Ukuvumelanisa Isikhathi: I-Phenomenon yangempela noma i-Myth Popular?

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• Kuyini ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi?
• Umphumela weMcClintock
• Kodwa uthini ucwaningo lwamanje?
• Ivumelanisa nenyanga
• Kungani kunzima ukuvumelanisa ne-synchronicity
• Ukuthatha

Kuyini ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi?

Ukuvumelanisa ngezikhathi kuchaza inkolelo edumile yokuthi abesifazane abahlala ndawonye noma abachitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye baqala ukuya esikhathini ngosuku olufanayo njalo ngenyanga.

Ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi kwaziwa nangokuthi "ukuvumelanisa kokuya esikhathini" kanye "nomphumela weMcClintock." Kususelwa emfundisweni yokuthi lapho uhlangana ngokomzimba nomunye umuntu osesikhathini, ama-pheromones akho ayathintana ukuze ekugcineni, imijikelezo yakho yanyanga zonke ifole.

Abanye besifazane baze bafunge ukuthi “ama-alpha females” athile angaba yisici esinqumayo lapho wonke amaqembu abesifazane eba nokuvuthwa nokuya esikhathini.

Ngokwe-anecdotally, abantu abaya esikhathini bayavuma ukuthi ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi kuyinto yangempela eyenzekayo. Kodwa imibhalo yezokwelapha ayinalo icala eliqinile ukufakazela ukuthi kuyenzeka. Qhubeka ufunde ukuze uthole ukuthi yini esikwaziyo ngemijikelezo yokuya esikhathini yokuvumelanisa.

Umphumela weMcClintock

Umqondo wokuvumelanisa isikhathi usudluliselwe komama waya emadodakazini abo futhi kwaxoxwa ngawo ezindlini zangasese nasezindlini zangasese zabesifazane amakhulu eminyaka. Kepha umphakathi wezesayensi waqala ukuwuthatha ngokungathi sína lo mbono lapho umcwaningi ogama lakhe linguMartha McClintock enza ucwaningo lwabesifazane basekolishi abali-135 abahlala emgodini ndawonye ukuze babone ukuthi imijikelezo yabo yokuya esikhathini iyahambisana yini.

Ucwaningo aluzange luhlole ezinye izinto zomjikelezo, njengalapho abesifazane bevuthwa ngamaqanda, kodwa lwalandelela lapho ukuphuma kwegazi kwabantu besifazane njalo ngenyanga kwaqala. UMcClintock uphethe ngokuthi izinkathi zabesifazane, empeleni, ziyavumelanisa. Ngemuva kwalokho, ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi kwabizwa ngokuthi "umphumela we-McClintock."

Kodwa uthini ucwaningo lwamanje?

Ngokusungulwa kwezinhlelo zokusebenza zokulandela isikhathi ezigcina amarekhodi edijithali wemijikelezo yabesifazane, kunemininingwane eminingi etholakalayo manje ukuqonda ukuthi ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi kungokoqobo yini. Futhi ucwaningo olusha alusekeli isiphetho sokuqala sikaMcClintock.

Ngo-2006, enye yezincwadi yagomela yathi “abesifazane abayivumelanisi imijikelezo yabo yokuya esikhathini.” Lolu cwaningo luqoqe imininingwane kusuka kwabesifazane abangu-186 abahlala ngamaqembu endaweni yokulala eChina. Noma yikuphi ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi okubonakala kwenzeka, ucwaningo luphetha ngokuthi, bekungaphakathi kokuqondana kwezibalo.

Ucwaningo olukhulu olwenziwe yi-Oxford University kanye nenkampani yohlelo lokusebenza yokulandela umkhondo inkathi kwaba yigalelo elikhulu kakhulu kuze kube manje kumcabango wokuvumelanisa kwesikhathi. Imininingwane evela kubantu abangaphezu kuka-1,500 ikhombisile ukuthi mancane amathuba okuthi abesifazane bangaphazamisa imijikelezo yokuya esikhathini yomunye nomunye ngokusondelana.

Okuncane kakhulu kugcina umqondo wokuvumelanisa isikhathi uphila ngokukhomba ukuthi amaphesenti angama-44 wabahlanganyeli abebehlala nabanye besifazane ahlangabezana nokuvumelanisa kwesikhathi. Izimpawu zesikhathi ezinjenge-migraine yokuya esikhathini nazo zazivame kakhulu kwabesifazane abahlala ndawonye. Lokhu kuzokhombisa ukuthi abantu besifazane bangaba nomthelela ezikhathini zomunye nomunye ngezindlela ezingaphezu kwesikhathi sokuya esikhathini.

Ivumelanisa nenyanga

Igama elithi “ukuya esikhathini” liyinhlanganisela yamagama esiLatini nawesiGreki asho “inyanga” nenyanga. Kudala abantu bekholelwa ukuthi isigqi sokuzala sabesifazane sasihlobene nomjikelezo wenyanga. Futhi kukhona ucwaningo oluthile oluphakamisa ukuthi isikhathi sakho sixhunywe noma sivumelaniswa ngandlela thile nezigaba zenyanga.

Esifundweni esisodwa esidala esivela ku-1986, ababambiqhaza babhekana nesikhathi sokuphuma kwegazi ngesikhathi senyanga entsha. Uma le datha yesethi yabesifazane abangama-826 ibanjelwe bonke abantu, kuzokhombisa ukuthi owesifazane oyedwa kwabane unesikhathi sakhe ngesikhathi senyanga entsha. Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo lwakamuva olwenziwe ngo-2013 luphakamisile.

Kungani kunzima ukuvumelanisa ne-synchronicity

Iqiniso liwukuthi, kungenzeka singalokothi sibeke phansi ukuthi iyiqiniso kangakanani into yokuvumelanisa kwesikhathi, ngezizathu ezimbalwa.

Ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi kuyimpikiswano ngoba asazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi ama-pheromones lapho i-theory encike khona angathonya nini lapho isikhathi sakho siqala.

Ama-pheromones ayizimpawu zamakhemikhali esizithumela kwabanye abantu abasizungezile. Zikhombisa ukuheha, ukuzala, nokuvuka kocansi, phakathi kwezinye izinto. Kodwa ingabe ama-pheromones avela kowesifazane oyedwa angakhomba komunye ukuthi ukuya esikhathini kufanele kwenzeke? Asazi.

Ukuvumelanisa isikhathi nakho kunzima ukukufakazela ngenxa yokusebenza kwemijikelezo yesikhathi sabesifazane. Ngenkathi umjikelezo ojwayelekile wokuya esikhathini uhlala izinsuku ezingama-28 - kuqala ngezinsuku ezinhlanu kuya kweziyi-7 "zesikhathi" sakho lapho isibeletho sakho siphuma khona futhi uzwa ukopha - abantu abaningi abazizwani nezikhathi ngaleyo ndlela.

Ubude bomjikelezo obufinyelela ezinsukwini ezingama-40 busengaphansi kwendawo "yokujwayelekile" Abanye besifazane banemijikelezo emifushane enezinsuku ezimbili noma ezintathu kuphela zokopha. Lokho kwenza lokho esikucabangayo ngokuthi "ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi" imethrikhi ezenzakalelayo encike ekutheni sikuchaza kanjani “ukuvumelanisa.”

Ukuvumelanisa kokuya esikhathini kungavame ukuvela ngenxa yemithetho yamathuba ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye. Uma unesikhathi sakho sokuya esikhathini esingangesonto elilodwa ngaphandle kwenyanga, futhi uhlala nabanye besifazane abathathu, amathuba okuthi okungenani babe babili kini abazoba nesikhathi sakho ngasikhathi sinye. Lokhu kungenzeka kuqinise ucwaningo ekuvumelaneni kwesikhathi.

Ukuthatha

Njengezinkinga eziningi zezempilo zabesifazane, ukuvumelanisa kokuya esikhathini kudinga ukunakwa kakhudlwana kanye nocwaningo, yize kungaba nzima kangakanani ukufakazela noma ukuphikisa.Kuze kube yileso sikhathi, ukuvumelanisa kwesikhathi mhlawumbe kuzoqhubeka nokuphila njengenkolelo efakazelwe ngokungacabangi mayelana nezikhathi zabesifazane.

Njengabantu, kungokwemvelo ukuxhuma okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ngokomzimba nokwethu okungokomzwelo, nokuba nesikhathi "esivumelanayo" nelungu lomndeni noma umngani osondelene kungeza esinye isendlalelo ebudlelwaneni bethu. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi ukuba nesikhathi "esingavumelanisiwe" nabesifazane ohlala nabo akusho ukuthi kukhona okungajwayelekile noma okungalungile ngomjikelezo wakho noma ubudlelwane bakho.