Iyini i-Oedipus Complex?

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• Ukubuka konke
• Imvelaphi eyinkimbinkimbi ye-Oedipus
• Izimpawu eziyinkimbinkimbi ze-Oedipus
• I-Oedipus ne-Electra complex
• Isixazululo esiyinkimbinkimbi se-Freud sika-Oedipus
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Ukubuka konke

Ebizwa nangokuthi i-oedipal complex, i-Oedipus complex iyigama elisetshenziswe ezigabeni zobungqingili zemfundiso yokuthuthuka nguSigmund Freud. Umqondo, owaqala ukuphakanyiswa nguFreud ngo-1899 futhi ungasetshenziswanga ngokusemthethweni kuze kube ngu-1910, usho ukukhangwa kwengane yesilisa kumzali wabo wobulili obuhlukile (umama) nomona ngomzali wabo wobulili obufanayo (ubaba).

Ngokomqondo ophikisanayo, izingane zibheka umzali wobulili obufanayo njengembangi. Ngokuqondile, umfana uzizwa enesidingo sokuqhudelana noyise ukuze anakwe ngumama wakhe, noma intombazane izoncintisana nonina ngokunakwa nguyise. Umqondo wakamuva wabizwa ngokuthi "yinkimbinkimbi ye-Electra," ngumfundi wangaphambili kanye nomhlanganyeli kaFreud, uCarl Jung.

Impikiswano igxile emcabangweni wokuthi ingane inemizwa yezocansi kumzali wayo. UFreud wayekholelwa ukuthi yize le mizwa noma lezi zifiso zicindezelwa noma zingezwa lutho, zisenethonya elikhulu ekukhuleni kwengane.

Imvelaphi eyinkimbinkimbi ye-Oedipus

Le nxanxathela ibizwa ngegama lika-Oedipus Rex - umlingiswa womdlalo odabukisayo kaSophocles. Endabeni, u-Oedipus Rex ubulala uyise ngokungazi futhi ashade nonina.

Ngokomqondo kaFreud, ukukhula kobungqingili ebuntwaneni kwenzeka ngezigaba. Isigaba ngasinye simele ukulungiswa kwe-libido engxenyeni ehlukile yomzimba. UFreud wayekholelwa ukuthi njengoba ukhula ngokomzimba, izingxenye ezithile zomzimba wakho ziba yimithombo yenjabulo, ukukhungatheka, noma zombili. Namuhla, lezi zitho zomzimba zivame ukubizwa ngokuthi ziyizindawo ezinamandla lapho kukhulunywa ngobumnandi bezocansi.

Ngokusho kukaFreud, izigaba zokukhula kobungqingili zifaka:

• Ngomlomo. Lesi sigaba senzeka phakathi kwezinsana nezinyanga eziyi-18. Kubandakanya ukuvaleka emlonyeni, nobumnandi bokuncela, ukukhotha, ukuhlafuna nokuluma.
• Ukuhlaziywa. Lesi sigaba senzeka phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-18 neminyaka emithathu ubudala. Igxila enjabulweni yokuqedwa kwamathumbu nokuthuthukisa imikhuba enempilo yokuqeqesha izindlu zangasese.
• Ubulili. Lesi sigaba siqala eminyakeni yobudala emi-3 kuye kwengu-5. Kukholakala ukuthi yisigaba esibaluleke kunazo zonke ekukhuleni kobungqingili lapho abafana namantombazane bethuthukisa izikhundla ezinempilo zokuheha kwabo umzali wobulili obuhlukile.
• Ukubambezeleka. Lesi sigaba sivela phakathi kweminyaka eyi-5 nengu-12 yobudala noma ukuthomba, lapho ingane iba nemizwa yokulala kwabobulili obuhlukile.
• Izitho zangasese. Lesi sigaba sivela kusukela eminyakeni yobudala eyi-12, noma ukuthomba, kuze kube semdala. Ukuvuthwa kwezintshisekelo zocansi okunempilo kwenzeka ngalesi sikhathi njengoba zonke ezinye izigaba zihlanganiswa nengqondo. Lokhu kuvumela imizwa nokuziphatha okunempilo kwezocansi.

Ngokusho kukaFreud, iminyaka emihlanu yokuqala yokuphila ibalulekile ekwakheni nasekuthuthukiseni ubuntu bethu babantu abadala. Ngalesi sikhathi, wakholwa ukuthi sikhulisa ikhono lethu lokulawula nokuqondisa izifiso zethu zocansi ekuziphatheni okwamukelekayo emphakathini.

Ngokuya ngombono wakhe, i-Oedipus complex idlala indima enkulu esigabeni sobudoda, esenzeka cishe eminyakeni emi-3 nengu-6 ubudala. Kulesi sigaba, i-libido yengane igxile ezithweni zobulili.

Izimpawu eziyinkimbinkimbi ze-Oedipus

Izimpawu nezimpawu zesakhiwo se-Oedipus akuzona ezocansi ngokweqile - uma kunjalo - njengoba umuntu angacabanga ngokuya ngalo mbono oyimpikiswano. Izimpawu ze-Oedipus complex zingaba ezicashile kakhulu futhi zifake isimilo esingeke senze umzali acabange kabili.

Okulandelayo ezinye zezibonelo ezingaba wuphawu lwenkimbinkimbi:

• umfana owenza into ethile ngonina futhi atshele ubaba wakhe ukuthi angamthinti
• ingane ephikelela ngokulala phakathi kwabazali
• intombazane ethi ifuna ukushada noyise lapho isikhulile
• ingane enethemba lokuthi umzali wobulili obuhlukile uphumela ngaphandle kwedolobha ukuze bakwazi ukuthatha indawo yabo

I-Oedipus ne-Electra complex

Isakhiwo se-Electra saziwa njengomlingani wesifazane wesakhiwo se-Oedipus. Ngokungafani nesakhiwo se-Oedipus, esibhekisa kwabesilisa nabesifazane, leli gama le-psychoanalytic libhekisa kwabesifazane kuphela. Kubandakanya ukukhulekelwa kwendodakazi kuyise kanye nomhawu wayo kunina. Kukhona futhi into ethi "umona wepipi" kule nkimbinkimbi, lapho indodakazi isola khona umama ngokumncisha ipipi.

Isakhiwo se-Electra sachazwa nguCarl Jung, omunye wamaphayona we-psychoanalysis futhi owayengumhlanganyeli we-Freud's. Yaqanjwa ngensumansumane yamaGrikhi ye-Electra. Enganekwaneni, u-Electra uncenga umfowabo ukuthi aphindiselele ukubulawa kukayise ngokumsiza ukuthi abulale unina nesithandwa sakhe.

Isixazululo esiyinkimbinkimbi se-Freud sika-Oedipus

Ngokusho kukaFreud, ingane kufanele inqobe izingxabano esigabeni ngasinye sezocansi ukuze ikwazi ukuthuthukisa izifiso zokuziphatha zocansi kanye nokuziphatha. Lapho i-Oedipus complex ingaxazululwa ngempumelelo ngesikhathi sesigaba sobudoda, ukulungiswa okungenampilo kungakhula futhi kuhlale. Lokhu kuholela ekubeni abafana bagxile komama futhi amantombazane agxile koyise, kubenze bakhethe abalingani abathandanayo abafana nomzali wabo wobulili obuhlukile njengabantu abadala.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Isakhiwo se-Oedipus singenye yezingxoxo ezixoxwa kakhulu futhi ezigxekayo kwisayikholoji. Ochwepheshe banayo, futhi bazoqhubeka nokuba nayo, imibono nemibono eyahlukene kule nkimbinkimbi nokuthi ngabe ikhona noma cha nokuthi ikuphi.

Uma ukhathazekile ngokuziphatha kwengane yakho, khuluma nodokotela wezingane wengane yakho noma uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo.