Ngoba ukuzamula kuyathathelana

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• Kwenzeka kanjani ukuzamula okuthathelanayo
• Yini engakhombisa ukungabi khona kokuzamula

Isenzo sokuzamula ukusabela okungazibandakanyi okuvela lapho umuntu ekhathele kakhulu noma lapho enesithukuthezi, kuvela vele esibelethweni, ngisho nangesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ekubeni, kulezi zimo, kuhlobene nokukhula kobuchopho.

Kodwa-ke, ukuzamula akuzenzeli ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi kungenzeka ngenxa "yokuzamula okuthelelanayo", into ebonakala kuphela kubantu nasezilwaneni ezimbalwa, njengezimfene, izinja, izimfene nezimpisi, ezenzeka noma nini lapho uzwa, ubona noma ucabanga ukuzamula.

Kwenzeka kanjani ukuzamula okuthathelanayo

Yize kungaziwa imbangela ethile yokucacisa "ukuzamula okuthelelanayo", ucwaningo oluningi lukhombisa ukuthi le nto kungenzeka ihlobene namandla omuntu ngamunye wokuzwelana, okungukuthi, amandla okuzibeka endaweni yomunye umuntu.

Ngakho-ke, lapho sibona umuntu ezamula, ubuchopho bethu bucabanga ukuthi busendaweni yalowo muntu futhi, ngakho-ke, kugcina sekuqala ukuzamula, noma singakhathali noma sinesithukuthezi. Le yindlela efanayo eyenzekayo lapho ubona umuntu eshaya isando emunweni wakho futhi izinkontileka zomzimba wakho ziphendula ubuhlungu omunye umuntu okumele abuzwe, isibonelo.

Kwenzeka lokhu nje, olunye ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi ukuzamula kuyathathelana kakhulu kubantu bomndeni owodwa, bese kuba phakathi kwabangane, bese kuba phakathi kwabantu ojwayelene nabo, ekugcineni, abantu ongabazi, okubukeka sengathi bayayisekela imfundiso yokuzwelana, ngoba kunendawo enkulu esingazibeka kuyo indawo yabantu esivele siyazi.

Yini engakhombisa ukungabi khona kokuzamula

Ukutheleleka ngokuzamula komunye umuntu kuvame kakhulu futhi cishe njalo akunakugwenywa, kodwa-ke, kunabantu abathile ababonakala bengathinteki kalula. Ngokuvamile, abantu abathintekile kancane banehlobo oluthile lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okufana nalokhu:

• Autism;
• Ischizophrenia.

Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abantu abanezinhlobo zalezi zinguquko bavame ukuba nobunzima obukhulu ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi noma emakhonweni okuxhumana, ngakho-ke, abakwazi ukuzibeka endaweni yomunye umuntu, ekugcineni bangathinteki.

Kodwa-ke, kungenzeka futhi ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kwemine ubudala zingenakho "ukuzamula okuthathelwanayo", ngoba uzwela luqala ukukhula ngemuva kwaleyo minyaka.