USimone Biles Wabelana Ngokuthi Kungani "Aqedile Ukuncintisana" Nabanye Abantu Amazinga Wobuhle

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AmaCelebs nabashushisi abanjengoCassey Ho, Tess Holiday no-Iskra Lawrence kade babiza iBS ngemuva kwezindinganiso zanamuhla zobuhle. Manje, owine izindondo zegolide kuma-Olimpiki amahlandla amane, uSimone Biles wenza okufanayo. Indlovukazi yezokuzivocavoca yangena ku-Instagram ukuze yabelane ngokuthi ithintwa kanjani ukuhlanjalazwa umzimba nokunyakazisa, nokuthi kungani lolu hlobo lokuziphatha kufanele luyekwe.

"Asikhulume ngokuncintisana," esho. "Ngokuqondile umncintiswano engingazange ngawusayinela futhi ngizizwa sengathi usucishe waba yinselelo kimi nsuku zonke. Futhi angicabangi ukuthi yimina ngedwa."

"Kuma-gymnastics, njengakweminye imisebenzi eminingi, kunomncintiswano okhulayo ongahlangene nokusebenza uqobo. Ngikhuluma ngobuhle," kuqhuba uBiles.

Lo msubathi wabelane ngomlayezo wakhe onamandla njengengxenye yomkhiqizo wokunakekelwa kwesikhumba, umkhankaso we-SK-II we-#nocompetition, odalelwe ukukhuthaza abesifazane ukuthi baphile ngezincazelo zabo zobuhle.

Eqhubeka nokuthunyelwe kwakhe, u-Biles wabelane ngokuthi kungani izindinganiso zanamuhla zobuhle ezingafinyeleleki ziyinkinga kangaka nokuthi uye wabhekana kanjani namazwana aluhlaza ahlambalaza umzimba phakathi nomsebenzi wakhe. (Okuhlobene: Isitshudeni Sithatha IYunivesithi Yakhe Ngendatshana Enamandla Mayelana Nokuhlazeka Komzimba)

"Angazi ukuthi kungani abanye bezwa sengathi bangachaza ubuhle bakho ngokuya ngamazinga abo," wabhala. "Ngiye ngafunda ukubeka phambili ngakuyeka okuningi ukushibilika. Kodwa ngabe ngiqamba amanga uma ngingakutshela ukuthi abantu bathini ngezingalo zami, imilenze, umzimba wami… ngendlela engibukeka ngayo engutsheni, i-leotard, isudi yokugeza noma ngisho namabhulukwe avamile akungehlisi ngezinye izikhathi."

Nakuba u-Biles engazange anikeze imininingwane ethile mayelana nalawa mazwana ahlazisa umzimba, kungenzeka ukuthi wayebhekisela esikhathini adubula ngaso i-troll eyayimbiza ngokuthi "mubi" ngo-2016. "Nonke ningahlulela umzimba wami ngakho konke enikufunayo, kodwa ukuphela kosuku ngumzimba WAMI, "wabhala, ezivikela kuTwitter ngaleso sikhathi. "Ngiyayithanda futhi ngikhululekile esikhunjeni sami."

Kwesinye isigameko, ngemuva nje kwemidlalo yama-Olympics e-Rio ka-2016, u-Biles nozakwabo, u-Aly Raisman no-Madison Kocian bonke bahlazekile ngenxa yama-troll ngemuva kokuthi u-Biles efake isithombe sabathathu emabhikini abo. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, u-Raisman usephenduke ummeli oshisekayo wokuqina komzimba, wabelana ngezindaba zokuhlekwa usulu ngenxa yezicubu zakhe ngenkathi ekhula futhi ehlanganisa amandla nemikhiqizo ethuthukayo efana ne-Aerie.

Ngenkathi uBiles azi kahle ukuthi angawavala kanjani ama-troll ahlazisa umzimba, usabona isidingo sokushintsha indlela abantu abahlulela ngayo futhi baphawule ngemizimba yabanye — ingasaphathwa eyomqondo ongafanele wokuthi abanye bay enesihloko ukuphawula ngomzimba womunye umuntu kwasekuqaleni, ubhale ku-Instagram kuleli sonto. "Njengoba ngicabanga ngakho, akudingeki ngibheke kude kakhulu ukubona ukuthi lesi sinqumo sesivame kangakanani," wabelane. (Okuhlobene: Kungani Ukuhlazeka Ngomzimba Kuyinkinga Enkulu Kangaka nokuthi Yini Ongayenza Ukuyiyeka)

Ezweni lapho kulula khona ukuzwa sengathi uchazwa yilokho abanye abakucabangayo, u-Biles ukhumbuze abalandeli bakhe ukuthi okuwukuphela kombono obaluleke ngempela owakho. (Okuhlobene: Abesifazane Emhlabeni Wonke Isithombe Sabo Somzimba Omuhle)

"Ngikhathele yiyo yonke into empilweni esephendulwe umncintiswano, ngakho-ke ngiyazimela mina nabo bonke abanye abadlule kokufanayo," kubhala yena, ephetha ukubhala kwakhe. "" Namuhla, ngithi sengiqedile. ukuncintisana [na] nezindinganiso zobuhle kanye nesiko elinobuthi lokunyathela lapho abanye bezwa sengathi abakulindele akufezeki. Ngoba akekho umuntu okufanele akutshele noma angitshele ukuthi ubuhle kufanele bube kanjani noma bungafanele ukubukeka kanjani. "

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