Umlayezo Wokukhuthaza KaMiss Haiti Kwabesifazane

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ICarolyn Desert, ethweswe umqhele kuMiss Haiti ngasekuqaleni kwenyanga, inendaba ekhuthazayo ngempela. Ngonyaka owedlule, umbhali, imodeli, kanye nomlingisi ofisayo wavula indawo yokudlela eHaiti lapho eneminyaka engu-24 kuphela ubudala. Manje uyindlovukazi yobuhle ehlukanisiwe ene-M. ukunikeza abesifazane amandla: ukubamba imigomo yakho, ukuqonda imvelo yobuhle bangempela, futhi ulandele amaphupho akho-kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlala kuphi, noma isizinda sakho. Sibambene ne-trailblazer, futhi sathola ulwazi ngokuwina kwakhe komncintiswano, ukuthi uhlala kanjani efanelekile, nokuthi yini elandelayo.

Umumo: Unqume nini ukungenela imincintiswano yonobuhle?

Ugwadule lwaseCarolyn (CD): Lokhu empeleni bekungumncintiswano wami wokuqala! Angikaze ngibe intombi yokuphupha ngisemqhudelwaneni. Kepha kulo nyaka, nginqume ukuthi ngifuna ukuthengisa isithombe esisha, esisodwa esibuhle bangaphakathi nokufeza izinhloso. Ubuhle bomzimba abuhlali njengobuhle bangaphakathi. Imithombo eminingi kangaka itshela abesifazane ukuthi kufanele babukeke futhi bagqoke kanjani; ababaningi abesifazane abamukela izinwele zabo zemvelo namajika. Lapha eHaiti, lapho intombazane ineminyaka engu-12-kucishe kuhlelwe-sithola imvume, bese siphumuza izinwele. Amantombazane awakwazi ukuzibona ngenye indlela. Bengifuna ukusiza abesifazane ukuthi baqale ukuzithanda ngendlela abeza ngayo-futhi baqonde umehluko. Akukapheli isonto nginqobile-futhi amantombazane asemgwaqweni afike kimi athi ngonyaka olandelayo bafuna ukubamba iqhaza emncintiswaneni, futhi afane nami. Kakade, lo mcimbi usuwenzile umehluko.

Umumo: Yini ekwenze wakhetha ukucwila wavula indawo yokudlela?

I-CD: Ngingumuntu omusha futhi ngihlale ngizibekela imigomo yami. Ngifundele ukuphathwa kwezivakashi eFlorida International University.Ukwenza ezamabhizinisi bekuhlale kuyisifiso sami kanye nokulingisa nokumodela, ngakho ngazitshela, ‘Lapho sengineminyaka engama-25 ubudala, ngiyovula indawo yokudlela.’ Ngenza kanjalo. Ngabusiswa ngoba ugogo wathengisa indlu yakhe, wanginika nodadewethu imali yokuthenga indlu yethu. Esikhundleni salokho, ngisebenzise leyo mali ukuqala umsebenzi wami. Ngikwenze kusukela ekuqaleni, futhi ngiyaziqhenya ngendawo engiphuma kuyo, nokuthi ngaqala kanjani.

Umumo: Uthemba kanjani ukukhuthaza abesifazane-ezweni lakini nasemhlabeni jikelele?

I-CD: Ngifuna ukukhuthaza amantombazane ukuba abe namaphupho, afinyelele izinhloso zawo, futhi abonge ukubaluleka kwawo. Sinamandla kakhulu njengabesifazane. Sithwala umhlaba; singomama. Inhloso yami ukuqinisa nokuletha amandla emphakathini wesifazane waseHaiti nasemhlabeni jikelele. Uma singenamandla, ngeke sikwazi ukuqinisa izizukulwane ezizayo.

Umumo: KULUNGILE, kufanele sibuze: Unomzimba omuhle! Wenzani ukuze uhlale usesimweni?

I-CD: Ngiqale ukuzivocavoca okuningi ngaphambi nje komncintiswano. Ngangisebenza kabili ngosuku ejimini futhi ngibeka amamayela esitimeleni, noma ngaphandle. Ngiphinde ngadla ukudla okunempilo-kathathu ngosuku, ngingenawo ama-carbs alula, ukudla okulula njengezithelo namantongomane, futhi ngehla ngamakhilogremu angama-20. Bengidinga ukunciphisa umzimba. Ngokuvamile, angiyena umuntu wokuzivocavoca kakhulu futhi ngithanda ukwenza izinto zangaphandle. Kodwa bengilokhu ngishaya isibhakela kulezi zinsuku, futhi ngenza i-yoga. Ngenze futhi i-Insanity Workout-Ngizama ukwenza izinto ezahlukahlukene ukuyigcina ithakazelisa!

Umumo: Yini elandelayo ku-ajenda yakho?

I-CD: Nginomncintiswano kaMiss World e-London, futhi sengivele ngiyithathe njengento ebaluleke kakhulu indima yami entsha yokuba inxusa. Kuyathakazelisa ukubona inqubekelaphambili! Izolo, ngiye esikoleni ngabuza amantombazane, 'Buyini ubuhle?' Ngibe sengabelana nabo, ukuthi lokhu (ibhizinisi lami, izinhloso, amaphupho-nesinqumo sokwamukela ubuhle bami bemvelo) kuyingxenye yakho. Ngiyethemba-ke ukuthi ngizobuyela emuva enyangeni, futhi bazokhumbula. Ngifuna ukusebenza nezingane ngokwengeziwe, futhi ngivule izindawo zokudlela eziningi-esinye kwesinye isiqhingi, esisodwa ohlangothini olusenyakatho lweHaiti, futhi ngifuna nokuvula iloli lokudla! Ngifuna nokuqhubeka nokulingisa, ukumodela nokubhala. Ngifuna ukubhala ngesiCreole, futhi ngifundise amantombazane kuwo. Ngifuna ngempela ukukhuthaza abesifazane ukuthi bakhe-futhi babe nesibindi.

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