Imibuzo emi-5 yocansi Obusaba Ukuyibuza, Iyaphendulwa

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• Konke ongakufundanga esikoleni, kodwa obekufanele ube nakho
• 1. Ingabe i-G-spot yinto yangempela?
• 2. Abesifazane baba kanjani nama-orgasms ngesikhathi socansi?
• 3. Ngabe usayizi ubalulekile ngempela?
• 4. Ngabe ukushaya indlwabu kunempilo?
• 5. Kumele ngabe isifazane sijule kangakanani?

Konke ongakufundanga esikoleni, kodwa obekufanele ube nakho

Imibuzo ngocansi empeleni ibeka phezulu ohlwini lwamaphuzu engxoxo angenakwenzeka. Singumphakathi ozimisele ngokugcina ubulili ebumnyameni. Ulwazi lungamandla, kepha ngokusobala hhayi uma kukhulunywa ngocansi.

“Lesi ngesinye sezinkinga ezinkulu emphakathini wethu ngoba asinazo izingxoxo ezinempilo, ezivulekile, nezingahluleli ngezocansi. Ukungakhulumi ngocansi kukwenza kubonakale kuyihlazo, kungcolile, futhi kungafanele, ”kusho uDkt. Kristie Overstreet, isazi sezocansi kanye nodokotela bezengqondo etshela iHealthline. "Abantu abaningi abaphatheki kahle ngokuba nalezi zingxoxo ngenxa yama-hang-hang abo, ukulwa nokuzethemba, imizwa yokungafaneleki, nokwesaba ukuthi abanye bazobabheka kanjani."

Ngenhlanhla, sinezimpendulo kweminye yemibuzo evuthayo, exakayo. Sonke besikhona. Akufani nokuthi ufunde le nto esikoleni.

Nayi eminye imibuzo yocansi ephezulu osaba ukuyibuza, iphendulwe.

1. Ingabe i-G-spot yinto yangempela?

O, i-G-spot engalindelekile: Ukudideka nokwesaba kwezixuku ezicindezelwe ngokocansi. UDkt. Wendy Goodall McDonald, MD, o-OB-GYN oqinisekiswe yibhodi utshela i-Healthline ukuthi ukukhuluma ngomzimba, i-G-spot iyakwenza hhayi khona. Vele, lena akuyona impendulo ephelele - okuyisikhiye esiphezulu esenza i-G-spot idideke kangako.

Njengoba umphenyi wezocansi ophayona uDkt Beverly Whipple ethola, i-G-spot akuyona into yayo, iyingxenye yenethiwekhi ye-clitoral. Lapho uvusa indawo ye-G, empeleni uvuselela isihloko se-clitoris - i-backend - ngaphakathi.

“Kungaba nzima kwabanye besifazane ukuthola le ndawo. Lokhu akusho ukuthi lowo muntu uphukile noma unamaphutha, kungenxa nje yokuthi abakwazanga ukuxhuma futhi bathola ubumnandi kule ndawo bekhuthazwa, ”kusho u-Overstreet.

Ungathola i- "G-spot" ngokufaka ithoyizi le-wand noma umunwe emgodini wesitho sangasese sowesifazane bese uphakamisa phezulu ngokunyakaza kwamahhashi. Kuyinto engaphansi "kwebala" nokuningi kwendawo. Kuyisiqeshana sezicubu zesiponji eduze kwesiponji se-urethral.

Kwabanye abantu, kujabula kakhulu ukuthi le ndawo ivuselelwe futhi yenzelwe abanye - hhayi kakhulu. Konke mayelana nokuthanda nokuzihlola.

2. Abesifazane baba kanjani nama-orgasms ngesikhathi socansi?

Injabulo enkulu ye-orgasmic ivela ku-clitoris. Kumele siyeke ukufaka ingcindezi engaka kubantu besifazane ukuba beze ngesikhathi sokungena.

“Iningi labesifazane lizwa i-orgasm ngokugqugquzelwa kwamasiko ngesikhathi socansi. Lokhu kungenxa yenani leziphetho zemizwa endaweni ye-clitoral. Lokhu kukhuthazeka kungaba ngesandla, umunwe, noma ithoyizi kungaveza i-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi lokungena, ”kusho u-Overstreet.

Wonke umuntu wesifazane unolwazi oluhlukile ngesikhathi socansi. Abanye besifazane bangaba nama-orgasms nge-G-spot bodwa, kepha iningi alikwazi. “Abanye bangaba ne-orgasm ne-G-spot. Abanye bangaba ne-orgasm ngokuhamba kwe-clitoris ngesikhathi socansi. Wonke umuntu wesifazane uhlukile kancane. Okukhethekile, ”kusho uGoodall McDonald.

Isihluthulelo senjabulo? Ukwazi umzimba wakho nokwazi ukuthi imiphi imizwa ezwa okuhle kuwe.

3. Ngabe usayizi ubalulekile ngempela?

Kusethangeni lolimi lwawo wonke amadoda: Ingabe ipipi lami lincane kakhulu?

Ijaji lisaphumile kulokhu, kepha ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi ezimweni ezithile, ubukhulu bendoda bungadlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu enjabulweni. “Abesifazane abanesitho esikhulu sangasese esikhulu bangadinga ipipi elikhudlwana ukuze bafinyelele ekuvuseleleni okudingekayo [ukuvusa] ingquza. Futhi kwabesifazane abahlangabezana nokuvuswa kwe-G-spot, indoda enepipi elincane kungenzeka ingakwazi ukufinyelela kuyo nokuyivusa, ”kusho uGoodall McDonald. "Ngakolunye uhlangothi, owesifazane onesitho sangasese esifushane angaba nobunzima noma ubuhlungu bokuthola ipipi elikhudlwana."

Isilinganiso sobukhulu bepipi singamasentimitha angu-5-6. Lokho kushiwo, kukhona izindlela zangempela zokwenza ucansi lokungena lumangalise, ngaphandle kobukhulu. Ufuna amathiphu? Bheka lento. Futhi gcina engqondweni, kukhona into efana nokuthi kukhulu kakhulu, futhi.

4. Ngabe ukushaya indlwabu kunempilo?

Ngokungafani nalokhu okungenzeka ukuthi uke wakuzwa, ukushaya indlwabu kuyimpilo futhi. Yebo, uzwe kahle. Kuthulisa ukucindezeleka futhi.

Ukushaya indlwabu kuyindlela enhle yokuhlola umzimba wakho nokuthola umkhawulo wakho wenjabulo. Kufanele utshele kanjani umuntu okufunayo uma ungazi ukuthi yini ezwakala kahle?

Vele, umbuzo uthi: Ungakwazi yini ukushaya indlwabu futhi okuningi bese wephula ipipi / i-clitoris yakho?

Le yinganekwane. U-Overstreet uthi kumayelana nokushintsha inqubo yakho. “Uma uqala ukubona ukuthi ulahlekelwa ukuzwela noma uzizwa undikindiki, ungahle uthande ukuthatha ikhefu endleleni yamanje oshaya ngayo indlwabu. Uma uhlala usebenzisa isidlidlizi, bese usishintsha bese usebenzisa iminwe yakho noma elinye ithoyizi. Awukwazi ukushaya indlwabu ngokweqile, kepha ukushintsha indlela oyisebenzisayo kuyindlela enhle yokuzwa umuzwa omusha. ”

5. Kumele ngabe isifazane sijule kangakanani?

Abesifazane abaningi bayazazi ngemisele yabo yangasese. Kunengcindezi enkulu yokuba "ngci" nengcindezi elinganayo emadodeni ukuze akwazi "ukugcwalisa" wonke umgqomo.

Umsele wesitho sangasese sowesifazane uyahluka ngobude futhi lapho uvuswa, ungakhula ngokusobala. “Yingakho i-foreplay ibaluleke kakhulu kwabesifazane abaningi, ikakhulukazi uma benemisele emifushane eyisisekelo. Umsele wesitho sangasese sowesifazane ungaba kusuka ku-3-4 inches ubude ekuphumuleni, kodwa ngibonile abesifazane abanezitho zobulili ezingaphezulu ezazifana namasentimitha angu-6-7, ”kusho uGoodall McDonald.

Isitho sangasese sowesifazane sifana nesokisi elibanjelwe ndawonye ngebhande lokunwebeka. Iyakwazi ukwelula bese ibuyela ngosayizi ojwayelekile. Kulelo nothi elithandekayo, ayikho into efana nokuthi "ukhululeke" kusuka ocansini oluningi. Ukuphela kwento eyenza i-vagin droop isikhathi nobudala.

Manje kunezindlela zokuthola ukulawula okwengeziwe kwemisipha yakho yangasese, uma lokhu kuyinto onentshisekelo yokwenza. Uma ufuna ukuqinisa imisipha yakho ye-PC (yabesilisa nabesifazane), funda lokhu bese ufunda lokhu.

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