I-Porn 'Umlutha' Kungenzeka Kungabi Umlutha Ngemuva Kwakho Konke

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UDon Draper, uTiger Woods, u-Anthony Weiner-umqondo wokuba umlutha wezocansi usamukelwe kabanzi njengoba abantu bangempela nabazenzisayo bekhomba ububi. Futhi umzala okhohlisayo wezocansi, umlutha wezocansi, empeleni kucatshangwa ukuthi kuvame kakhulu. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo oluyingqopha-mlando lwathola ukuthi amaphesenti angu-56 amacala edivosi angase afakwe kumlingani oyedwa othanda ubulili obungcolile. (Ingabe Umuntu Wakho Ujwayelekile Uma Kuziwa Ezocansi?)

Lapho lezi zinkinga zakhiwe njengezidakamizwa, sithambekele ekuzweleni, sibheke ukuthethelelwa kwezenzo njengokungekho emandleni okulawulwa yimilutha.

Inkinga kuphela? Umsebenzi osebuchosheni lapho othile ebuka i-porn empeleni iyona okuphambene ukuthi isabela kanjani lapho imilutha yibona i-cocaine, ugwayi, noma ukugembula, ngokocwaningo olusha olushicilelwe ku- I-Biological Psychology.

Kuyiqiniso ukuthi abantu abathile bahlonza "njenge-hypersexual," bebika isifiso esingalawuleki sokwenza ucansi noma ukukhuthazwa okube nomthelela omubi empilweni yabo, njengokubenza balahlekelwe umsebenzi noma ubudlelwano babo. (Yize ukubuka i-smut ne-sweetie yakho kungaba yingxenye yempilo enempilo yocansi. Thola ukuthi Ungayibuka Kanjani I-Porn Ndawonye.) Ngoba lokhu kuvumelana nemingcele yezengqondo yokulutha, abelaphi abaningi baphakamise ukuthi ukwelashwa ngokobulili nokulutha kocansi kulandele inqubo lokho okuwumlutha wezidakamizwa, njengokululama.

Kepha empeleni kunencazelo yezinzwa yokulutha umlutha futhi: Ubuchopho bomlutha bukhombisa iphethini elingaguquguquki lomsebenzi elibenza bathole umvuzo ngokuzithandela kwabo naphezu kwemiphumela engemihle. (Thola indaba ephelele yezinzwa ku-The Male Brain On: Porn.)

Esicwaningweni-obekuyisifundo esikhulu kunazo zonke se-neuroscience sokulutha kwezocansi kuze kube manje-abacwaningi bakhombise iziqeshana ezithandekayo nezingavumelani nezocansi kwabesilisa nabesifazane, abanye babo abangatholanga imikhuba yabo enezilinganiso ze-X inenkinga nabanye abakhombe njenge-hypersexual. Abaphenyi base belinganisa amandla abahlanganyeli abahle sekwephuzile (LPP), umsebenzi kagesi wobuchopho oboniswe ukuthi uyanda lapho imilutha ye-cocaine ibuka izithombe zomuthi. Futhi empeleni bathole ukuthi i-LPP yomhlanganyeli ibiyi ngaphansi lapho bekhonjiswa izithombe zocansi-okuphambene nalokho obekuzokwenzeka uma beluthwa ngokwasemtholampilo.

Lokho akusho ukuthi abantu abasebenzisa i-hypersexual noma "imilutha" ye-porn abanayo inkinga engalawuleki futhi ecekela phansi-kusho ukuthi badinga uhlelo lokwelashwa oluhlukile kunolomlutha wezidakamizwa noma wokugembula, ngoba umsebenzi wezinzwa awusona okufanayo. Ukuvuselelwa noma imishanguzo yemilutha, ngokwesibonelo, kungenzeka kungasebenzi ngoba indlela ye-neural kusuka ekuvuseleleni ukuvuza ihlukile kuma-hypersexourse. Ngakho-ke ngenkathi ungaba nenkinga yezocansi, awusona umlutha wobuchwepheshe.

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