UShawn Johnson Uthole Okungokoqobo Mayelana Necala Lomama 'Ngemuva Kokunquma Ukungamunyisi

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Uma kukhona okuthile uShawn Johnson nomyeni wakhe u-Andrew East, abakufundile ezinyangeni ezintathu selokhu bamukela ingane yabo yokuqala emhlabeni, ukuthi ukuvumelana nezimo kubalulekile.

Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezintathu abazali abasha belethe indodakazi yabo uDrew, ekhaya bevela esibhedlela bakhungathekile ngokukhala kwakhe okungapheli. Wayengatatazeli, ukunyakaza yena kwadingeka Wazi kahle esibhedlela, futhi ubesebenzisa imicu yakhe emincane yezwi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu osemgumbini uyayazi. “Wayenjengokuthi, Angisafuni ukwenza lokhu,” kusho uJohnson Umumo.

Umbhangqwana wawumiselwe ukuncelisa ibele, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangaki izidakamizwa abazama ngazo kanye nabaluleki abazilethile ukuze basize, u-Drew wayengenayo. Ngokushesha ngemuva kwalokho, babiza ukuqiniswa okudingekayo — ipompo lesifuba nebhodlela. “Ngikhumbula ngipompa okokuqala, ngamnika ibhodlela, futhi wajabula ngaso leso sikhathi,” kusho uJohnson. "Ungabona ukuthi ilungile kuye."

Ukondliwa kwamabhodlela kwakusebenza kahle kwaze kwathi, emasontweni amabili kamuva, kwacaca ukuthi uJohnson wayengakhiqizi ubisi lwebele olwanele. Ngobunye ubusuku obunzima kakhulu, obugcwele izinyembezi, u-East uthi wangena kwimodi kababa ephelele waqala ukucwaninga ngezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zobisi lwebele. Ufike ku-Enfamil Enspire, kanti lezi zithandani (manje ezingabakhulumeli balo mkhiqizo) ekugcineni zithathe isinqumo sokwengeza ubisi lwebele lukaJohnson ngefomula.

Akubona kuphela abazali abasha abenza lokhu kukhetha, futhi. Ngaphandle kwesincomo seAmerican Academy of Pediatrics 'sokuncelisa ibele kuphela ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokuqala zokuphila, zingaphansi kwengxenye zezinsana ezinceliswa ibele kuphela ezinyangeni ezintathu zokuqala, futhi lelo nani lehla laya kumaphesenti angama-25 ezinyangeni eziyisithupha, ngokusho kwe Izikhungo Zokulawulwa Nokuvikelwa Kwezifo. Futhi, njengoJohnson, abanye omama bangase bakhethe ukwengeza noma ukuphakela ubisi oluyimpuphu kuphela uma bengalukhiqizi ubisi olwanele, benezimo ezithile zempilo, bebuyela emsebenzini, noma benomntwana ogulayo noma ozalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi. (ICYMI, uSerena Williams uyekile ukuncelisa ibele ukulungiselela iWimbledon.)

KuJohnson, ukuphambuka embonweni wokuthi “ibele lingcono kakhulu” ngokuncelisa indodakazi yakhe ubisi lwebele kanye nobisi lwebhodlela kwakuyisinqumo esifanele, kodwa namanje kwakumenza abe necala. "Nginomuzwa wokuthi kunesigcwagcwa lapho ukuthi uma ungancelisi ukuncelisa ibele, ngandlela thile uzofinyela ingane yakho," kusho uJohnson. "Kungumuzwa omubi njengowomama, uzizwa sengathi ufushane, futhi angicabangi ukuthi omama kufanele bazizwe kanjalo ngoba bengekho."

Le ngcindezi yokuba ngumama “ophelele” ayiweli kuphela kwabathole izindondo zegolide kuma-Olympic. Isigamu sabomama abasha siba nokuzisola, amahloni, ukuba necala, noma intukuthelo (ikakhulu ngenxa yezinkinga ebezingalindelekile kanye nokuntuleka kokwesekwa), futhi abangaphezu kwamaphesenti angama-70 bazizwa bephoqelekile ukwenza izinto ngendlela ethile, ngokusho kocwaningo lomama abayi-913 abathunywa ISIKHATHI. KuJohnson, lokhu kuza ngendlela yokuphawula kwansuku zonke okuvela kubantu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana — noma abangani — bemtshela ukuthi angaqhubeka nokuzama ukuncelisa noma abuze ukuthi ngabe uke wazama yini ukubuyisela uDrew esifubeni sakhe ukuze abone ukuthi uzothanda yini. (Related: Ukuvuma Kwalomfazi Okudabukisayo Ngokuncelisa Ibele Kungu-#SoReal)

Noma uJohnson naseMpumalanga befunda izincomo eziku-inthanethi zezinqumo zabo zokuba ngabazali, bafundile ukwamukela isikhumba esijiyile. Bazama ukuzikhumbuza ukuthi kumele babe sendleleni eyiyo uma indodakazi yabo ijabule, iphilile, futhi isuthisiwe — hhayi ukumemeza nokukhala. Ukuya eMpumalanga, ukugudluka ohlelweni lwabo lokuqala lokudla sekwenze umshado wabo waqina nakakhulu: Ngokuthwala umthwalo omningi, uyakwazi ukukhombisa uJohnson ukuthi utshale imali futhi uzimisele ukwenza noma yini angayenza, uthi. Futhi, i-East manje isiyakwazi ukuba nezikhathi ezisondelene namathuba okusondelana nendodakazi yakhe ebingenakukuthola.

Futhi komama abazizwa bephoqelekile ukuba bakhulise ingane yabo ngendlela ethile noma bahlulelwe ukuphambuka esimweni esikhona, uJohnson uneseluleko esisodwa nje: Hlala wena kanye nengane yakho. Uthi: “Ngicabanga ukuthi, njengabazali, anikwazi ukulalela abanye abantu.” Bashumayela lokho okubasebenzelayo, ngakho-ke bacabanga ukuthi kulungile. Kepha udinga nje ukuthola ukuthi yini ekufanele. Iyona kuphela indlela ozosinda ngayo.”

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