ekolishi - futhi le poll yenziwa ngaphandle ukugxila ezindizeni ezinophephela emhlane noma utshani.

Ukuthatha

Ngakho-ke yini ongayenza uma ucabanga ukuthi ungumzali otshala utshani futhi ungathanda ukushintsha?

Ukufuna ukunikeza ingane yakho umlenze kuyaqondakala. Yazi nje ukuthi kungenzeka ukuba ngumzali othembekile ngaphandle kokudlulela ngokweqile. Eqinisweni, kungaba yisinyathelo sokuqala esihle sokuqala ngokwazi ukuthi ukuvumela ingane yakho emnandi ibhekane nobunzima kuyinto umlenze phezulu, ikakhulukazi ngekusasa.

Hlala wazi ukuthi ukukhulisa ngokweqile noma ukuba ngumzali ngokweqile kunganciphisa ukuzethemba kwengane yakho nokuzethemba, futhi akubalungiseli umhlaba wangempela. Ngakho-ke vumela ingane yakho ukuba izimele.

Thembela ingane yakho ukuthi ibhekane nomsebenzi wasekhaya kanye namaphrojekthi ekilasi, futhi ulwe nesifiso sokubasiza uma ubona umzabalazo omncane. Vumela indawo yokuba bakwazi ukubhekana nezingxabano zabo, yize kulungile ukuthi unikeze izeluleko neziphakamiso ezisebenzayo - manje futhi uze ube mdala, lapho bezokwazisa kakhulu khona.

Futhi, vumela ingane yakho ukuthi yenze amaphutha futhi isingathe imiphumela yala maphutha. Ukuqina kwabo kungakumangaza. Esikhundleni sokubheka izingqinamba noma ukudumazeka njengesithiyo esikhulu sokuphila, kubheke njengethuba lengane yakho lokufunda nokukhula.

Ukukhuluma nabazali kanye nabeluleki besikole kungaba yindlela enhle yokuthola ukuthi yini esebenzela abanye.