Ukuqwashisa nge-HIV: Kubukiswa ngomsebenzi womculi olwela amalungelo

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• Nikeza isizinda esincane sokuthi ungubani njengomculi. Uqale nini ukudala umsebenzi wobuciko?
• Watholakala nini une-HIV? Kukuthinte kanjani wena nezithombe zakho?
• Yini eyaholela ekutheni uhlanganise umsebenzi wakho wobuciko nemiyalezo emayelana ne-HIV?
• Yimiphi imilayezo ofuna ukuyithumela kwabanye abaphila ne-HIV ngemidwebo yakho?
• Yimiphi imilayezo ofuna ukuyithumela emphakathini jikelele nge-HIV?

Nikeza isizinda esincane sokuthi ungubani njengomculi. Uqale nini ukudala umsebenzi wobuciko?

Ngazalelwa futhi ngakhulela e-Edmonton, e-Alberta - idolobha elaziwa njengendawo yenkomo yenkomo ne-petroleum yaseCanada, eyakhiwe phakathi kwamathafa nasemuva kwezintaba iRocky Mountains.

Ngikhulile sengibabaza ukudwetshwa kwezitimela ezithwala impahla ngagcina ngiqale ukuhlanganyela kulelo siko. Ngakhulisa uthando lokwenza izithombe futhi ngagxila ekwakheni ubuciko ngemuva kokutholwa kwami ​​yi-HIV.

Watholakala nini une-HIV? Kukuthinte kanjani wena nezithombe zakho?

Ngatholwa ngine-HIV ngo-2009. Lapho ngithola ukuthi ngitholakele, ngaphatheka kabi emoyeni. Ukuholela kulelo qophelo, bengizizwa nginqotshwe kakhulu futhi ngiphukile. Sengivele ngazizwa ngisondelene kakhulu nokufa kangangokuthi ngalinganisa ukucabanga ngokuqeda impilo yami.

Ngikhumbula sonke isikhathi sosuku lokuxilongwa kwami ​​ngize ngiphume ehhovisi likadokotela. Endleleni ebuyela ekhaya labazali bami, ngikwazi kuphela ukukhumbula imizwa nemicabango, kodwa akukho nokukodwa okuzungezile, ukubukwa, noma imizwa.

Ngenkathi ngikuleso sikhala sekhanda esimnyama nesesabekayo, ngamukela ukuthi uma lokhu bekuyiphuzu lami eliphansi kakhulu, ngingaya kunoma iyiphi indlela. Okungenani, impilo ayikwazanga ukuba yimbi ngokwengeziwe.

Ngenxa yalokho, ngakwazi ukuzikhipha kulobo bumnyama. Ngaqala ukumema impilo eyayizonqoba lokho okwakubonakala kuwumthwalo ngaphambili.

Yini eyaholela ekutheni uhlanganise umsebenzi wakho wobuciko nemiyalezo emayelana ne-HIV?

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​okuphilayo kokuhamba ngezinselelo njengomuntu one-HIV, futhi manje njengobaba, ngazisa umsebenzi omkhulu engikhuthazelwe ukuwenza. Ukubandakanyeka kwami ​​nobudlelwano bami nokunyakaza kobulungiswa bezenhlalo nakho kuyashukumisa ubuciko bami.

Isikhathi esithile, bengikhululeka kakhulu ukuziqhelelanisa nokukhuluma nge-HIV kunoma yini engingayenza.

Kepha ngesikhathi esithile, ngaqala ukuhlola lobu buhlungu. Ngingazithola ngivivinya imingcele yokwenqena kwami ​​ngokudala umsebenzi ngokususelwa kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami.

Inqubo yami yokudala ivame ukufaka ukusebenza esikhaleni esingokomzwelo nokuzama ukunquma ukuthi singasimela kanjani ngokubonakalayo.

Yimiphi imilayezo ofuna ukuyithumela kwabanye abaphila ne-HIV ngemidwebo yakho?

Ngingathanda ukudlulisa okunye kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​siqu ukwethula ama-nuances wokuthi ukukhungatheka, ukwesaba, izinselelo, nokulwela ubulungiswa kungahle kube nokuhleleka, okukholekayo, nokwenzekayo.

Ngicabanga ukuthi ngilandela impilo ehlungwe nge-lens engenakugwenywa ye-AIDS, kanye nezinhlelo ezenziwe ngumhlaba wethu ezivumela lokhu ukuthi kuchume. Bengilokhu ngicabanga lokho engizokushiya ngemuva ngethemba lokuthi kungasebenza njengethuluzi lamathuluzi ukuqonda ukuthi ngingubani, nokuthi konke lokho kungena kanjani kuphazili lobudlelwano bethu komunye nomunye kulokhu kuphila nangale kwalokho.

Yimiphi imilayezo ofuna ukuyithumela emphakathini jikelele nge-HIV?

Singabangani bakho, omakhelwane, imizimba ehlotshaniswa nenye inzuzo yesisa, imbangela yokuqala eneribhoni, abathandi bakho, izindaba zakho, abangane bakho abanezinzuzo, kanye nabalingani bakho. Siyimpi yakho yezinhlelo zezempilo ezingcono, nokususwa kwezithiyo ekufinyeleleni kwabo. Futhi siyimpi yakho yezwe elakhiwe elingenamahloni, futhi esikhundleni salokho ligcwele ububele nozwela.

Ngemuva kokutholwa kwakhe nge-HIV ngo-2009, uShan Kelley waphefumulelwa ukuthi athole izwi lomuntu siqu, lobuciko, nelipolitiki ngaphakathi komongo wezifo nobunzima. UKelley ubeka umkhuba wakhe wobuciko usebenze njengesenzo sokulwa nokunganaki nokuzinikela. Usebenzisa izinto, imisebenzi, kanye nokuziphatha okukhuluma kwansuku zonke, umsebenzi kaKelley uhlanganisa amahlaya, ukwakheka, ubuhlakani nokuthatha ingozi. UKelley uyilungu lomculi we-Visual AIDS, futhi ukhombise ukusebenza eCanada, e-USA, eMexico, eYurophu naseSpain. Ungathola okuningi komsebenzi wakhe ku-https: //shankelley.com.