Le Toy Yocansi Ayimiswa Njengomthondo - Nakhu Okubaluleke Kangaka

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• Eminyakeni yokunethezeka, ucansi luseseyinkinga
• Ngokufanayo, imikhiqizo kaMaude akuyona eyabesifazane kuphela - ifaka phakathi ubulili
• Cishe bonke ubulili buthengiswa njengemfihlo yabashadikazi abaqondile kuphela

Sifaka imikhiqizo esicabanga ukuthi ilusizo kubafundi bethu. Uma uthenga ngezixhumanisi ezikuleli khasi, singathola ikhomishini encane. Nansi inqubo yethu.

Inhloso kaMaude akukhona ukuxazulula izinkinga zakho zocansi nge-orgasm, ukukhombisa ukuthi kulula kanjani ucansi. Kepha ukuphela kwendlela yokwenza kube lula ukucabanga ngayo njengengxenye yempilo yakho yansuku zonke.

Ngabe ucansi lungaba lula? Njengezambane lomqeqeshi (kanye nomhleli wezempilo), ngicabanga ngalo mbuzo noma kunini lapho kudlalwa khona ucansi oluhlolwe ngokucophelela - noma kufanele ngithuthe izinto ziye ekamelweni. Iyiphi indlela engcono yokugcizelela ukuthi basebenzise ikhondomu ngaphandle kokubulala i-vibe? Ababonisi ukuthi ku-TV.

Ngenkathi u-"Grace noFrankie "weNetflix ebhekana nezocansi, kwaba nomuzwa wokuguqula isimo, kodwa ngenxa yelensi yamahlaya. Ngikhumbula ngigqolozele isidlidlizi esinsomi - ngokwesaba - ukwesaba. Ukusesha okusheshayo kwe-Google 'isidlidlizi' kukhombisa nokuthi umklamo we-bulbous we-show awukude kakhulu ne-zeitgeist yamathoyizi wezocansi.

Ama-vibrator ikakhulukazi anendawo ephinki noma onsomi ephezulu ekhala athi, "Ungakhohlwa ukungifihla!" Lokhu kufakwa umbala "kocansi njengokwemibhalo" kugxilile kangangokuthi ngiyahlazeka lapho okuqukethwe kwezocansi kusikrini.

Lapho engangisebenza naye ethula uMaude, inkampani yesimanje ebalulekile yezocansi, ngangi… ngididekile. Kepha ngokujabulisayo kunjalo. Ngingakwazi yini ukubeka imikhiqizo yabo ekhabetheni lami eliseceleni kombhede ngaphandle kokuba ugogo wami aphakamise isihogo? Imiklamo nemibala yazo ilingana ngaphandle komthungo kumagazini wokuphila waseSweden ngaphandle kokuphakamisa noma yimaphi ama-alamu - futhi yilokho kanye ukuhlanganiswa kwempilo yezocansi abahlanganyeli abasungula nabo u-Eva Goicochea noDina Epstein abakuhlosile.

Eminyakeni yokunethezeka, ucansi luseseyinkinga

“Siqaphele ukuthi akumnandi [futhi kuyaphazamisa] kubantu abaningi ukuthenga le mikhiqizo. Kumele futhi uthenge amakhondomu nezithambisi esitolo sezidakamizwa, bese uthenga amathoyizi ocansi esitolo sezocansi, okusho ngokungaqondile kubantu besifazane ukuthi 'i-orgasm yakho ayibalulekile,' ”u-Eva ungitshela ngezingxoxo zevidiyo naye noDina. .

Ngenkathi ucansi luyisidingo somuntu, izinhlamba zamasiko nezingxoxo zikhombisa ukuthi senza indlela eya ocansini oluhle ibe nzima ngangokunokwenzeka. Zingu-24 kuphela izifunda ezidinga ukufundwa ngocansi, kanti zingu-13 kuphela kuzo ezidinga ukuthi imfundo ibe neqiniso kwezempilo. Ngakho-ke mhlawumbe yingakho amaphesenti angama-30 abesifazane basekolishi bengakwazi ukukhomba i-clitoris, yize izibalo zibonisa ukuthi amaphesenti angama-36 abesifazane adinga ukukhuthazwa okuzayo. (I-Guardian iphinde yabika ukuthi amaphesenti angama-35 kuphela abesifazane e-UK abangafaka ngokufanele i-anatomy yabesifazane, futhi nabesilisa abangaphansi kakhulu abakwazi ukwenza lokho ngokunembile.)

U-Eva uyabona ukuthi lezi zinhlamba zimthinte kanjani esemdala. “Okukhulu kakhulu kimina bekuwukucabanga ukuthi ucansi lumayelana nobumnandi besilisa kuphela, ngoba ngicabanga ukuthi yilokho nje esikufundiswayo. Kuzwakala futhi ukuthi imizimba yethu yabesifazane iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ngoba asikhulumi ngayo kakhulu. Futhi-ke - uzizwa unamahloni ukukuhlola lokho njengesihloko bese uvuma ukuthi abantu besilisa baya ocansini kanti abesifazane abakwenzi lokho. ”

Lapho ngimbuza ukuthi yisiphi iseluleko anaso ngomuntu osemncane, uthi: “Ngishaya indlwabu ngaphambi kwesikhathi, futhi ngangizitshela ukuthi wonke umuntu kufanele azizwe ephephile, ekhululekile futhi enelisekile. Akufanele kube kuphela ngomuntu oyedwa. "

Ngokufanayo, imikhiqizo kaMaude akuyona eyabesifazane kuphela - ifaka phakathi ubulili

“Izinhlobo ezivele eminyakeni embalwa edlule beziqondene ngqo nabesifazane. Sonke sinamaphuzu obuhlungu afanayo ngokuthenga le mikhiqizo. Manje kungani bekungekho uphawu olubandakanya ubulili? "

Ngokusho kocwaningo olwenziwe ngonyaka ka-2014 yi-FHM, okuyimag yesilisa engasasebenzi manje, amaphesenti angama-70 amadoda athola ukuthenga amathoyizi ocansi kuyihlazo. “Siyazi ukuthi kunabantu abathile abangazivezi njengabesilisa noma abesifazane futhi bonke abantu baya ocansini. Sizama ukudala imikhiqizo ekhuluma ngezidingo zabantu - yawo wonke umuntu. "

Lokhu kubonakala esimweni sesidlidlizi sabo, okungesona isimo sobudoda obudala. Akubonakali ngokuphelele. “Isimo senzelwe ukuthi usisebenzise noma kuphi lapho uthanda khona, futhi akudingeki ube ngowesifazane ukuze usisebenzise. Asincomi ukuthi noma ngubani akubeke ngaphakathi [komzimba wabo] noma kuphi, kepha umqondo ukuthi ukuma kwe-ergonomic kuhle kakhulu kunoma yini. Izandla zakho, zimnandi impela. ” UDina ungikhombisa isidlidlizi, okuyisigaxa sezinyembezi esinde futhi esilingana kahle esandleni sakhe, njengedwala eliqine ngokweqile.

Uthi: "Ama-vibrator amaningi laphaya manje aphakathi kwe-10 kuye kuma-20 ijubane elihlukile, lokhu kulula. Eyodwa. Okubili. Abathathu. ”

Kepha uMaude akakashintshi konke mayelana nesidlidlizi. Igcina izinto ezinhle - njengokukhokhiswa nge-USB, ungangeni manzi, futhi usebenze kusistimu yemoto evivinywayo. Abesifazane abanama-vibrator abo uqobo bangayibona le buzz ehlekisayo. "Ukudlidlizela kunamandla kakhulu, futhi abesifazane abaningi bakhetha isidlidlizi esinamandla, kepha amathoyizi laphaya akhombisa ukuthi anakho asabisa kakhulu," kusho uDina, ebhekisa kuma-vibrator ashisayo abomvana izinkampani ebeziwapompa emakethe.

U-Eva noDina bathemba ukuthi le ngozi yokwakha izokhokha. Kepha, nangaphezu kwalokho, bathemba ukuthi umkhiqizo wabo ungaqala ushintsho. "Kuningi okufanele kwenziwe kusuka kwezemfundo nenqubomgomo," u-Eva uyavuma. "Kodwa kithina, sayizela ngakulo mqondo: Uma wenza enye indlela engcono - umkhiqizo abantu abazizwa sengathi uhanjiswa ngezwi elinobungane," elijwayele "ubulili njengento yansuku zonke - [bese] singaluthinta ushintsho futhi siqale izingxoxo ezingashintsha inqubomgomo ngempela. ”

Ingxoxo ezungeze isiko lobulili nobulili isivele iyashintsha, ngokushesha. Phakathi kwe- # MeToo, abesifazane nabesilisa baba nezingxoxo, bekhombisa ukuthi amahloni ezocansi, amahlazo, kanye nemfundo engeyinhle yezocansi kubeke kanjani izintandokazi zabo zocansi futhi kwaholela ocansini olubi. (Akumangalisi ukuthi isayensi ithi ucansi olubi nalo lungathinta kabi impilo yakho yonke.)

Cishe bonke ubulili buthengiswa njengemfihlo yabashadikazi abaqondile kuphela

Kimina, njengomuntu ohlale esemkhankasweni wokudalula umqondo wezocansi njengesizinda sabesilisa, indlela yokumema kaMaude iyajabulisa ngenxa yokuthi ifundise kabuhlungu kangakanani.

Izithambisi ezimbili zikaMaude, enye ye-organic aloe-based kanye nenye i-silicone ($ 25), zikhona emabhodleleni amaphampu angenakho ukumosheka. (Ngenkathi u-Eva noDina bengikhombisa ikhithi yabo, izinkumbulo ezifanelekayo ziyavela. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​engibe nakho ne-lube, ibhodlela lokukhama leplastiki lalishubile futhi limbozwe uthuli ngemuva.) Kubukeka futhi njengomswakama, ngakho-ke ungakushiya ngaphandle ngombhede wakho.

Amakhondomu abo angenamakha ($ 12 for 10) asephaketheni le-buttercup, okusho ukuthi uyazi ukuthi yiluphi uhlangothi indlela efanele phezulu (rim ngaphandle!) uma uyivula - bengingazi nokuthi amakhondomu abe nendlela efanelekile. Futhi isidlidlizi esithambile, abicah ($ 45)? Yebo, ukuma akuwuqinisi umqondo wokuthi ngidinga ipipi ngenjabulo.

U-Eva noDina bancoma ikhithi yokuhamba esikhundleni sokuthenga into ngayinye. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukukwazi ukuthenga konke ngasikhathi sinye kuyinto ebalulekile kaMaude. Kepha ukwenza ukuthenga ezocansi kube lula ngempela kwenza ubulili uqobo bube lula?

Ekugcineni, kuya ngomuntu. Ubulili buyinto eyodwa. Inhloso kaMaude akukhona ukuxazulula inkinga yakho nge-orgasm ethenjisiwe njengezinye izinkampani. Esikhundleni salokho, bakukhombisa ukuthi ucansi luyingxenye yempilo yakho yansuku zonke, hhayi ukuma kobusuku obubodwa.

"Umbuzo oqhamuke abaningi bethu ngothi:" Ngabe uzokwakhela abantu indawo yokuxoxa bodwa? Ngabe kuzoba khona indawo yokwenza lula kanye nemfundo? ’” U-Eva uyangitshela. “Siyethemba ukuthi sizofika lapho, ukuthi lo mkhiqizo uba ngumalusi walelo siko. Asifuni ukuthi kufanele usilalele, ngoba sikholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi lapho inkampani yomkhiqizo ikhiqiza okuqukethwe, kuhlale kuzwakala sengathi izama ukukuthengisela okuthile. Ngakho-ke asifuni ukuthatha lelo banga.Sifuna nje ukuba ngabagqugquzeli abanikela ngaleyo nkundla ukuze abantu babe nalezo zingxoxo lapho singaholeli khona njalo. ”

Zonke izinkampani, kunoma iyiphi imboni, zidayisa indlela yokuphila - abenzi bamathoyizi ezocansi abakhululiwe kulokho. Kepha indlela yokuphila iningi lomkhakha wamathoyizi wezocansi elinikezayo isunduza ukulandisa kocansi olulula kodwa olunobugovu. UMaude, ngokusebenzisa i-unisex yabo, idizayini encane, unikela okuphambene nalokho. Ngokwakhiwa, ngokunikeza isidlidlizi okungeyona eyendoda noma esinsomi, ngokubeka phambili ubudlelwano babantu esikhundleni somdlalo wokugcina - baqeda izingqungquthela ezake zakha izintandokazi zabantu zocansi.

Ucansi alwenzeli nje izikhathi ezimnyama, ezivuthiwe noma amava eze-njengoba-be-hamba. Kuyingxenye yansuku zonke yokuphila kahle, futhi indlela engcono yokuthola ukuthi ucansi lusebenza kanjani empilweni yakho ukutshala imali kuwe.

UMaude wethula ngo-Ephreli 2, 2018 futhi uzonikela ngamakhondomu, izinhlobo ezimbili zokugcoba, isidlidlizi, kanye nekhithi “ye-quickie”. Imikhiqizo izotholakala ku-getmaude.com.