USelma Blair Ubonga Le Ncwadi Ngokumsiza Athole Ithemba Ngenkathi Elwa Ne-Multiple Sclerosis

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Selokhu amemezela ukuxilongwa kwakhe kwe-multiple sclerosis (MS) nge-Instagram ngo-Okthoba 2018, u-Selma Blair ubelokhu ekhuluma ngokungananazi mayelana nesifo esingelapheki, kusukela ekuzizwa “egula njengesihogo” nokubekezelela imisipha ehlala isikhathi eside entanyeni nasebusweni, kuya kuye. ukulahlekelwa izinkophe zakhe.

Uma kwenzeka ungajwayeleki, i-MS yisifo esizimele lapho amasosha omzimba ehlasela ngokungafanele izicubu ezinempilo ohlelweni lwezinzwa oluphakathi.

Phakathi kwezimpawu zesifo ezingalindelekile kanye nemiphumela emibi yezokwelapha, uBlair uyavuma ukuthi, kwesinye isikhathi, ubelwela ukuhlala ethembeni. "Kusukela ngamakhemikhali nokwelashwa okuphezulu kwe-prednisone, ngilahlekelwe yilutho lokugxila ngamehlo ami," kusho uBlair kubhale ku-Instagram ngo-Agasti odlule. “Kuqala ukwethuka. Ingabe lokhu kuzohlala unomphela? Ngifika kanjani kwesinye isikhathi sokubonana nodokotela? Ngizosebenza futhi ngibhale kanjani lapho ngingaboni futhi kubuhlungu kangaka?"

Ngakho-ke kanjani i- Ngokomthetho Blonde umlingisi ugcine ikhanda lakhe liphakeme? Ushisa ikhandlela eliduduzayo eqoqweni lakhe elihlala linwetshwa, acwiliswe kubhavu onosawoti bokugeza owenziwe nge-CBD otuswe omunye umuntu ngaphandle kuka-Busy Philipps, futhi muva nje, uthola amandla angaphakathi ngokufunda indaba ka-Katherine noJay Wolf.

NgoLwesine, uBlair ungene ku-Instagram enikeza udumo incwadi esanda kukhishwa yalezi zithandani Bekezela Namandla(Ithenge, $ 19, barnesandnoble.com). Okungeyona inganekwane kufundiswe imininingwane ngezifundo ezifundwe yibo bobabili ngokuhlupheka, ithemba, kanye nomthelela wokushintsha umqondo wakho eminyakeni ecishe ibe ngu-12 kulandela ukushaywa yisifo sohlangothi kukaKatherine — isigameko esabulala kakhulu esamshiya engakwazi ukuhamba kahle ukukhubazeka ebusweni. (Okuhlobene: Izici Zobungozi Be-Stroke Bonke Abesifazane Okufanele Bazazi)

“Bengikudinga lokhu. Izolo, umngani wami ebengimthanda kakhulu ku-Instagram ubethula incwadi yakhe ethi #sufferstrongbook, ”kusho uBlair. “UKatherine noJay Wolf babhale incwadi enamandla ngempela, ejulile futhi ehlukile kunanoma yini engiyifundile. Kufudumele futhi kujabule. Futhi kujulile. Basinde ngokuchaza kabusha yonke into!”

“Ngimangele. Sicela uyifunde. Uzobabonga. Ngiyavuma. Ngiyabonga, ”kwengeza uBlair. “Futhi ukubhala kuphelele. Bathathe umgubho sebephelelwe yithemba. ”

Kungaphezu kokuthunyelwe nje kwe-Instagram, noma kunjalo.Lapho uBlair ekhuluma ngendlela incwadi emthinte ngayo noma engagunci ngomzabalazo wakhe wansuku zonke ne-MS, konke lokho kuyingxenye yomjikelezo wethemba, uKatherine utshela Umumo. Uma noma ubani osobala abelana ngendaba yakhe yokuhlupheka nokuthi uqhubeka kanjani nakho, kungasiza abanye abantu bazizwe bekhululekile ngobunzima bezimpilo zabo, usho kanje.

"Uma indaba yami ingaba yingxenye yokuphulukiswa [kukaBlair] nendaba yakhe, lokho kumangalisa kakhulu futhi kuyangikhuthaza ngempela," kusho uKatherine. “Ugqugquzela abanye ngogqozi olutholayo, futhi uyaludlulisela phambili. Sikubiza ngokuthi ‘ukuthembela phambili.’ Ukufaka omunye umuntu ngethemba onalo cishe kuyinto ebanda kunazo zonke esingayenza kulo mhlaba.”

Futhi ngokubukeka kwamazwana abhalwe ku-Instagram ka-Blair, umjikelezo wethemba ngeke ufinyelele eqophelweni eliphezulu kungekudala. “Ngiyabonga kakhulu,” kubhala omunye ophawulayo. “Ngicabanga ukuthi sidinga ithemba. Eminye yayo ayiphatheki, kwesinye isikhathi singafa ngaphandle kwayo. Nginethemba ngawe. Nginethemba kimi. Kunethemba elikhulu lokuhamba. ”

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