IMatch.com Yembula Okushiwo yi-Emojis ne-CrossFit Mayelana Nempilo Yakho Yothando

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Abantu abasebenzisa ama-emojis maningi amathuba okuthi bathandane, kubika ucwaningo lwesihlanu lwonyaka lweSingles in America. Amaphesenti angama-52 ama-singles asebenzisa i-emoji asebenze okungenani usuku lokuqala ngonyaka owedlule, uma kuqhathaniswa namaphesenti angama-27 ama-bachelor (ette) afunga ama-smilies. Futhi, abasebenzisi be-emoji banamathuba aphindwe kabili kunababhali be-ole 'abathandekayo ukuze bafune ukushada. (Usukulungele ukuyisa ezingeni elilandelayo? Zama lawa macebiso ayisishiyagalombili ayimfihlo ongawasusa kokuvamile kuya kwezithandani.)

"Ubuchwepheshe bushintsha ngendlela emangalisayo indlela esiqomisana ngayo, kodwa abukwazi ukushintsha amasistimu obuchopho kwezothando nokunamathelana," kusho uHelen Fisher, Ph.D., Umeluleki Omkhulu Wesayensi Womdlalo. Ngakho-ke ungakhathazeki-uma ungazihlanyi ngama-emojis, ukuzivocavoca kwakho kungenzeka ukuthi kukuzuzele nezinsuku, ngokusobala: amaphesenti ama-50 wabantu abodwa abavocavoca umzimba okungenani kabili ngeviki aqhubeke okungenani usuku lokuqala ngo-2014, kuyilapho amaphesenti angama-33 kokutholakalayo okusebenzayo benza ucansi okungenani kanye ngenyanga ngonyaka odlule. Iqembu eliqhutshwa kakhulu usuku ngabantu abashiseka ngokweqile ngokuqina? AbakwaCrossFitters, ababenobulili obuningi futhi bahamba nezinsuku eziningi kunabangashadile abasebenza ngezinye izindlela! Qaphela i-yogi yesilisa nokho: Amadoda angashadile abenza i-yoga babe nabalingani bocansi abaningi kunabafana abajuluka ngezinye izindlela-isilinganiso sabalingani abangu-17, uma kuqhathaniswa nabayishumi kwamanye amadoda eqembu leminyaka yawo!

Yini enye esiyifunde ngabantu abangashadile eMelika? Bheka lawa amanye amaqiniso ayisithupha namathiphu ezitayela zokuthandana ngo-2015.

1. Gcina ifoni yakho iseduze. Amaphesenti angu-30 amadoda angashadile alindele ukusabela ngokushesha lapho ethumela umlayezo othile, uma kuqhathaniswa namaphesenti angu-26 abesifazane abangashadile.

2. Iphutha elikhulu kakhulu lesidlo sakusihlwa. Bobabili abesilisa bayavuma (yize bobabili abesilisa nabo benecala lalo): amaphesenti angama-72 wabantu abangashadile awafuni umlingani ongaba naye ukuthi asebenzise iseli lakhe kakhulu ngenkathi esathandana. (Unecala? Thola ukuthi Ungayihlanganisa Kanjani Umlutha Womakhalekhukhwini Wakho.)

3. Ukucisha ukuthumela imiyalezo. Abesilisa nabesifazane bayavumelana ngento eyodwa: Akukho lutho olumnandi mayelana namaphutha esipelingi. Amagama angapelwe kahle namaphutha ohlelo aboniswe njengemphumela omkhulu kubo bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane.

4. Sobabili sithola imilayezo esingayifuni. Abesifazane abafuni ukuthola imiyalezo yocansi emadodeni, kuyilapho amadoda engafuni ukuthola imibhalo ngesikhathi somsebenzi. Ngeke, uma ungafuni, ama-fellas!

5. Yeqa idrama. Inkundla yezokuxhumana ephezulu iyacisha? Ukusakaza idrama yakho engokomzwelo kokuthunyelwe (amaphesenti angu-65 amadoda; amaphesenti angu-78 abesifazane); ukuthumela ama-selfies amaningi kakhulu (amadoda angama-46 amaphesenti; amaphesenti angama-65 abesifazane); futhi ngikucela ukuthi ungabi umngane wakho wakudala (abesilisa abangamaphesenti angama-49; amaphesenti angama-59 abesifazane).

6. Thumela i-selfie yokuzivocavoca. Cishe uhhafu wabo bonke abantu abangashadile bathumele okungenani i-selfie eyodwa ngonyaka odlule, kanti ngenkathi kunesikhathi nendawo, kuvela ukuthi wonke umuntu unemibono eqinile kuma-fitstagrams: Amadoda avulwa kakhulu yizithombe zomzimba wowesifazane, kanti abesifazane zivaliwe kakhulu ngohlobo olufanayo lwe-pic kokuphakelwa komfana. (Yeka Ukuthatha Ama-Selfies Kulezi Zikhala Ezi-7)

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